Monday, April 29, 2013

35

So, I had a birthday this week.

I turned 35.

I realize that now, I am closer to 40 than 30.
And that there is the same amount of years difference between a 20 or 50 year old and me.

Strange thoughts I know.
But I love numbers.
And I think about these kinds of things.

But I LOVE this age.
Seriously.

This past year has been a huge revelation for me.
I'd like to think it's due to a wiser me.
Or maybe my growing faith.
Or my holistic doctor.
Or feeling grounded.
Or finding hobbies.
Or having time for myself.
Or my loving family and friends.
Or being where I need to be.
Or my attitude.
Or just being HAPPY.

Whichever the case, I am taking it all in and enjoying every minute.
And thanking God and everyone else who has brought me to this place.

These past 35 years have treated me well (maybe the last one not so much, but that's okay), and I truly feel this next year is going to be my best yet.

Thoughts that I am living by and will continue to be inspired by:

Be nice.
Be thankful.
Be TRUE.
Be honest.
Be you.

Thank-you all for sharing with me the last 8 months.  For the emails, comments, thoughts, conversations--everything!  Be on the lookout for the FINAL chapter to this year sabbatical. 

**Don't worry. I'm not done blogging. But I am starting a new chapter in my life:o) **


Top 10 for the Week:

10.  Goodbye Crib.  It's been quite the challenge.  One afternoon during nap time, I counted over 200 times that he opened the door to his room.  Needless to say, I gave up and just laid down with him.  Instead of forcing the issue, we've been doing this.  It takes anywhere from 5-30 minutes to get him down.  But honestly, right now, I don't mind.  And I don't even mind the fact that he gets up ONE time at night--to which we do the same.  I know, we should be a bit tougher...but it's SO hard.  Maybe when Mal gets out of school:o)  Who knows.

9.  Recipes.  I have not been in the cooking mood lately.  But I did make my own veggie stock this past week and some zucchini muffins.  I'm hoping my cooking/baking drive comes back soon.

8.  Ant Farm.  We've had a bit of ant attack in our house.  No need to worry.  Just little ones.  But my kids LOVE them.  In fact, Mal creates "ant traps" to capture her "friends."  And Clay will walk around with a bowl with one or two of them in there.  The ants are not hurting anything YET.  The kids sure do enjoy watching them.  I think it's cute.

7.  Crankiness.  Mal has been outta sorts lately.  So outta sorts, that this momma is going crazy.  I'm hoping it was the full moon last week.  We will see.

6.  Classmate's Bday.  One of Mal's preschool friends had a birthday party yesterday.  She enjoyed herself so much.  I couldn't compete with the horse rides, hay rides, trampoline, cats, and other outdoor rides.  Honestly, she didn't even notice I was there.  It was bittersweet.  But I LOVED seeing her truly enjoy being with her friend:o)

5.  Clayisms.  STILL hugely afraid of bugs.  And the bee sting he got on Saturday didn't help it.  And it also made Mal more afraid of bees as well.  He's enjoyed his time outside--rolling huge rocks down the driveway, driving his scooter down the hill, saying goodbye to the playground when we left and then kissing the slide!!! Yes, that's our child.  He's been obsessed with wearing his rain boots and his winter coat.  Strange yes.  But it doesn't surprise me:o)  He's loving watching Mal play T-ball and wishing he could do it as well.  (He LOVES popcorn and is in popcorn heaven at the games~!)

4.  Malloryisms.  Miss Cranky-this-past-week has been better today.  I'm really hoping it was just a bad week.  And she knows it.  She told me that it was her fault that she didn't take a nap--not mine.  Oh girly.  I didn't enforce it, which technically makes it MY fault.  Honestly, her vocabulary is amazing me.  Some of her word choices are more descriptive than some of the fifth graders I've had in the past.  But I guess I don't use baby words.  And I either I explain or she asks what the mean.  Sometimes it will be a chain reaction.  Where every word I use to explain that word, she asks what it means.  It's okay with me.  I love expanded her vocabulary:o)  She also enjoyed the outdoors this week--making mud pies, riding her bike, playing with WORMS, looking at ants, taking walks.  WE are an outdoorsy family and I love it.  She had her second T-ball game this week which she did a lot better!!  She actually ran to first without having to be told and grounded a few balls.  I was so extremely proud of her. 

