No HUGE thoughts this week. Just surviving the holiday cheer/chaos:o)
Next week will be my recap of 2013.
Top 10 for the Week:
(December 23rd, 2013)
10. Car Rides with CLAY. He is a bear in the car. Screaming, yelling, whatever he can do. It's SO hard to be in the car with him. I'm hoping he grows out of this SOON. Anyone else have this issue?
9. Crazy KIDS. Holidays are rough on them. We've been in the car a lot. And with extended family. Here and there. Too much. Makes crazy kids. Is it sad to say I'm ready for routine again?
8. Tense. I've been a bit tense lately. Maybe grumpy would be a better word. I'm off. Reasons for this? Stuck inside? Kids over holidays? I'm over holidays? No chiropractor for the last few weeks? No night out the last few weeks? Not sure. But I'm over it. And I KNOW this directly effects my OWN children's mood. SO. I'M. DONE.
7. Christmas Eve. Since I was born, my family has always gone to my Grandma Engelhardt's for Chirstmas Eve (The year I was preggers with Mal we didn't go). This year, we stayed home. It was SO strange. I had mixed emotions. Like I was missing something. But starting something new too. Jay cooked dinner--which we've decided will be an annual thing. We watched a Christmas movie and then went to church. It was great. I'm excited to be starting this new tradition with our little family. And the kids were GREAT at church--especially Clay. Which makes me believe he CAN be good in the car.
6. Crochet. Finished an infinity scarf and now onto my next project--a blanket for Mal. My biggest project yet!:o)
5. Basement Renovation. Oh how I LOATHE renovations. The beginning and middle are always the worst! We are about in the end of the middle. It has been a long few weeks...but our basement is coming along and becoming more functional for our family! Only a few more big things and we will be done with this project and onto the next!
4. Holiday Party (Extended Engelhardt's). We've always done our Christmas party on Christmas Eve, but this year the whole family decided to move it to the weekend after Christmas. It was bliss. Loved having our extra time at home and not feeling so rushed to be anywhere. Kids were great (except for the car ride!). Enjoyed seeing my aunts, uncles, and cousins. Even if the place we had it at was only 57 degrees inside (heat was broken)!!! A good time by all. And I especially LOVE seeing my kids bond/interact with my extended family. Our kids are NOT shy. At all.
3. Clayisms. He PEED in his car seat on our way to my grandma's. Didn't know this until we stopped. Could have been why he was SO crazy on the way there. And I'm sure he peed out of his diaper because I kept giving him more juice/water because I thought he wanted more. Changed him, a bag down on the seat, and we called it good. One day this week I worked on his speech cards just before nap. Too bad the poor kid had hiccups. Try having a 2 year old who has a speech delay, say words to you WITH hiccups. It was a train wreck. We've also been giving him gum--suggested by his speech therapist to help strengthen his jaw muscles. He's so cute about it. He calls it yum yum. And he LOVES it. I'm shocked--but the two year old does NOT swallow it! He's so smart like that--of course. Now if we could only get him to potty train....
2. Malloryisms. Biggest thing this week for Mal was a new booster seat for her. Do to the pee--and just needing to get her a booster seat--we chose to buy one. She'll be five in just a few short weeks (I'm crying now). She was SO pumped about this. Nonstop talk for 24 hours. And then nonstop talk about it while she was IN it. So proud of herself. "This is what happens when you turn five." Ugh. Five. Crazy. And she is smarter than me. We were outdoors enjoying the snow and decided to build a snow tunnel through one of our snowbanks. Here I am using a Frisbee and my hands to try and dig one out. When I noticed Miss Smartypants Mallory using her feet and legs. Oh man--it was SO much easier! Yes folks, she's five and already smarter than me. Yikes.
