I read another article this week referencing motherhood and the common phrase, "Enjoy it, because it goes by way too fast."
As newer mothers or mothers of young kids, we hear this a lot from older mothers.
It's true. I feel it. I mean, four years and poof--I have a 4-year old!
It does go by fast.
But this new mother was talking about how there are days when we truly do NOT enjoy it.
And I get that. Maybe even a week for goodness sake!
There are some good and some bad moments of being a mother. And we all try the best we can to take away as much from it as possible. While trying to keep them clean, fed, stimulated, educated, and whatever else we feel is important.
It's a lot. And sometimes it IS hard to enjoy.
That was me this week and maybe even today (I know, after 48 hours without them, today was still rough. WHY??? No clue). But I'm here. Sane. Because I'm blogging, with green tea in hand, and the lullaby music I hear from my daughter's room as she naps.
And we look at the positive stuff or things we enjoy that happen in just one day.
Mal cutting out hearts I had made for her. She was elated.
Clay snuggling with me this morning while we watched a few cartoons.
Playing "camp out" in Clayton's room where the bear (AKA Tipper) was about to get us.
Both kids eating the healthy lunch I cooked them.
Both kids falling asleep like 5 minutes after leaving our play date this afternoon AND still sleeping when I carried them up to their rooms.
Priceless.
I'm not perfect. I still worry too much about having a clean house, doing laundry, and trying to make EVERY moment count with our kids. I still get upset when my kids don't listen, when they talk back, or when they fight.
BUT then I take a step back and realize, nothing really matters. The ONLY thing that truly matters is loving our children. And making them feel loved. And that is what I enjoy doing (MOST of the time at least).
Which counts in enjoying "it."
Right?!?!?!
Top 10 for the WEEK:
10. Gluten FREE. I was tested for food sensitivities this week and found out that Gluten along with 17 other foods bother me. NO wonder I can't seem to stop these headaches or the nausea that comes every moment of the day but then worse at night. Man is it going to be a challenge. But just like the pop (THREE months now!!), I'm going to do it. If it means feeling normal again, I'm all for it. I am tired of it!! Since Thursday, I have tried my best with the situations I've been in to watch what I eat. And this is what I have discovered. My body is a wreck. It definitely reacts to these foods. Who knew??? I meet with a Nutritionist this week...which I'm really excited about. Here's to a better 2013. I'm ready.
9. Dog Farts. Our dog, Tipper, is a strange one. We hear her burps, farts, and stomach ALL the time. I am in complete shock every time air comes out of her!!! I have NEVER had or heard of a dog that does this. Seriously. It's crazy.
8. Conversations with our Daughter. I'm not exactly sure what it is with the age four. But wow! She has had some crazy, mature thoughts and questions lately. That have even left me confused on how to respond or react. We had a whole discussion on bones one night. She wanted to know what they were used for and where they were in her body. Then she even asked why her brother's Sternum poked out. Then there was the talk on fruit snacks and how they truly don't contain much fruit. It still boggles my mind. And makes me realize even more that I really need to watch what I say around her. Not that I'm talking about things that are R-rated or anything...but she is at a very LITERAL stage. Everything gets taken in the simple context of her mind.
7. New Job. Barber. Clay crawled into the bathroom sink earlier this week and I decided it was the perfect time to cut his hair. His Daddy was commenting on how it was getting "too long" so I decided to make it shorter. He just sat there, content. I'll need to remember this for next time:o)
6. Outdoor Family Fun. It was super cold at the beginning of this week. Which meant that I didn't take the kids out as much. Well, when Jay got home, we had dinner, and decided we all needed to feel some fresh air. It was cute. Jay used the snow blower while Mal and I shoveled. And Clay just walked around chasing the dog or falling down and then screaming. It felt great to be outside for those 30 minutes. Amazing what fresh air can do for you. Looking forward to spring!!!
5. Baker House. I made a loaf of bread (NOT in the bread maker) and baked cookies this week. I truly do love cooking with the kids. Clay is a handful, but Mal really gets into it and enjoys it. Which I'm glad. Because sometimes I'm not really in the mood to do things like that, but she ALWAYS is. Makes it more fun. Even with Clay on the counter, in the sink, touching everything. Clay. Clay. Clay.
4. Malloryisms. This week's sayings:
*"OMG." Seriously. She said OMG. I have NO clue where she got it from. But she said OMG.
*"I love you better." We were saying I love you back and forth to each other and she came up with this. I thought it was cute.
*"Oh dear." As she was missing putting sprinkles on a sugar cookie. Do I say this??
*"I just did that last week." She's really been aware of past tense and time. It seems that even if it happened yesterday or a month ago, it was last week. Seems it's her age. I think it's funny.
3. Clayisms. Just call him GOOSE EGG. Worst experience EVER so far. He was trying to get into a kid grocery cart, fell over, hit his head on the floor, and proceeded to get the biggest golf ball shape egg on his forehead. I was panicking. Mal was calm. Doing everything I told her to. Go get the ice. Go get his paci. Talk to Nana and Papa (which the first thing she said was "I didn't have anything to do with it!). She was a champ. Thank goodness I have her to calm me down because it was extremely frightful for me. Now he just has a big yellow spot on his forehead. Thank-you Clay. I know this is only the beginning. BUT please give your momma a little slack on getting hurt. I'm also noticing he copies Mal more and more. He really thinks the world of her even when she's mean to him.
2. Continual Snow Day. It's unbelievable how many snow days the schools have had around here--like FOUR!! Mal also had two days off of school this week. It was nice to not have to drive all the way to Paw Paw and back to get her. However, we were definitely cooped up in our house WAY too long. Here's to getting out more this week. Let's hope.
1. Weekend Getaway. Jay and I had the chance to get away this weekend to Traverse City with two other couples. It was great. Much needed. Except for one little thing. We were the first couple to get to the house (which was around 9:00PM Friday night). I unlocked the door, we looked around, and then headed out to get our stuff. I went to open the front door and realized it was LOCKED. Seems the door stays locked, until you unlock it from the inside. Wouldn't have been such a bad thing, except I left the key on the counter and my purse in the hallway. Luckily, the other couple had a key (who were about an hour out), the casino was just down the road, AND the casino didn't ask for my ID. Spent an hour playing black jack where we broke even and then met them at the house. We played games, talked, ate, shopped, scrapped, and just relaxed all weekend. It was bliss. Thanks to Grandma and Grandpa Newell for watching our little ones:o)
Another week done.
February is almost here!!
Have a great week!!
Until next week,
Mrs. Newell
Monday, January 28, 2013
Tuesday, January 22, 2013
A Mother, Not a Friend
There is a fine line between being a friend with your child and being a parent.
BUT these are totally TWO different approaches.
And can create TWO totally different kids.
I have seen BOTH in my teaching careers. Lately, more friends, than parents.