3.  Outdoors.  Gosh I love this weather.  Not too hot, not too cold.  Just perfect.  Lots of time outside today especially.  I feel like I've started summer a month early than all my old co-workers:o)  I'm loving the age the two kids are at right now.  Easy to entertain for sure.

2.  Butterfly Garden.  We love our Northrup friends.  All FOUR of us.  We were lucky enough to be able to go with them to the butterfly gardens in GR on Saturday.  Mal was a bit disappointed that the butterflies didn't land on her, and Clay was freaked out because a few almost landed on him.  It was hysterical!  They enjoyed playing outdoors and I was amazed at how much was there for the kids.  It was a beautiful morning and lunch with them:o)  But I'm not surprised.  It always is:o)

1.  My Birthday.  Loved it.  Face book always helps:o)  It's great to think that that many people care enough to write a Happy Birthday on your wall.  Maybe I'm cheesy like that, but it made me feel good.  I also received several calls and emails from friends and family--which some even brought me to tears.  My dear SIL also persuaded me to have a girl's night out with dinner and painting pottery on my actual birthday.  And boy am I glad I did!  We had so much fun and it was such a mixture of old and new friends.  I can't wait to pick our pottery up on Thursday!  My hubby pulled through too.  Flowers, hutch, and dinner on Saturday at Woodfire.  A much needed date night.  Which by the way--the babysitter had NO problem putting Clay to sleep.  AND in fact, had him asleep the earliest THIS week.  Yeah, she's good.  REAL good.

I truly feel blessed where I am and the people I have surrounded myself with.  And I think birthdays help remind you of this.  And make you feel extremely special.

May is HERE.
We get new counter tops tomorrow:o)
Yes, those are the highlights of my next week! Ha!

Here's to a warm, sunny rest of the week!!
So long April!!

Until next week,
Mrs. Newell



Sunday, April 21, 2013

Happy Pill

I am not ashamed to admit that I have been on and off antidepressants since my early 20's.

Being laid-off, moving, pre-wedding stress, going back to work after first baby, and lastly, going back to work after SECOND baby.  All these times--in my eyes--required a little bit of extra help from a tiny, happy pill.

The last time was by far the worst and most memorable.

I vividly remember every detail of that I-can't-take-this-anymore-I-need-help moment.

It was the Friday before Labor Day, I had just had several days of Professional Development which also happened to be my first time away from my 4 month old son. 

I was home alone with both kids.

All three of us (my daughter, son, and I), were in his room.  He was crying, she was asking for something, and I was stressed about having my classroom ready, preparing them for daycare, and trying to enjoy my time at home while I STILL had some.  Did I mention that I was crying too??

For some irrational reason, I put in the call to my doctor and was transferred to a nurse.  STILL crying.  Not just my son, but myself as well. 

"I need to be put back on some medication.  I think I'm going through a bit of postpartum depression." (between sobs of the two of us and my daughter demanding something).

"Honey, do you think you can come in this afternoon?" asked the nurse.

Yeah, it was 2:00 in the afternoon which happened to be nap time.  I hadn't taken a shower, I think the kids were still in their pajamas, and my face was bright red from crying.  Needless to say, I couldn't stop CRYING. 

Yeah lady--I can just hop in my car, drive 30 minutes with my newborn and 2 year old, to sit in an office during their nap time, and wait for my doctor to see me--to inevitability be put on some little happy pill to make me FEEL better than the uncontrollable crying I'm experiencing now.

I ALMOST laughed.  But I was too far away from that happy place to even muster a chuckle.  So, I just reasoned with her.  And she got me in as soon as she could which was the following Tuesday after school (which meant MORE time away from my kids).

The happy pills helped but didn't help everything.  It stopped the crying, overwhelming sadness, and crazy spurts.  But I still had sad moments and a HUGE pull to see my kids every minute that I wasn't working.  Which meant I was tired, wore out, and just plain cranky the majority of the time.  And on top of that my body was also physically dealing with a lot of medical issues (food sensitivities and such--you all know, if you've been reading my blog). 

Can you imagine living with me??  Kudos to my hubby.  And my kids.

I can laugh about this now.  Even smile.  Because I am at a MUCH better place in my life. 

With the help of my family, friends, a SUPER chiropractor/holistic doctor, staying at home, developing some of my OWN hobbies, my growing faith, blogging, healthy eating, and just plain ME time, I am the kind of mother today that I have always wanted to be to my kids (this makes me tear up joyfully).

I know this may sound strange.  But I never felt myself after having our second child.
BUT I DO NOW.  Thank God.