1. Christmas. Christmas morning was awesome! Mal woke up around 7:00 and we ended up waking Clay up to join us. He wasn't too happy about that--even when he saw the presents. I have the funniest picture of him. He was so irritated. After opening presents, kids enjoyed some homemade cinnamon rolls (thanks Grandma Newell!) and homemade hot chocolate (thanks Daddy!). We all played until 11:00. The TV was not on at all. Which is SO unusual:o) We are TV junkies in the morning. FOUR hours straight of playing with new toys. After lunch we headed over to Jay's parents for his extended family gathering. Kids were great again! And SO tired. Clay ended up falling asleep on there couch at 6:00PM. It was cute. Overall, a great Christmas in our house. Lots of new and happy memories to add to our scrapbooks. We have a lot to be thankful for this year.
Hope you all had a great Christmas!
And enjoy your New Year's tonight!~
Love to you all.
Until next week,
Mrs. Newell
Tuesday, December 31, 2013
Thursday, December 26, 2013
So Long Christmas
I hate to admit this.*
But...
I just put ALL our Christmas decorations away.
ALL OF THEM.
(Except for the actual ornament less tree--I need Jay's help on that one).
I couldn't stand it anymore.
The broken decorations.
Stuff ALL over.
It was driving me crazy.
And we have a birthday party to plan in a few weeks.
So, I took care of it today.
It was a mad house.
With both kids, cat, dog, Xmas toys.
But as I sit here and type,
Viewing my surroundings...I feel calm.
Collected. Accomplished. Peaceful.
Although the toy situation is out of hand.
I'm waiting to purge, donate, sell, later next week.
After our two more Christmas'.
*Written on December 26th, 2013.
Top 10 for the (LAST) week:
10. Address Book Renew. It needed to be done. I had addresses in my address book from my freshman year of college. It was bad. People that I hadn't communicated with in YEARS. I mentioned getting a new one to my mom--and low and behold she had an extra package of replacement address cards! Cause everyone just has a random extra package like that, right?!?! Anyways, in one sitting, finished it. Little things like this make me smile:o)
9. Stomach Issues Back. This week my stomach issues came back a little. Had a little blood work done--everything checked out fine. Must have been something I ate during this splurge of holiday eating. Again, made me appreciate where I'm usually at now.
8. Vacuum Died. Like HUGE. Smoke, spark, black on plug-in. It was crazy. Have never seen anything like that before. I have to admit I was a bit scared. Jay came to the rescue (like he always does in situations like that--what would I do without him?!?!). And my MIL came to the rescue too:o) She's letting us borrow her old one until we finally buy one.
7. After School Snow. A few times this week I made sure Clayton was in his snow gear when I picked up Mal so they could both enjoy some outdoor weather after her school got out. It's great seeing the kids enjoy the colder temperatures. And it's great exercise (also makes them sleep better).
6. Sew Much Fun. Had a chance to sew a bit more this week. It. Was. Awesome. Wish I could do that every week.
5. Holiday Prep. Crazy how much it takes to prep for the holidays. You forget this until you are amongst the chaos and frets of getting it ALL done. My list is/was a mile long. Thankfully, festivities were spread out enough that I could worry about a few things at a time. And actually take my time.
4. Homemade Gifts. There is something SO great about making something for someone. I made a lot of our Christmas gifts this year. And I had PURE joy in making and giving them to our special people in our lives. I need to remember this next year.
3. Clayisms. Clay is obsessed with our Xmas train. So much we ended up putting it up for most of the holiday season. This week he started saying Mallory--in the most adorable voice ever. I can't wait to really be able to listen to his words and sentences in his cute little voice. The screaming is getting OLD. And driving us crazy. On the way home from my parents' this past weekend, Clayton handed be a booger. YES. A booger. And told me it was one. SO I guess, I should have known better than to take it. But I did.
2. Malloryisms. A few of Mal's sayings:
"Daddy doesn't know the words to doctor." When I told her I was leaving and that Daddy could play doctor with her. Sometimes I am SO make believed out:o)
"Cat's aren't fun to play with." After chasing Leo around the house, and trying to get him to sit with her. We had a whole discussion on the difference between cats and dogs. She still loves Leo.
"Come here you little pistol." Talking to a grape that was rolling away from her. I think she gets this from MY dad. Hilarious.