I knew from the start that being a friend to your child truly does and will not work (at least until they are adults and can somewhat function on their own). **
Friend parents are less structured. Do things to please or make their children happy EVEN when it's not in the child's best interest. Don't get me wrong, I want my children happy. Gosh, that's one of the things I pray for every night. But we're talking the staying up late, eating whatever they want, talking to you in "friend" talk, etc. There has a tendency to be no adult respect between the child and parent. Which in turns creates no respect for adults period. Including teachers. And the list goes on and on. I'm sure you are either friends with someone like this, or have seen this in public too.
As Mallory gets older, it's getting harder to remember this.
It's awful to have your child not "like" you at the time because you are rationally disciplining them for something that was in the wrong.
Take for instance this afternoon. For an hour or so, Mal was talking back to me, being rude, not saying please or thank-you. Totally disrespecting me. AND I let it go. Which created a crabby mood for me and shortness with her.
Until, while washing dishes, I had a epiphany. "DUDE--what are you doing?!?!?!" And that was it. I went over, turned off her show she was watching. Told her it was rude and disrespectful to be acting the way she was towards me. I said she needed to go use the bathroom and get ready for a nap while I finished the dishes. AND SHE DID. No peeps. No whines. No backtalk. I truly was speechless. And after changing Clay and putting him down for his nap, she was in bed with her pajamas on (she wears them for her nap--hard habit to break--but really, who wouldn't want to sleep in their pjs?). I told her no books or cuddles and that I loved her. She cried a bit, but then rolled over and fell asleep.
Honestly, I'm still dumbfounded at how easy this was and wondering why I didn't do this in the first place. And knowing that this probably won't ever happen again. At least not this YEAR.
And THEN, I wonder if I am too hard on her. I mean, I taught fifth grade for over 10 years. Am I still in the same process of dealing with children THAT age for MY newly 4 year old???
BUT, I want her to be respectful and nice to me. And everyone else she meets and encounters.
It's a hard job doing the right thing and even knowing what IS right.
All I know, is that I am not her friend. I am her mother. And I will do whatever it takes to make her HAPPY (the best I can!!:o)) and help mold her into the woman she deserves to be.
Amen!!!
**Mom, I consider us friends. But I also know you are my MOTHER:o)**
Top 10 for the Week:
10. Appointments. It seems like appointments ALWAYS fall on the same week. This week, I had the pleasure (NOT) of taking my kids on FOUR. That's right. I suffered this week. Major. The worst one, was the last one. Which lasted TWO hours. It was horrible. But honestly, my kids were great. I kept them entertained and they were really good (for the most part). Makes me a proud momma and makes visits like that better. When the eye doctor came in (the last 15 minutes of our visit), he apologized for running late and thanked me for my patience. My reply, "My patience is running really thin right now, but it's STILL there." Wendy's on way home IN car. You do what you gotta do to hold onto some part of your sanity in times of need.
9. Sweets & Fast Food. Don't mix with me. This week I leaned on these two a bit. Made me feel sick to my stomach and TIRED. This makes me realize even more how important it is for me to really start eating healthier and wiser. Unbelievable what food can do to your body.
8. Lazy Sunday. Clayton and Mal stayed in pajamas yesterday. We laid around all day, doing absolutely nothing. It was great. Both kids and myself took some much needed naps. The only time we went out for the day was to get a prescription and some deodorant at Walgreens. Bliss.
7. Basketball Player. Mal is projected to be taller than me. She's going to be at LEAST 5'8" or 5'9". You should have heard her dad and grandpas talking about what she's going to be. It was cute. She was OVER the charts on height. No wonder her 4T tops and pants don't fit anymore!! She is now in 5T! Which I still can't believe it.
6. Green Tea Wonder. Not sure what it is about Green Tea, but I LOVE it. Decaf and regular. It's tasty. I enjoy a cup during the day (usually around nap time when I can truly enjoy it) and at night after the kids go to bed. Makes me feel warm and calm. Enough said.
5. Best Mom Ever. While Mal was at school on Tuesday, I rearranged her room and of course organized it. She was tickled pink to see it when she got home. We walked out of her room and she said, "You are the best mom ever!" Seriously. I had to ask what she said because I couldn't believe it. But that's what she said. Made my day, week, month, year. Amazing how a comment can mean so much. I'll take what I can get:o)
4. Malloryisms. Four is really changing her. Is this normal?? Here's what she said this week:
*"Can I have another bone?" (referring to biscuits. That is what we call our dog treats:o))
*"You are freaking me out mom." (Her birthday book from school was purple. I mentioned that Mrs. Kasson must have known that purple was her favorite color and she responded with this). HA!
*This week we also had a lengthy talk about skin cell reproduction. Yes, it was interesting. But she was curious about her scab and how her body made more skin. So, I told her in my best this-is-a-four-year-old-I'm-talking-to skin lecture.
*The day of her party, Mal did not go to sleep until 10 at night. I tucked her in, read a book, and was rubbing her back and neck when she fell asleep RIGHT before my eyes. It was precious. The eye flutter, calming breathing, and her final attempt to hold on to being awake. It has been a really long time since she has done that for me. I enjoyed every minute of it.
3. Clayisms. He is definitely talking more. This week's new words: lettuce (strange!), ack (snack), and a few others that I can't remember. He is trying harder to copy our words. He has his check-up this week...it will be interesting to see where he is at in growth. Still climbing, pushing (UGH! Help me Mommas! What do I do???), running, and never stopping for a second. He is my energy boy. That's for sure. Wishing it was a bit warmer today so we could have gone outside. He NEEDS it. He's been a bit cranky this week. We thought at first he was coming down with something. Nope. The poor boy has FOUR teeth coming in. Two bottom molars and two other bottom teeth. NO wonder!!
2. Healthy Living. Made my own granola this week as well as fruit smoothies for the kids which they adored. I also made mini banana muffins with yogurt, whole wheat floor, and coconut sugar. They are delicious!! Both kids had four a piece!! Real hit!! This week I'm going to make my own waffles from scratch. I also get tested for food allergies on Wednesday. So, this could also mean a change in our diet. We will see!! (I know I said OUR, but that doesn't mean I'll be punishing my kids and husband--you're welcome Jay).
1. Mallory's FOUR. Crazy. Four years ago today, we were driving home from the hospital with our little bundle. She was so tiny. Crazy how time truly does fly. We had a wonderful celebration with family and friends. I think my favorite part was when we sang Happy Birthday to her. Her look on her face was priceless. She really doesn't like being the center of attention. Her face had that I'm-trying-not-to-smile-because-I'm-embarrassed look. She also told us that her favorite part of the day was her cake and eating it:o) Which she ate like ONE bite. She was more about playing with her friends and visiting with others. She also gets to have TWO Flintstones Vitamins now, which she proudly reminded me FIRST thing this morning. Happy Birthday my dear Mallory Jayne Newell. I love you to pieces. And I love your sassy, fun, caring, intuitive ways. You always seem to surprise me and keep me on my toes!
Thanks for stopping by on this snowy day.