With that being said, this leads me to weaning myself off of these little happy pills that I have relied on for the past two years or so.  With the help of my holistic doctor and regular doctor, I've been weaning off of my antidepressant this week. 

Ummmmm....yeah, it was horrible.  I felt JUST like I did a year ago with all my food sensitivities.  It seems my body is/was quite addicted to this little happy pill.  My body ached, fatigued, joints hurt, muscles ached, major headaches, back ache--it was HORRIBLE.  And I almost gave in and took another pill, just to take away the awful feeling.  I guess that's what it's like when you are addicted to any drug--but antidepressants, really??? I am still dumbfounded by this.  And a little embarrassed to admit.  BUT if this helps anyone--I'm all for it.  Because, it wasn't a piece of cake this week.  But I'm glad the worst is over and will soon be medication free:o)

It's all part of my plan.
My healthy living process.

But, honestly, who would have thought a little happy pill had so much punch to it???

Top 10 for the week:

10.  Withdrawal.  Read above and you'll understand. 

9.  Flat Tire.  I have the greatest luck with flat tires.  I think this is my third in less than 1 1/2 years!  I was lucky this time, and I was still in the driveway when I noticed something was strange.  Jay was out of town for a meeting which left me truly stranded.  Thanks to my SIL, Mal had a ride home.  And I finally called a tire place and had a man come out and change it for me:o)  He seriously did it in like 20 minutes.  I was amazed.  It was so worth the $40. 

8.  Nana Hates Spiders.  My mom came and stayed with us for four nights:o)  Nothing like having a housewife to help you along in your day.  (Sorry mom, it's true.  I love you.)  Anyways, Mal slept downstairs with her the first night.  They were up until 10:30--way past Mal's bedtime.  And I think Nana's too.  Mal was shining her flashlight into the dark corners of the basement telling Nana she saw spiders.  Which Mal knows Nana HATES spiders.  Yeah, our little 4 year old was teasing my mother.  Her grandmother.  I could hear them uncontrollably laughing downstairs as I warned them they should go to bed.  "Nana, if Momma comes down here, I'll just pretend I'm sleeping."  Miss Mallory Jayne Newell.  I know Nana loved it, but we did pay for it that next day.  Miss Grumpy-Needs-More-Sleep-Mallory came out to play.  But we dealt.  And I know it was a fun moment for both of them.

7.  Kind Words.  Lots of sweet words and random acts of kindness from people around me this week.  A sweet Face book post from a dear friend, a gift from Mal's preschool teacher, and positive energy calls from family and friends lead to a very uplifting week. 

6.  Shopping with my mom.  Is fun.  Exhausting.  And rushed.  But we made every stop, got everything we needed for the party, and proceeded to be home just before eleven.  Nothing beats shopping with your Momma--even if it's just for a few hours.

5.  Clay's Photos.  UGH.  I should have known when I rescheduled them for 11:20 on the Friday OF his birthday, that that was a bad idea.  But I couldn't possibly stand him having his BIG boo boo in the pictures.  The first photographer wasn't that great--we barely had any pictures to work with.  Luckily, they had an opening right after lunch.  So we ended up doing TWO photo shoots that day.  He did much better with the second photographer (I will request her next time) and I'm excited to get them back.

4.  Clayisms.  When I started typing this, he was crying in his room because he didn't want to go down for his nap.  Well, then he walked out of his room with his water.  Yeah--he climbed out of his crib.  We were all waiting for that moment.  And we knew it was coming.  Since he DOES know how to climb out of his bed.  Looks like we may need to change our crib into a toddler bed:o(  At least he fell asleep in my arms for nap time today. 

3.  Malloryisms.  She had a bit of a difficult time dealing with Clay's birthday this year.  She is not an attention seeker by any means, but she does love getting a little.  And with Clay's pictures, party, presents, etc, she was acting out a bit more than she usually does.  It probably didn't help that we were super busy getting ready and doing things this week.  Even spending some extra time with her this morning and Jay taking her out to the burn pile during Clay's nap, have seemed to lift her spirits.  And it seems Mal is back to her normal self.

2.  The Great Outdoors.  Early this week, the kids and I spent the morning outdoors cleaning out flowerbeds and making a new fort in two pine trees.  The kids LOVED it.  And I have to admit I did too:o)  We also spent the majority of this afternoon outside.  Warm sunshine, chirping birds, getting your hands dirty--what's not to love!