1. Christmas with the Engelhardt's. Great time! It was so much fun to just hang out with my family for a weekend. Good food, games, drinks, play, presents, shopping, AND extra space!!! My parents just finished up a HUGE renovation of their house. Giving them MORE bedrooms and bathrooms. It made a huge difference in all of us staying there. Kids could run around and truly be kids without getting into too much:o) Kids played awesome together. Boy cousins were a riot together! Mal got a sewing machine:o) Clay got some big trucks. And Jay and I got pots and pans (the highlight of the weekend!! We came home and that was the FIRST thing we washed and put away! Ha! Times have changed!). Just the beginning of this holiday season...
I'm late.
SUPER late.
And I've got another one to do after this:o)
Until next week,
Mrs. Newell
But...
I just put ALL our Christmas decorations away.
ALL OF THEM.
(Except for the actual ornament less tree--I need Jay's help on that one).
I couldn't stand it anymore.
The broken decorations.
Stuff ALL over.
It was driving me crazy.
And we have a birthday party to plan in a few weeks.
So, I took care of it today.
It was a mad house.
With both kids, cat, dog, Xmas toys.
But as I sit here and type,
Viewing my surroundings...I feel calm.
Collected. Accomplished. Peaceful.
Although the toy situation is out of hand.
I'm waiting to purge, donate, sell, later next week.
After our two more Christmas'.
*Written on December 26th, 2013.
Top 10 for the (LAST) week:
10. Address Book Renew. It needed to be done. I had addresses in my address book from my freshman year of college. It was bad. People that I hadn't communicated with in YEARS. I mentioned getting a new one to my mom--and low and behold she had an extra package of replacement address cards! Cause everyone just has a random extra package like that, right?!?! Anyways, in one sitting, finished it. Little things like this make me smile:o)
9. Stomach Issues Back. This week my stomach issues came back a little. Had a little blood work done--everything checked out fine. Must have been something I ate during this splurge of holiday eating. Again, made me appreciate where I'm usually at now.
8. Vacuum Died. Like HUGE. Smoke, spark, black on plug-in. It was crazy. Have never seen anything like that before. I have to admit I was a bit scared. Jay came to the rescue (like he always does in situations like that--what would I do without him?!?!). And my MIL came to the rescue too:o) She's letting us borrow her old one until we finally buy one.
7. After School Snow. A few times this week I made sure Clayton was in his snow gear when I picked up Mal so they could both enjoy some outdoor weather after her school got out. It's great seeing the kids enjoy the colder temperatures. And it's great exercise (also makes them sleep better).
6. Sew Much Fun. Had a chance to sew a bit more this week. It. Was. Awesome. Wish I could do that every week.
5. Holiday Prep. Crazy how much it takes to prep for the holidays. You forget this until you are amongst the chaos and frets of getting it ALL done. My list is/was a mile long. Thankfully, festivities were spread out enough that I could worry about a few things at a time. And actually take my time.
4. Homemade Gifts. There is something SO great about making something for someone. I made a lot of our Christmas gifts this year. And I had PURE joy in making and giving them to our special people in our lives. I need to remember this next year.
3. Clayisms. Clay is obsessed with our Xmas train. So much we ended up putting it up for most of the holiday season. This week he started saying Mallory--in the most adorable voice ever. I can't wait to really be able to listen to his words and sentences in his cute little voice. The screaming is getting OLD. And driving us crazy. On the way home from my parents' this past weekend, Clayton handed be a booger. YES. A booger. And told me it was one. SO I guess, I should have known better than to take it. But I did.
2. Malloryisms. A few of Mal's sayings:
"Daddy doesn't know the words to doctor." When I told her I was leaving and that Daddy could play doctor with her. Sometimes I am SO make believed out:o)
"Cat's aren't fun to play with." After chasing Leo around the house, and trying to get him to sit with her. We had a whole discussion on the difference between cats and dogs. She still loves Leo.
"Come here you little pistol." Talking to a grape that was rolling away from her. I think she gets this from MY dad. Hilarious.