Hope you are enjoying it!:o)
Until next week,
Mrs. Newell
BUT these are totally TWO different approaches.
And can create TWO totally different kids.
I have seen BOTH in my teaching careers. Lately, more friends, than parents.
I knew from the start that being a friend to your child truly does and will not work (at least until they are adults and can somewhat function on their own). **
Friend parents are less structured. Do things to please or make their children happy EVEN when it's not in the child's best interest. Don't get me wrong, I want my children happy. Gosh, that's one of the things I pray for every night. But we're talking the staying up late, eating whatever they want, talking to you in "friend" talk, etc. There has a tendency to be no adult respect between the child and parent. Which in turns creates no respect for adults period. Including teachers. And the list goes on and on. I'm sure you are either friends with someone like this, or have seen this in public too.
As Mallory gets older, it's getting harder to remember this.
It's awful to have your child not "like" you at the time because you are rationally disciplining them for something that was in the wrong.
Take for instance this afternoon. For an hour or so, Mal was talking back to me, being rude, not saying please or thank-you. Totally disrespecting me. AND I let it go. Which created a crabby mood for me and shortness with her.
Until, while washing dishes, I had a epiphany. "DUDE--what are you doing?!?!?!" And that was it. I went over, turned off her show she was watching. Told her it was rude and disrespectful to be acting the way she was towards me. I said she needed to go use the bathroom and get ready for a nap while I finished the dishes. AND SHE DID. No peeps. No whines. No backtalk. I truly was speechless. And after changing Clay and putting him down for his nap, she was in bed with her pajamas on (she wears them for her nap--hard habit to break--but really, who wouldn't want to sleep in their pjs?). I told her no books or cuddles and that I loved her. She cried a bit, but then rolled over and fell asleep.
Honestly, I'm still dumbfounded at how easy this was and wondering why I didn't do this in the first place. And knowing that this probably won't ever happen again. At least not this YEAR.
And THEN, I wonder if I am too hard on her. I mean, I taught fifth grade for over 10 years. Am I still in the same process of dealing with children THAT age for MY newly 4 year old???
BUT, I want her to be respectful and nice to me. And everyone else she meets and encounters.
It's a hard job doing the right thing and even knowing what IS right.
All I know, is that I am not her friend. I am her mother. And I will do whatever it takes to make her HAPPY (the best I can!!:o)) and help mold her into the woman she deserves to be.
Amen!!!
**Mom, I consider us friends. But I also know you are my MOTHER:o)**
Top 10 for the Week:
10. Appointments. It seems like appointments ALWAYS fall on the same week. This week, I had the pleasure (NOT) of taking my kids on FOUR. That's right. I suffered this week. Major. The worst one, was the last one. Which lasted TWO hours. It was horrible. But honestly, my kids were great. I kept them entertained and they were really good (for the most part). Makes me a proud momma and makes visits like that better. When the eye doctor came in (the last 15 minutes of our visit), he apologized for running late and thanked me for my patience. My reply, "My patience is running really thin right now, but it's STILL there." Wendy's on way home IN car. You do what you gotta do to hold onto some part of your sanity in times of need.
9. Sweets & Fast Food. Don't mix with me. This week I leaned on these two a bit. Made me feel sick to my stomach and TIRED. This makes me realize even more how important it is for me to really start eating healthier and wiser. Unbelievable what food can do to your body.
8. Lazy Sunday. Clayton and Mal stayed in pajamas yesterday. We laid around all day, doing absolutely nothing. It was great. Both kids and myself took some much needed naps. The only time we went out for the day was to get a prescription and some deodorant at Walgreens. Bliss.
7. Basketball Player. Mal is projected to be taller than me. She's going to be at LEAST 5'8" or 5'9". You should have heard her dad and grandpas talking about what she's going to be. It was cute. She was OVER the charts on height. No wonder her 4T tops and pants don't fit anymore!! She is now in 5T! Which I still can't believe it.
6. Green Tea Wonder. Not sure what it is about Green Tea, but I LOVE it. Decaf and regular. It's tasty. I enjoy a cup during the day (usually around nap time when I can truly enjoy it) and at night after the kids go to bed. Makes me feel warm and calm. Enough said.
5. Best Mom Ever. While Mal was at school on Tuesday, I rearranged her room and of course organized it. She was tickled pink to see it when she got home. We walked out of her room and she said, "You are the best mom ever!" Seriously. I had to ask what she said because I couldn't believe it. But that's what she said. Made my day, week, month, year. Amazing how a comment can mean so much. I'll take what I can get:o)
4. Malloryisms. Four is really changing her. Is this normal?? Here's what she said this week:
*"Can I have another bone?" (referring to biscuits. That is what we call our dog treats:o))
*"You are freaking me out mom." (Her birthday book from school was purple. I mentioned that Mrs. Kasson must have known that purple was her favorite color and she responded with this). HA!
*This week we also had a lengthy talk about skin cell reproduction. Yes, it was interesting. But she was curious about her scab and how her body made more skin. So, I told her in my best this-is-a-four-year-old-I'm-talking-to skin lecture.
*The day of her party, Mal did not go to sleep until 10 at night. I tucked her in, read a book, and was rubbing her back and neck when she fell asleep RIGHT before my eyes. It was precious. The eye flutter, calming breathing, and her final attempt to hold on to being awake. It has been a really long time since she has done that for me. I enjoyed every minute of it.
3. Clayisms. He is definitely talking more. This week's new words: lettuce (strange!), ack (snack), and a few others that I can't remember. He is trying harder to copy our words. He has his check-up this week...it will be interesting to see where he is at in growth. Still climbing, pushing (UGH! Help me Mommas! What do I do???), running, and never stopping for a second. He is my energy boy. That's for sure. Wishing it was a bit warmer today so we could have gone outside. He NEEDS it. He's been a bit cranky this week. We thought at first he was coming down with something. Nope. The poor boy has FOUR teeth coming in. Two bottom molars and two other bottom teeth. NO wonder!!
2. Healthy Living. Made my own granola this week as well as fruit smoothies for the kids which they adored. I also made mini banana muffins with yogurt, whole wheat floor, and coconut sugar. They are delicious!! Both kids had four a piece!! Real hit!! This week I'm going to make my own waffles from scratch. I also get tested for food allergies on Wednesday. So, this could also mean a change in our diet. We will see!! (I know I said OUR, but that doesn't mean I'll be punishing my kids and husband--you're welcome Jay).
1. Mallory's FOUR. Crazy. Four years ago today, we were driving home from the hospital with our little bundle. She was so tiny. Crazy how time truly does fly. We had a wonderful celebration with family and friends. I think my favorite part was when we sang Happy Birthday to her. Her look on her face was priceless. She really doesn't like being the center of attention. Her face had that I'm-trying-not-to-smile-because-I'm-embarrassed look. She also told us that her favorite part of the day was her cake and eating it:o) Which she ate like ONE bite. She was more about playing with her friends and visiting with others. She also gets to have TWO Flintstones Vitamins now, which she proudly reminded me FIRST thing this morning. Happy Birthday my dear Mallory Jayne Newell. I love you to pieces. And I love your sassy, fun, caring, intuitive ways. You always seem to surprise me and keep me on my toes!