1.  Clayton's 2nd Bday Party.  Was a huge hit!  It was by far the easiest to put together so far.  It could have been my mom being here the majority of the week or a friend of mine who had left over decorations from her son's first construction birthday party or maybe I'm getting used to parties??? Not sure, but we all had a good time.  Especially the birthday boy.  He had SO much fun, he didn't want to go to sleep last night.  9:30 and he was still up wanting to party.  Let's hope this isn't a every-birthday-kind-of-attitude for him:o)

Well, I made it early this week!!
Yeah for me! 
I hope you are enjoying this warm weather today!!
I am about to head back out into it:o)

Have a great week!
Until next week,
Mrs. Newell


Thursday, April 18, 2013

Two Different Kids = A Great Combination

**Most of this was actually written on Monday...but do to the craziness of the week I'm JUST now getting to finishing and posting it!**

As I watched our son lick our cement driveway yesterday, I was again affirmed of the difference between our two children.

One girl.  One boy.

Complete opposites from even the beginning! 
I can even go as far back as to their actual pregnancies!
But, I won't go that far.

Mal was an easy baby--slept well (was on a schedule even!), nursed well, didn't cry much, and really didn't even move much.  Her flat head proved that:o)

Clay was different.  He never really got on a schedule to nap, he refused to nurse, cried and sounded uncomfortable all the time, and MOVED all the time.  His enormous ROUND head proved that as well!

After discovering Clayton's acid reflux, his disposition did change.  He was a MUCH happier baby but continued to puke (I use puke because to me the amount of it was like puke) and naps were few and far between.

Mal listened, followed directions, sat quietly.
Clayton listened in his own way, constantly jabbered, and moved everywhere all the time.
(A true BOY, I guess you could say).

Fast forward to today, and they are still complete opposites.

Mallory is shy.  Keeps to herself.  But will order her meal at a restaurant or answer a question someone asks (for the most part).  She is definitely opening up more due to preschool.  But she is still reserved most of the time.   

Clayton is very outgoing for an almost 2 year old.  He will hug anyone who stands next to him (two different incidents last week of this) and loves to smile at anyone and everywhere.  He LOVES to stand out--and in my opinion, even tries:o)

Mal LOVES nature.  Bugs, animals, dirt, mud.  She is not afraid to get her hands dirty or go after a worm she finds in the ground.

Clayton loves nature but is more of a stay in the grass kind-of-guy.  He is afraid of any bug and refuses to touch anything that moves.  He LOVES to watch and that's it.  Getting his hands dirty is NOT fun for him.  However, he seems to enjoy eating dirt and licking rocks:o)

Clayton RUNS everywhere.  And MOVES everywhere.  He never stops.  Ever.

Mallory runs, but not all the time.  She enjoys walking around, observing things, pretending.

The older they get, the more differences they have from each other. 

But I feel like these differences make a great combination together.

Mal finds and handles the worms while Clay watches on.
Clayton runs and gets what Mallory needs to capture a bug.
Mallory creates a magical scene in her head while Clayton acts it out.
Clayton breaks the ice in uncomfortable social situations for Mallory.

I love watching the bond between them.  The relationship building.  How they rely on each other.  How well they get along (at least most of the time).  Don't get me wrong, they have their moments.  But I can't imagine them not having one another. 

And I'm glad they have each other to keep them company, to play with, to entertain, to pretend, to help, to enjoy, and to love.

Top 10 for the Week:

10.  Rainy Days.  Lots of rainy days this past week.  Luckily, I had a few good ideas on how to occupy our lovely children.  TWO massive forts and a NEW bean/rice table--where a HUGE hit.  I mean HUGE.  They are loving the bean and rice table--and it's big ($40 with of beans/rice big).  The best $40 I've spent in a LONG time.  Love it!!

9.  T-Ball Practice.  Mal had her first Tball practice.  It was adorable.  She was hanging in there:o)  Shy but open to following the rules.  I'm excited to witness their first game!!

8.  WORMS.  On our way out to get the mail, Clayton noticed a worm.  And then another.  And then another.  It was crazy!  I couldn't believe how many there were around us in the grass.  BOTH of them loved it.  However, Mal was the only one that would actually touch them.  Must have been the perfect weather. 