Thanks for stopping by on this snowy day.
Hope you are enjoying it!:o)
Until next week,
Mrs. Newell
Tuesday, January 15, 2013
Mother Guilt
There was a Facebook post this week that caught my attention.
It was about being a mother.
And feeling the "I'm-a-bad-mother-because-I'm-not-doing-enough."
Hit home.
Really hard.
Because I can say I have felt this way. Many times.
I remember my first time (I know this sounds really sad).
A few years back around Mal's first birthday, I looked at her baby pictures and realized that we didn't have as many as I thought we did. It seems that when I became a new mom, I was a bit busy. I was trying to get the feel down of being a mother. What to do and not to do. Or even what I couldn't do. Anyways, I didn't think about taking pictures of those treasured moments of her as an infant. My bad. Like every new mom, I was stressed, overwhelmed, and wanting to do everything right. And I FORGOT our camera. Oops. Doesn't mean I feel any better about it. Although Clay has sure benefited from it:o) There are LOTS of pictures of Sir Clayton as a wee one. And this probably explains my obsession with getting my kids yearly shots down at JC Penney. Like by fixing it now, it will fix what I messed up on years ago. Cause that makes sense, right?!?!
Then you have the diaper rashes (Mal had one that lasted her whole second month of her life), going back to work, not nursing long enough, not finishing their baby books or keeping track of keepsakes. Just to name a few.
And this doesn't include the daily ones like having a clean house, finishing laundry, providing healthy food choices and meals, disciplining them in a positive way, and on and on.
You get the guilty point.
Do I feel guilty?? HECK YES.
Do I compare myself to other moms?? HECK YES.
Do I change up what I am doing?? Sometimes. Not always. Depends if I feel it would really benefit my family. And if it really makes sense to.
So where do we go from here.
This is what I know.
I love my kids.
I would only do something if it truly meant it would help them or make them happy. Or benefit them in some way or another. Do I sometimes go above this? Maybe. Or don't do a craft every week? Maybe. But I always have their best interest in mind (and a little bit of my sanity--which truly benefits them too).
I want them to be good people. Truly good people.
Which means, being friendly, saying please and thank-you, thinking of others, treating everyone respectfully, hard working, independent, spiritual, motivated, healthy. I could go on and on here as well. But we understand that we want our kids to be decent people. Because honestly, I feel more and more each day that these kind of people are lacking in our society. Which is terribly sad.
I am human.
I make mistakes. I apologize. Enough said.
Life is too short to sweat the small stuff.
Time flies.
And we do the best we can as mothers. Just like our mothers and our grandmothers and so on.
It's okay to feel guilty, as long as you recognize it and MOVE ON:o)
***Now mind you, I have only been a mother for four years THIS Saturday. Not very long. But I've had lots of time to think in the last 8 months or so about my motherhood and my new "job." I may be way off....but know that this makes me feel better. SO I go with it:o)***
Top 9 for the week (Short and Sweet):
9. Sickness. The cough has gotten us. Jay, Mal, and Clay had it this past week. I somehow missed it...however, everyday I feel like I am coming down with something. Great feeling. Hello Airborne.
8. T-shirt Necklace. I made a T-shirt necklace for Mal's preschool teacher for Christmas. Well, she wore it this week. Made my day:o)
7. Lovey Kids. I know I say this a lot, but I love the moments my kids show they love each other. It is so sweet. They've been hugging each other a lot lately. Mind you I write this after Clay grabbed a HUGE hunk of Mal's hair out and Mal threw a fit that Clay was playing with her things. Doesn't matter about today. Last week was GREAT:o)
6. Lazy Day. We had a lazy day in our house last week. Mal stayed in her pajamas all day. It was great!! A much needed day after all these dark, dreary days. Sunshine you can come back anytime now.
5. Doc Visit. Clay went to the doctor this week and saw a different doctor. He was SO good. Shy. The doctor even commented about how Clay's default face was a smile. SO true with that boy. He is always smiling and always happy:o)
4. Malloryisms. Turning into quite the lady. I have noticed a drastic change in her thoughts, words, and behavior since Christmas. Which is crazy to me. But it's true. She's acting older. Who knew FOUR was such a big difference.
3. Clayisms. He says "HOT" now. So cute. Still continues to get into everything. Still loves our dog. Still climbs--caught him on top of Mal's dresser pushing the tape buttons on her radio. Still gives the BEST hugs.
2. Nana Here. Love my mom here. Cleaned out FOUR closets. Unbelievable. Thank-you NANA!!
1. Mallory Time. I took Mal to get her 4 year pictures at JC Penney (which turned out great!). Then we had lunch, did some shopping, and headed back home. It was the BEST time. Seriously. It was SO girl bonding time. Until the ride home. I was having a little chat with Mal, when Jay called. He told me he saw my Facebook post (about enjoying Mal's time) and asked what happened. Seems Mal was having a slight meltdown on way home. Who doesn't after a day of pictures and shopping?
I know I'm late.
It's already Tuesday.
But I did it.
I can check this off the LIST:o)
Hope you are having a great week!!
Until next week,
Mrs. Newell
It was about being a mother.
And feeling the "I'm-a-bad-mother-because-I'm-not-doing-enough."
Hit home.
Really hard.
Because I can say I have felt this way. Many times.
I remember my first time (I know this sounds really sad).
A few years back around Mal's first birthday, I looked at her baby pictures and realized that we didn't have as many as I thought we did. It seems that when I became a new mom, I was a bit busy. I was trying to get the feel down of being a mother. What to do and not to do. Or even what I couldn't do. Anyways, I didn't think about taking pictures of those treasured moments of her as an infant. My bad. Like every new mom, I was stressed, overwhelmed, and wanting to do everything right. And I FORGOT our camera. Oops. Doesn't mean I feel any better about it. Although Clay has sure benefited from it:o) There are LOTS of pictures of Sir Clayton as a wee one. And this probably explains my obsession with getting my kids yearly shots down at JC Penney. Like by fixing it now, it will fix what I messed up on years ago. Cause that makes sense, right?!?!
Then you have the diaper rashes (Mal had one that lasted her whole second month of her life), going back to work, not nursing long enough, not finishing their baby books or keeping track of keepsakes. Just to name a few.
And this doesn't include the daily ones like having a clean house, finishing laundry, providing healthy food choices and meals, disciplining them in a positive way, and on and on.
You get the guilty point.
Do I feel guilty?? HECK YES.
Do I compare myself to other moms?? HECK YES.
Do I change up what I am doing?? Sometimes. Not always. Depends if I feel it would really benefit my family. And if it really makes sense to.
So where do we go from here.
This is what I know.
I love my kids.
I would only do something if it truly meant it would help them or make them happy. Or benefit them in some way or another. Do I sometimes go above this? Maybe. Or don't do a craft every week? Maybe. But I always have their best interest in mind (and a little bit of my sanity--which truly benefits them too).
I want them to be good people. Truly good people.
Which means, being friendly, saying please and thank-you, thinking of others, treating everyone respectfully, hard working, independent, spiritual, motivated, healthy. I could go on and on here as well. But we understand that we want our kids to be decent people. Because honestly, I feel more and more each day that these kind of people are lacking in our society. Which is terribly sad.
I am human.
I make mistakes. I apologize. Enough said.
Life is too short to sweat the small stuff.
Time flies.
And we do the best we can as mothers. Just like our mothers and our grandmothers and so on.
It's okay to feel guilty, as long as you recognize it and MOVE ON:o)
***Now mind you, I have only been a mother for four years THIS Saturday. Not very long. But I've had lots of time to think in the last 8 months or so about my motherhood and my new "job." I may be way off....but know that this makes me feel better. SO I go with it:o)***
Top 9 for the week (Short and Sweet):
9. Sickness. The cough has gotten us. Jay, Mal, and Clay had it this past week. I somehow missed it...however, everyday I feel like I am coming down with something. Great feeling. Hello Airborne.
8. T-shirt Necklace. I made a T-shirt necklace for Mal's preschool teacher for Christmas. Well, she wore it this week. Made my day:o)
7. Lovey Kids. I know I say this a lot, but I love the moments my kids show they love each other. It is so sweet. They've been hugging each other a lot lately. Mind you I write this after Clay grabbed a HUGE hunk of Mal's hair out and Mal threw a fit that Clay was playing with her things. Doesn't matter about today. Last week was GREAT:o)
6. Lazy Day. We had a lazy day in our house last week. Mal stayed in her pajamas all day. It was great!! A much needed day after all these dark, dreary days. Sunshine you can come back anytime now.
5. Doc Visit. Clay went to the doctor this week and saw a different doctor. He was SO good. Shy. The doctor even commented about how Clay's default face was a smile. SO true with that boy. He is always smiling and always happy:o)
4. Malloryisms. Turning into quite the lady. I have noticed a drastic change in her thoughts, words, and behavior since Christmas. Which is crazy to me. But it's true. She's acting older. Who knew FOUR was such a big difference.
3. Clayisms. He says "HOT" now. So cute. Still continues to get into everything. Still loves our dog. Still climbs--caught him on top of Mal's dresser pushing the tape buttons on her radio. Still gives the BEST hugs.
2. Nana Here. Love my mom here. Cleaned out FOUR closets. Unbelievable. Thank-you NANA!!
1. Mallory Time. I took Mal to get her 4 year pictures at JC Penney (which turned out great!). Then we had lunch, did some shopping, and headed back home. It was the BEST time. Seriously. It was SO girl bonding time. Until the ride home. I was having a little chat with Mal, when Jay called. He told me he saw my Facebook post (about enjoying Mal's time) and asked what happened. Seems Mal was having a slight meltdown on way home. Who doesn't after a day of pictures and shopping?
I know I'm late.
It's already Tuesday.
But I did it.
I can check this off the LIST:o)
Hope you are having a great week!!
Until next week,
Mrs. Newell
Monday, January 7, 2013
My Daughter ROCKS
Not too many revelations this week.
Just a week of getting back into the swing of our household.
The only real difference about the holidays, was I didn't have to go back to my teaching job today. Ask my husband, I probably would have gone today:o) It was one of those days. But my daughter made it better. Of course it was at the END of our day together.
On our way outside today to try and lighten the mood, I was trying to explain to her how people sometimes are just grumpy.
"I'm sorry that I'm grumpy today Mallory. Sometimes people have days where they are frustrated or not themselves."
"That's okay Mommy. Like when I get in a timeout and I cry. Then I feel better. And I play again."
"Yes, that's exactly right. I just wanted you to know that I'm sorry for being this way and I'll be better."
"Oh Mommy, we're family. I'll give you a hug." HUGS ME HARD. "Clay give Mommy a hug too."
Yeah, my daughter rocks. She gets me. And she'll be FOUR in a few weeks. She unconditionally loves me for who I am and for loving her. It doesn't have to be "perfect" everyday for her. And I am so grateful she understands this already.
Love you Mallory Jayne Newell. Thanks for being you. So thoughtful, loving, upbeat, funny, and intuitive. You make my grey days, sunny.
Top 10 for the week:
10. Kalamazoo Trip. We woke up Sunday morning and thought it would be a great idea for the four of us to take a shopping trip to Kalamazoo. Yeah, not-so-much fun. Five hours, five stores, lunch, two poopy diapers, grocery store, screaming, yelling, shoes and socks off in the car four times later we are still questioning why today??? But it's okay. I didn't have to go to school today:o) (Sorry for those that have to go back to work. I do feel for you. BUT I am SO glad it's not me).
9. BOOTS. Yeah, I bought three pairs of boots. Two were super cheap (one was only $15). Needed them badly. Since I've outgrown all of my boots (due to 2 pregnancies), I needed stock. Not to mention practical ones. Flat. Comfortable. Look good without skinny jeans (I just can't grasp that trend). Yep, I found some. Super excited.
8. Kid Birthday Party. A family friend celebrated her 6th birthday this weekend. It's the start of a three weekend straight of birthday parties (Mallory's being the last:o)). Always great to get together with their family and friends. It's also great to see our kids becoming such good friends. I love it.
7. The Sun. It's amazing to me what a little bit of sun can do to your mood. We are lucky to have a TON of windows on the West side of our house. And we also have a sun room which I have converted into a playroom which means MORE sun for us. We had lots of dreary days this past week but a FEW sunny days. More sunny days PLEASE.
6. Thank-you Routine. Hello Routine!! Never really thought I had a routine at home. But I do. Just being home with the kids, just us, gives us that routine back. It really shocked me. But I'm glad we have one and the kids know what to do and what to expect. My kids are ALMOST back to their normal selves after two weeks of holiday celebration:o)
5. Who needs a gym? I took the kids out sledding in our yard this past week. They LOVED it and so did I. Last year, Clay couldn't even walk, so it would have been hard to do what we did this week. We really didn't do much but enjoyed about an hour out in the snow. Excited to do it again.
4. Clayisms. He's my little hugger and kisser. The other morning we had a hugging war. I'd hug him hard, then he'd hug me hard, and then I'd hug him hard. It went on for about five minutes. Both of us grinning from ear to ear. He also does this kiss on the cheek thing. He moves my face so he can kiss my cheek going "Mwah." Then, moves my face so he can kiss the other side. It's the cutest thing EVER. SO sweet here and then he pushes kids who are smaller than him. We are still not getting that one...but I LOVE the moments he is sweet on his Momma. Yes Clay, you have me wrapped around your finger. Did you say you wanted your paci?? (Still in the process of ridding of the paci. We will get there. At least before he's TWO. Baby steps).