7.  Morning Alone.  One day this past week, Jay had to be at a meeting fairly early in the morning.  Which meant I had to get the kids up, ready to go, and out the door to Mal's Preschool.  I would like to report that we handled ourselves well.  Thanks to Mal's stomach there were little tears!  I've started this little "game" with her.  I pretend to have a conversation with her stomach.  Silly.  Yes.  But it works.  In fact, upon breakdown that morning, I pulled the stomach convo and we were smooth sailing!  Seriously.  Try it.

6.  Recipes.  Not much too new.  Just made my own white cake from scratch.  I tried a bite (due to it NOT being GF) but the hubster loved it.  And so did the birthday girl--my SIL:o)  Jay even got in on the baking--and made from scratch strawberry frosting.

5.  Accomplishment.  TWO days this week I felt like we accomplished a lot of spring cleaning.  I know, I'm obsessed lately.  During a rainy day, I started cleaning, rearranging, and gutting our basement.  We finished it on Sunday--along with the garage and a few outdoor things.  Always makes me feel good to get some of those "to-do" things off my list.

4.  Clayisms.  Hello TWO!! He's definitely two early.  Well, and I guess the fact that he's finally getting his last two teeth in, doesn't help.  After talking to him several times about his behavior, I found it rather comical (and even laughed after feeling frustrated) and even ironic that my son was pretending to take my blood pressure.  Seriously.  I can't make that up.  And even when he was acting crazy, my Miss Mallory was a gem.  Looking forward to celebrating his birth next week:o)

3.  Malloryisms.  The more she talks, the more she sounds like me:o)  It's scary.  We had a lot of up and down days.  Seems it was the trend of the week.  While making a fort for the kids, Mal commented on how little brothers aren't suppose to have big blankets.  It was cute--and meaning that SHE should have the big blanket instead.  Of course, right?  She also had a make-up ballet class which her teacher turned into a princess party.  It was too cute and so much fun for the gals.  I'm getting excited to see her on stage--but also nervous for HER!  New word this week:  Available. 

2.  Baby Shower FUN.  I helped host a baby shower for a dear friend of mine this weekend.  It was a huge success!  Lots of fun, laughter, and excitement.  Looking forward to holding a new baby REAL soon.

1.  The Good.  The Bad.  The Ugly.  It is amazing to me how completely different each day can be.  This is very similar to teaching.  So I guess the correlation there is the kids?  OR is it ME?:o)  Anyways, let's first talk about the good:  playing in sand table very therapeutic, Mal calling one day the "best day ever," watching the kids play in the sand table on our back deck out the kitchen window while I cook dinner, playing (dolls, kitties, doctor, dancing, and everything else!).  The bad:  having a wine glass fall and shatter into tiny pieces all over the kitchen, bickering kids, rainy weather, bickering kids.  Overall, I still feel pretty good about last week.  And when I really think, write, and reflect back on last week--I have a lot to be thankful for in my life.

That's it folks!
I know that in JUST a few days...I'll be posting again. 
Because I'm LATE this week.
But better late, than never!

Hope you are all having a great week!!
And I'll see you in a few days!:o)
Until next week,
Mrs. Newell

Sunday, April 7, 2013

Lifestyle Change

The more I read and research,
The more I'm aware,
The more I adjust the food I buy for my family.

Some think I've gone "Amish."
Some think I've gone crazy.
Some are very interested

But I like to think of it as helping our family for the future.
Developing healthy habits for us.
Preparing our bodies with a strong immune system.

Because I HAVE seen a difference in my body from changing my diet.

A better mood.
Less bloating.
Stronger, more energy.
More patience (crazy I know).
Less sickness--headaches, nausea, colds.
Overall, a much better mind, body, and soul.

Because of FOOD.

Which proves even more how important it is to seriously look at the food you are eating and how it effects your body.

Don't get me wrong, I'm not perfect. 

The jelly beans I ate by the handfuls today (70% off at Target--I bought one bag to limit my intake).
And I do allow splurges out.
But I know the effects it will do on my body.
And for me--GLUTEN is not worth it.
The other sensitivities--not so bad.

My husband and kids still eat a little differently than me.
My gluten free, dairy free, peanut free, soy free, tomato free diet doesn't totally entice them:o)

But I choose wiser choices for them and create meals that are healthier and catered to me.
And almost everything is HOMEMADE now.

I've noticed a difference in our kids too.

More attention.
More energy (if that's possible!).
Less moodiness.

Overall, this whole eye-opening experience has benefited me immensely and I am extremely proud to talk or share it with anyone who is willing to listen.