3. Malloryisms. Is it FOUR?!?! Jay and I cannot contain ourselves lately with her. She says and does the funniest things (totally reminds me of her Daddy). But then there's the side of her that's me. Like today, I couldn't find my wallet in one of the stores, so I just figured it was in the car. Went to the car, there it was. Was on our way home, and we realized Mal had left HER wallet at the store. Had to call them and tell them that I found my wallet but my daughter had left hers there. Sweetness. She's as forgetful as me!!
A few of her sayings this week:
*"That's the funniest thing I've ever heard."
(Referring to me putting real fish in jars for her bday party).
*"Where's my suitcase?"
(Yeah, she means WALLET! LOL)
*"I know what that face means."
(At dinner, when she's lied to me.) "It means I've been naughty." (yes dear, it does)
*"Let's go to Honey Store."
(Referring to us getting ice cream, except the store is called Sugar Bear)
2. Ladies Night Out. I had the pleasure of going out to dinner with four of my old co-workers. It was SO great. And SO needed. Of course all we talked about was SCHOOL. And the awesome part of it was, I still felt like I knew what was going on. The sad part was that I didn't have first hand knowledge of it all. But I'm okay with that. I'm home with my babies and have less stress than they do (I'm sorry girls). BUT I will make an effort to see these lovely women on a regular basis. Thank-you ladies for such a wonderful night. You made my weekend. Even maybe my month:o) I really look forward to our next night out together.
1. Future. A good friend of mine, who I've known for like almost 25 years (WOW), blogged about writing a "resolution list." For 2011, she wrote down 11 things to do. For 2012, it was 12. Some were repeated, some were vague, some detailed. I thought this was an extremely clever way to look at this upcoming year. So, I wrote one. I'm pretty excited about it. And I look forward to completing MOST of my 13 things of 2013.
A strange week of getting back into the routine of our household.
For those of you that are teachers, hope all of you had a great first day back.
Thanks for reading my blog....have a GREAT week friends!
Until next week,
Mrs. Newell
Just a week of getting back into the swing of our household.
The only real difference about the holidays, was I didn't have to go back to my teaching job today. Ask my husband, I probably would have gone today:o) It was one of those days. But my daughter made it better. Of course it was at the END of our day together.
On our way outside today to try and lighten the mood, I was trying to explain to her how people sometimes are just grumpy.
"I'm sorry that I'm grumpy today Mallory. Sometimes people have days where they are frustrated or not themselves."
"That's okay Mommy. Like when I get in a timeout and I cry. Then I feel better. And I play again."
"Yes, that's exactly right. I just wanted you to know that I'm sorry for being this way and I'll be better."
"Oh Mommy, we're family. I'll give you a hug." HUGS ME HARD. "Clay give Mommy a hug too."
Yeah, my daughter rocks. She gets me. And she'll be FOUR in a few weeks. She unconditionally loves me for who I am and for loving her. It doesn't have to be "perfect" everyday for her. And I am so grateful she understands this already.
Love you Mallory Jayne Newell. Thanks for being you. So thoughtful, loving, upbeat, funny, and intuitive. You make my grey days, sunny.
Top 10 for the week:
10. Kalamazoo Trip. We woke up Sunday morning and thought it would be a great idea for the four of us to take a shopping trip to Kalamazoo. Yeah, not-so-much fun. Five hours, five stores, lunch, two poopy diapers, grocery store, screaming, yelling, shoes and socks off in the car four times later we are still questioning why today??? But it's okay. I didn't have to go to school today:o) (Sorry for those that have to go back to work. I do feel for you. BUT I am SO glad it's not me).
9. BOOTS. Yeah, I bought three pairs of boots. Two were super cheap (one was only $15). Needed them badly. Since I've outgrown all of my boots (due to 2 pregnancies), I needed stock. Not to mention practical ones. Flat. Comfortable. Look good without skinny jeans (I just can't grasp that trend). Yep, I found some. Super excited.
8. Kid Birthday Party. A family friend celebrated her 6th birthday this weekend. It's the start of a three weekend straight of birthday parties (Mallory's being the last:o)). Always great to get together with their family and friends. It's also great to see our kids becoming such good friends. I love it.
7. The Sun. It's amazing to me what a little bit of sun can do to your mood. We are lucky to have a TON of windows on the West side of our house. And we also have a sun room which I have converted into a playroom which means MORE sun for us. We had lots of dreary days this past week but a FEW sunny days. More sunny days PLEASE.
6. Thank-you Routine. Hello Routine!! Never really thought I had a routine at home. But I do. Just being home with the kids, just us, gives us that routine back. It really shocked me. But I'm glad we have one and the kids know what to do and what to expect. My kids are ALMOST back to their normal selves after two weeks of holiday celebration:o)
5. Who needs a gym? I took the kids out sledding in our yard this past week. They LOVED it and so did I. Last year, Clay couldn't even walk, so it would have been hard to do what we did this week. We really didn't do much but enjoyed about an hour out in the snow. Excited to do it again.
4. Clayisms. He's my little hugger and kisser. The other morning we had a hugging war. I'd hug him hard, then he'd hug me hard, and then I'd hug him hard. It went on for about five minutes. Both of us grinning from ear to ear. He also does this kiss on the cheek thing. He moves my face so he can kiss my cheek going "Mwah." Then, moves my face so he can kiss the other side. It's the cutest thing EVER. SO sweet here and then he pushes kids who are smaller than him. We are still not getting that one...but I LOVE the moments he is sweet on his Momma. Yes Clay, you have me wrapped around your finger. Did you say you wanted your paci?? (Still in the process of ridding of the paci. We will get there. At least before he's TWO. Baby steps).
3. Malloryisms. Is it FOUR?!?! Jay and I cannot contain ourselves lately with her. She says and does the funniest things (totally reminds me of her Daddy). But then there's the side of her that's me. Like today, I couldn't find my wallet in one of the stores, so I just figured it was in the car. Went to the car, there it was. Was on our way home, and we realized Mal had left HER wallet at the store. Had to call them and tell them that I found my wallet but my daughter had left hers there. Sweetness. She's as forgetful as me!!
A few of her sayings this week:
*"That's the funniest thing I've ever heard."
(Referring to me putting real fish in jars for her bday party).
*"Where's my suitcase?"
(Yeah, she means WALLET! LOL)
*"I know what that face means."
(At dinner, when she's lied to me.) "It means I've been naughty." (yes dear, it does)
*"Let's go to Honey Store."
(Referring to us getting ice cream, except the store is called Sugar Bear)
2. Ladies Night Out. I had the pleasure of going out to dinner with four of my old co-workers. It was SO great. And SO needed. Of course all we talked about was SCHOOL. And the awesome part of it was, I still felt like I knew what was going on. The sad part was that I didn't have first hand knowledge of it all. But I'm okay with that. I'm home with my babies and have less stress than they do (I'm sorry girls). BUT I will make an effort to see these lovely women on a regular basis. Thank-you ladies for such a wonderful night. You made my weekend. Even maybe my month:o) I really look forward to our next night out together.
1. Future. A good friend of mine, who I've known for like almost 25 years (WOW), blogged about writing a "resolution list." For 2011, she wrote down 11 things to do. For 2012, it was 12. Some were repeated, some were vague, some detailed. I thought this was an extremely clever way to look at this upcoming year. So, I wrote one. I'm pretty excited about it. And I look forward to completing MOST of my 13 things of 2013.
A strange week of getting back into the routine of our household.
For those of you that are teachers, hope all of you had a great first day back.
Thanks for reading my blog....have a GREAT week friends!
Until next week,
Mrs. Newell
Wednesday, January 2, 2013
A Facelift
I have gone several weeks without blogging...and I have to say, I can feel it. In my thoughts. In my fingers. And in my spirit. I've missed it. So, just wanted to say, I'm BACK!
A new year. A new face lift on my blog. The layout and design were from my graduate class anyways. Which started exactly one year ago this week. My life has changed drastically since then. So, a new look feels fresh, uplifting, and more suiting to where I am at NOW.
2012 was rough on me. For those that are close, they know I've been going through some weird health issues that have not been resolved or answered. Between my health, stress (school, graduate school, my kids (yes, they are a stress at times), house, and everything else!), losing myself, and feeling burnt out and run down, 2012 wasn't so good.
BUT, it's now 2013. And I'm feeling hopeful. It's amazing what ONE day, the New Year, can make you feel. So, here's to resolutions and the feelings that come with actually accomplishing them!!
1. Figure out my health. I met with a new doctor on December 28th. He's a chiropractor/health guru. I am SUPER excited to start weeding the food out that is causing this ruckus in my body. I've been POP free for almost two months now, AND I have noticed a difference. Try it. Seriously. Less infections, better feeling, AND I've lost 5 pounds. Unbelievable.
2. Standing strong. Somewhere amongst my departure from school and the transition of being home, I have lost my will to stand up for myself. Don't worry, I won't go over to the dark side. BUT I will take pride in who I am and what I believe is right.
3. Stronger faith. The more I talk to God, the less I feel stressed, bogged down, crazy. Here's to remembering to rely on Him more, and less on the people and things around me.
4. Organizing. I'm a fanatic. If you ask my daughter what it means to reorangize something, she will tell you. And she'll probably tell you that she reorganzied her room yesterday, or the week before. There's nothing wrong with a little organizing right?? I don't have a classroom to keep in order anymore--I have a HOME. Anytime I'm bored, I reorganize. I think my kids would think something was wrong if we didn't reorganize something at least once a week. I know my husband thinks I'm crazy--"Honey, where are the glasses? Where are the wash clothes now?" It's me. Can't help it.
It feels strange to be having resolutions...because I already feel like I got a jump start in September. I truly started a new year THEN. But it's always good to take a look back and evaluate where you've come from, what you've done, and where you are headed.
And I'm feeling I'm headed in the right direction. Let's HOPE.
Top 10 for last week in December (I'm missing a week--I'll get it in!):
10. New Year. The day was really low key. The last three years, we've always gone away with two other couples, but this year we decided to stay home. Went sledding, grabbed subway (didn't have to cook), had hot chocolate, played cards, had some wine, and fell asleep on the couch before midnight. Boy have things changed!! But I'm okay with that. Our kids both slept between 12-13 hours that night. Which the desperately needed. (Side note: my PARENTS were out until 1AM. Roles have reversed!! Thought it was funny. Way to be party animals Mom and Dad!!).
9. No More Baby. So sad. It was really noticeable with all the traveling we did this holiday. There was no real need for a diaper bag:o( Clay's changing table is now in the closet--one more step towards out the door. And we no longer have a "kid" cabinet. Just a few sippy cups and plates left before we've entered the BIG kid land. CRAZY how times flies.
8. New Doc. Like I mentioned before, I visited with a new doctor. Really excited to get things figured out. I've been feeling crazy with all the different symptoms. Feeling a bit of a hypercondriact. But he's reassured me I'm not. Hopefully not too extreme detox. Bring it on.
7. Haunting. The school has been haunting me. Seriously. Ran into my mentor teacher in Macy's this past week. She's been retired 8 years!! It had been 10 since I had last seen her!! She looked great and it was so nice to be able to chat with her for a bit. I also had our pizza delivered by an old student (he's like 20 or so now). Yeah, he told me I was his favorite teacher. Made me tear up a bit. And lastly, got an email from one of my old students last year. She misses me, wants me to come back. Would love to...but not now:o) Too much to do. And having TOO much fun. Sorry. Someday.
6. Welcome Back Camera! The whole holiday season we were without our REALLY nice camera. I didn't think this would be such a huge deal but it was. I was ecstatic to get it back this past weekend!!! And even more ecstatic that the one Jay bought the day after Thanksgiving is being sold. Too slow. Doesn't take good pictures. Need I say more?? My kids do not stop. I need a quick camera.
5. New Toys. Now that we are home most days, the kids were getting a bit bored with their toys. Clay was growing out of his "baby" toys (I know, sad) and Mal needed something different. We are in business now!!! Our kids are spoiled. I've also placed a few things away, to bring out in a few months when they feel bored again. We did this last year as well:o) Also on my list to do this year--write Thank-yous. Usually I don't have time--being back to school and Mal's birthday coming up. But this year, I'm making time.
4. Clayisms. Man can the boy sign. We've started teaching him a few more signs and he picks them up within minutes. He did say "all done" this week, which caused all of us to burst into praise and smiles. And of course he copied us, thinking it was just grand. He is a mover. Constantly going, constantly doing. His new toys fit him. A little more action, movement, and thought. He's still the cutest, smiliest, curly haired boy around:0)
3. Malloryisms. Spunky, sassy girl. A few sayings from this week...
*"I'm talking to dad, mom." (All I did was ask her what she said)
*"Bad choice in driving Daddy." (Jay slowing down, because of ice)
*"How many bucks did you pay for that sled?" (BUCKS?? Really??)
*"If you're tired, you should just go to sleep. That's what I do. That right, Mom?" (Jay was complaining that he was tired.)
She knows all. And will tell it how it is. Could it be the FOUR in her?? But she is also the sweetest. This past week at the mall, she suggested that Clay and her share a milk. Both drinking out of different straws and looking at each other. Hallmark moment for this Momma. I'll take them when I can get them. It seems to change by the minute:o)
2. Extended Family. Lots of celebrating and chatting with extended family on both sides. It was great to be able to catch up with so many and be able to share our kiddos with them. I loved watching Mallory interact with my Aunts (her great Aunts), calling them by name, and showing them things. And Clay, he's Clay. Everyone loves him and he loves everyone. Watching him stand in front of the video camera at my Grandma's was hilarious. Great time had by all.