Which brings me to the next step?
I've had a request to blog about my daily meals...
To me, this seems like too much work.
I've thought about opening another Facebook account--posting recipes, substitutes, etc.
But I'm not sure that is the right move for me.
Any thoughts?  Ideas? 

This is not a fad that I am going through.
This is a lifestyle change.

Top 10 for the week:

10.  Water IN the House.  Yeah, so early this week I had the great idea of putting water in the water table INSIDE the house.  Kids loved it.  It was a bit messy...but totally worth it.  Would do it again in a heartbeat.  Just wish it would have kept them a bit more entertained than it did.  I think having it outside will really do it.  Excited to have it.

9.  Productive Sunday.  Jay chopped wood this morning while the kids and I headed to Target in Kalamazoo.  In the afternoon, we started/finished a few projects around the house.  Felt great to be outside and to get a few much-needed things done.  Too bad it has to rain for a few days now!!

8.  Christmas Music.  Accidentally pressed the Christmas music CD in my car this week.  Was a HUGE hit with the kiddos...and I have to say it wasn't that bad for me either.  We've listened to it EVERY time we've gotten into my car.  Kids start dancing and singing along.  In fact Mal even commented on how one of the songs was from Mary's point of view.  She is an extremely spiritual (or interested in faith) 4 year old.  And sometimes it is hard to answer her questions.  But I find her innocence and curiosity so reassuring.  To the point that it's even helped me in my faith. 

7. Go BLUE.  Michigan won.  My husband is extremely happy.  Which makes me happy:o)

6.  Totally Awesome Tuesday.  Tuesday was busy for us, but we had a ton of fun.  I had a chiropractor appointment early, took the kids to Bounce Land (which they LOVED), and met a friend for lunch at Olive Garden (which we all LOVE--and I avoided the bread sticks IF you can believe that!  I still can't!).  My kids were good--for the most part:o)  It was nice to get out and to be able to experience new things with the kiddos. 

5.  OUTSIDE.  What a great week.  Yes, it was a bit chilly this week.  But towards the end it was GREAT!  I enjoyed playing with our kids outside and using another space than inside!  We finally took the kids' scooters outside.  I'm a bit sad about this...because this means they won't be back inside.  Clay freaks me out going down our BIG hill in our driveway.  Seriously.

4.  Malloryisms.  Mal's spring break was this week.  It went SO fast.  And I can say that I enjoyed having her home (it helped not having to rush in the morning and driving to and from Paw Paw every other day).  After getting out so much on Tuesday, Mallory requested herself to stay home JUST us on Wednesday.  It was nice to have a chill out day.  Alone.  And it helps with her attitude.  Which she has been having some.  Testing the waters I guess you could say.  But IF I'm smart about it (which I've been a few times) I'm able to talk or reason her out of it.  To the point where she apologizes and goes along with what I have planned.  There was an incident in the car this week--which was going bad--but I luckily pulled a fast one on her and she came around:o)  Let's just see if I can keep that up!  A few cute sayings:  "Don't worry Mommy" (referring to the sandbox sand that has rocks in it.  She doesn't seem to mind).  "I'm tickling myself.  I have a hole in my pocket and I can tickle my leg." (Was even more hilarious in person).  "I can't wait to meet Mary.  Mom, are you excited to meet Mary?"  (Jesus' Mom:o)).

3.  Clayisms.  He can open the fridge.  BIG problem.  He LOVES to eat.  Fruit.  All the time.  Tonight, he grabbed strawberries (which were washed) and an orange.  He likes to do everything on his own now, which means peeling the orange (or banana).  Unfortunately, he has to bite it first to get it to start to peel:o)  Such a clever little kid.  This week he's also decided to potty train himself.  Every time I head to use the bathroom, he follows, pulling his pants down.  Thank goodness.  I thought I missed my chance in November when he was willing and I had a kidney stone.  But it seems he's ready!  Which is perfect!  Too bad he's still scared of his poop in the potty:o)  I also took Clay with me to my haircut.  He was such a good little boy.  Sat in the chair next to me and just watched.  Then played with a few bottles and that was it.  I was shocked and extremely proud.  He's finally getting the whole out-in-public thing!!

2.  Mallory & Mommy Date.  One of my greatest friends, suggested taking our girls to a pottery painting store.  We had SO much fun.  And it was great to be able to spend some quality time with Miss Mallory.  She just eats that up so much!! And acts SO great afterwards.  It's amazing what a little extra attention does to kids.  Met the boys out for dinner afterwards.  A great time had by all.  It's crazy how big our kids are getting.

1.  Spring Break.  Mal's spring break was this past week (and would have been mine too, IF I was teaching).  BTW:  Met up with some lovely teacher friends for dinner--another GREAT time and makes me feel connected to my old job.  It was great to have her home...we did a few things that we wouldn't have done normally.  Lots of outdoors.  Lots of laughs.  Lots of just plain enjoying each other.  And of course a few fights.  But still makes me excited for summer:o)

That's a wrap.
I'm ready to go veg on the couch!

Have a great week back my teacher friends.

Until next week,
Mrs. Newell


Monday, April 1, 2013

Top 10

Top 10 for the week:

10.  Hoops for Heart.  Heard my old school was doing Hoops for Heart on Thursday.  Includes a staff/student game and pies in the face for teachers.  Used to be one of my favorite days when I was teaching.  It was great to see old students and teachers.  Made me a LITTLE sad.

9.  Daddy Love.  So, I'm not really sure how to say this so I'll just be blunt.  Mallory has Jay wrapped around her finger:o)  Went to Tractor Supply on Wednesday to see the little chicks.  Mal was very insistent on having a stuffed bunny.  I was very insistent on her NOT because she has like 100's of stuffed animals.  Jay told me he would take care of it so I walked out to the car with Clay.  Yeah, he came out with the bunny AND a duck for Clay.  He was shaking his head and telling me not to say anything.  Mal had a GINORMOUS smile on her face.  Priceless.

8.  Voice.  So, I think it's pretty common knowledge that I've changed our diet in our household.  I mean, not totally, but quite a bit.  Anyways, I LOVE it when people ask me or inquire about what I'm doing and why. 

7.  Night Out.  While home in Ludington, Jay and I were able to meet up with my old roommate and her husband.  We had a great time catching up and watching the Michigan game.  It had been a really long time and we enjoyed ourselves. 

6.  Bible Study.  Every Wednesday (or most at least), my dear friend from high school and I share a phone call bible study together.  It has been GREAT.  I love catching up with her and hearing about everything!  Amazing!  I feel like I've found my long lost buddy from elementary school--but EVEN better.  What a great midweek break.

5.  Recipes.  Crock pot Beef Stew was a hit!  Except for Mr. Picky (Clayton Newell).  Also made breakfast cookies--that were not good.  And my FIRST pie and it just happened to be gluten free too!!  Both families (at least the people that tried it) seemed to enjoy it:o)  I think it's rather tasty.  In fact, I just finished another piece.

4.  Warmer weather.  Prior to today--the weather has been gorgeous.  The kids and I even ate lunch out on the back deck one day and were able to enjoy the sandbox for a few days.  BEFORE it started to snow again! Ugh.  But...after tomorrow, it looks very promising.  Let's hope!

3.  Clayisms.  Is getting rather feisty.  He has this new stance when he doesn't get his way.  He crosses his arms in front of him, head down, and stomps one foot.  It's the most adorable thing.  And it's so hard not to laugh at him.  A few more phrases:  good dog, no more, hat on, shoe on.  He's getting there.  Definitely trying harder to communicate with us and is showing an interest.  Which is HUGE. 

2.  Malloryisms.  Mallory had her first conference on Wednesday.  It also happened to be my FIRST conference where I wasn't leading it!  She is doing great except for being a little shy.  Coming out of her shell though.  This week I was also reminded about Mallory's great memory.  She retold the story of when Jay brought a little grey bunny into her bedroom and how excited she was to see it.  I had fancy shoes on this week (fancier than usual because of NO snow) and Mal asked if I was going on an anniversary:o)  Because I only wear those shoes when I go on an anniversary.  I explained that she truly meant a date.  So, then she asked when she was getting a date with Alise (our babysitter).  I'm jumping on that one.  She also reminded me this week about calling Tipper's friend's house (doggy daycare) for the weekend.  Such a smart little girl.  Makes me nervous.  Her momma's memory isn't the greatest.  Could bite me in the butt!

1.  Easter.  Easter with family is always great.  Had a chance to celebrate with both sides of our families.  Kids loved it.  But are extremely tired from the festivities.  So is Mommy and Daddy. 

Well, that's a wrap.
Boy is up and poopy.
Joy.

Hope you all have a great week.
Until next week,
Mrs. Newell