1. Home. Being gone so much this past few weeks, has made me realize how much I appreciate and LOVE being home. And I believe our kids feel the same way. Today marked the first day back into our somewhat routine. Both kids slept almost two hours!! Mal is still sleeping as I type this, while Mr. Clayton is entertaining the dog:o)
I hope your holiday was great!!
It feels absolutely wonderful to be back at my blogging!! Who knew?!?!
I wish the best for you this next year!!
Thanks for reading.
Until next week,
Mrs. Newell
A new year. A new face lift on my blog. The layout and design were from my graduate class anyways. Which started exactly one year ago this week. My life has changed drastically since then. So, a new look feels fresh, uplifting, and more suiting to where I am at NOW.
2012 was rough on me. For those that are close, they know I've been going through some weird health issues that have not been resolved or answered. Between my health, stress (school, graduate school, my kids (yes, they are a stress at times), house, and everything else!), losing myself, and feeling burnt out and run down, 2012 wasn't so good.
BUT, it's now 2013. And I'm feeling hopeful. It's amazing what ONE day, the New Year, can make you feel. So, here's to resolutions and the feelings that come with actually accomplishing them!!
1. Figure out my health. I met with a new doctor on December 28th. He's a chiropractor/health guru. I am SUPER excited to start weeding the food out that is causing this ruckus in my body. I've been POP free for almost two months now, AND I have noticed a difference. Try it. Seriously. Less infections, better feeling, AND I've lost 5 pounds. Unbelievable.
2. Standing strong. Somewhere amongst my departure from school and the transition of being home, I have lost my will to stand up for myself. Don't worry, I won't go over to the dark side. BUT I will take pride in who I am and what I believe is right.
3. Stronger faith. The more I talk to God, the less I feel stressed, bogged down, crazy. Here's to remembering to rely on Him more, and less on the people and things around me.
4. Organizing. I'm a fanatic. If you ask my daughter what it means to reorangize something, she will tell you. And she'll probably tell you that she reorganzied her room yesterday, or the week before. There's nothing wrong with a little organizing right?? I don't have a classroom to keep in order anymore--I have a HOME. Anytime I'm bored, I reorganize. I think my kids would think something was wrong if we didn't reorganize something at least once a week. I know my husband thinks I'm crazy--"Honey, where are the glasses? Where are the wash clothes now?" It's me. Can't help it.
It feels strange to be having resolutions...because I already feel like I got a jump start in September. I truly started a new year THEN. But it's always good to take a look back and evaluate where you've come from, what you've done, and where you are headed.
And I'm feeling I'm headed in the right direction. Let's HOPE.
Top 10 for last week in December (I'm missing a week--I'll get it in!):
10. New Year. The day was really low key. The last three years, we've always gone away with two other couples, but this year we decided to stay home. Went sledding, grabbed subway (didn't have to cook), had hot chocolate, played cards, had some wine, and fell asleep on the couch before midnight. Boy have things changed!! But I'm okay with that. Our kids both slept between 12-13 hours that night. Which the desperately needed. (Side note: my PARENTS were out until 1AM. Roles have reversed!! Thought it was funny. Way to be party animals Mom and Dad!!).
9. No More Baby. So sad. It was really noticeable with all the traveling we did this holiday. There was no real need for a diaper bag:o( Clay's changing table is now in the closet--one more step towards out the door. And we no longer have a "kid" cabinet. Just a few sippy cups and plates left before we've entered the BIG kid land. CRAZY how times flies.
8. New Doc. Like I mentioned before, I visited with a new doctor. Really excited to get things figured out. I've been feeling crazy with all the different symptoms. Feeling a bit of a hypercondriact. But he's reassured me I'm not. Hopefully not too extreme detox. Bring it on.
7. Haunting. The school has been haunting me. Seriously. Ran into my mentor teacher in Macy's this past week. She's been retired 8 years!! It had been 10 since I had last seen her!! She looked great and it was so nice to be able to chat with her for a bit. I also had our pizza delivered by an old student (he's like 20 or so now). Yeah, he told me I was his favorite teacher. Made me tear up a bit. And lastly, got an email from one of my old students last year. She misses me, wants me to come back. Would love to...but not now:o) Too much to do. And having TOO much fun. Sorry. Someday.
6. Welcome Back Camera! The whole holiday season we were without our REALLY nice camera. I didn't think this would be such a huge deal but it was. I was ecstatic to get it back this past weekend!!! And even more ecstatic that the one Jay bought the day after Thanksgiving is being sold. Too slow. Doesn't take good pictures. Need I say more?? My kids do not stop. I need a quick camera.
5. New Toys. Now that we are home most days, the kids were getting a bit bored with their toys. Clay was growing out of his "baby" toys (I know, sad) and Mal needed something different. We are in business now!!! Our kids are spoiled. I've also placed a few things away, to bring out in a few months when they feel bored again. We did this last year as well:o) Also on my list to do this year--write Thank-yous. Usually I don't have time--being back to school and Mal's birthday coming up. But this year, I'm making time.
4. Clayisms. Man can the boy sign. We've started teaching him a few more signs and he picks them up within minutes. He did say "all done" this week, which caused all of us to burst into praise and smiles. And of course he copied us, thinking it was just grand. He is a mover. Constantly going, constantly doing. His new toys fit him. A little more action, movement, and thought. He's still the cutest, smiliest, curly haired boy around:0)
3. Malloryisms. Spunky, sassy girl. A few sayings from this week...
*"I'm talking to dad, mom." (All I did was ask her what she said)
*"Bad choice in driving Daddy." (Jay slowing down, because of ice)
*"How many bucks did you pay for that sled?" (BUCKS?? Really??)
*"If you're tired, you should just go to sleep. That's what I do. That right, Mom?" (Jay was complaining that he was tired.)
She knows all. And will tell it how it is. Could it be the FOUR in her?? But she is also the sweetest. This past week at the mall, she suggested that Clay and her share a milk. Both drinking out of different straws and looking at each other. Hallmark moment for this Momma. I'll take them when I can get them. It seems to change by the minute:o)
2. Extended Family. Lots of celebrating and chatting with extended family on both sides. It was great to be able to catch up with so many and be able to share our kiddos with them. I loved watching Mallory interact with my Aunts (her great Aunts), calling them by name, and showing them things. And Clay, he's Clay. Everyone loves him and he loves everyone. Watching him stand in front of the video camera at my Grandma's was hilarious. Great time had by all.
1. Home. Being gone so much this past few weeks, has made me realize how much I appreciate and LOVE being home. And I believe our kids feel the same way. Today marked the first day back into our somewhat routine. Both kids slept almost two hours!! Mal is still sleeping as I type this, while Mr. Clayton is entertaining the dog:o)
I hope your holiday was great!!
It feels absolutely wonderful to be back at my blogging!! Who knew?!?!
I wish the best for you this next year!!
Thanks for reading.
Until next week,
Mrs. Newell
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