1. Christmas with the Engelhardt's. Great time! It was so much fun to just hang out with my family for a weekend. Good food, games, drinks, play, presents, shopping, AND extra space!!! My parents just finished up a HUGE renovation of their house. Giving them MORE bedrooms and bathrooms. It made a huge difference in all of us staying there. Kids could run around and truly be kids without getting into too much:o) Kids played awesome together. Boy cousins were a riot together! Mal got a sewing machine:o) Clay got some big trucks. And Jay and I got pots and pans (the highlight of the weekend!! We came home and that was the FIRST thing we washed and put away! Ha! Times have changed!). Just the beginning of this holiday season...
I'm late.
SUPER late.
And I've got another one to do after this:o)
Until next week,
Mrs. Newell
Monday, December 16, 2013
SO Not Ready
I realized when I took this gig that there would be a day that it would end. I thought I'd have at least four years home with the kids and then we would go from there.
I didn't realize how much I would enjoy being home with them. How much it would change me. And them. For the better.
I tear up thinking about Mal going into kindergarten next year. What will our day be like without her with us? I think it will possibly be harder on me, than her.
Well, today, it was mentioned that Clay next year could possibly be in the preschool program located in the same building as his speech. The program is five days a week for almost 3 hours.
I cried.
I'm SO not ready for this.
I didn't realize how attached I'd be to them.
How just in a 18 months, I'd feel this way.
Roles and lives change so quickly.
Top 10 for the Week:
12-9-13
10. No Power. One day this past week we were without power two separate times (one was just over an hour). Jay got his chance to try out the generator. Enough said. He was elated. Like a little kid.
9. Stuck. So, our new van is WAY different driving in snow than our Trail Blazer. A bit scary. A few times this past week I struggled to get out of our steep driveway. In fact, one day I actually got stuck on my way to pick up Mal. Several scoops of salt and shovels of snow and I made it out. I called on my handsome husband to help me out. Of course, when he came, I was in the last 2 feet of the steep hill. He jumped in and drove it the rest of the way up. 95% done. Yeah, it was me. All me.
8. Early Riser. I was up early one day this week. I had like 5 things accomplished before anyone was up in the house. It was bliss. Why don't I do this??? Here's to trying harder to be an early bird.
7. Brussel Sprouts. LOVE them. Didn't know this until Thanksgiving of this year. Seriously. I could eat them every week. Delicious. How have I gone 35 years without having one?!?!
6. Damaged. Our holiday decorations are getting ruined by our kids (mainly the littlest one). Makes me sad/angry/frustrated. Let's just say that I have a permanent pile of "please fix me" pieces on the counter.
5. Xmas Program. Mal had her Xmas program this week. SO adorable. She had to wear pajamas and pretend she was sleeping for part of it. I love seeing her in this kind of environment. She's becoming quite the performer:o) Clay was a gem! He was SO good throughout the whole program. Very captivated by the performance. Stuck by my side the whole time I was moving around trying to get the perfect shot of Mal.
4. Holiday Stuff. We had quite the packed holiday weekend. Friday night we went sledding behind Jay's Grandpa's house. The kids were thrilled and had such a great time! I did as well! And forgot how much of an exercise sledding can be! We also went and saw Santa in the mall. Clay was a bit skeptical at first--not wanting to go near him--and then he warmed up. Mal was her usual shy but excited self. Her I-love-you-but-I'm-going-to-be-shy smile. Both took a great picture with him. After Santa we went and got our tree. Snowing, cold, cranky kids. We picked one that he had already cut down. But it was perfect. Fits nicely in our living room. The kids were ready to be home:o) We ended up decorating it on Sunday night. Clay was into it at first but then realized that Jay wasn't going to lift him up for every ornament. He turned quickly into a not so excited boy. Mal adored it all....every ornament was "so cute" and she loved everything about it. I love having the smell and light from it. A nice addition to our living room.
3. Clayisms. Speech was cancelled this past week. He was upset about it--making a frown face when I told him. He seemed off most of the week. Cranky, not talking as much, screaming lots. A very frustrating week. Spoke again to the speech therapist today. We are looking into getting him more help with another speech therapist as well as having his hearing thoroughly checked. She thinks it has something to do with his motor development (not being able to process what he's thinking and saying). Knowing what the right thing is to do for your child is hard. He's still his happy, personable, loving self. I don't want that being taken away from him--out of frustration of not being able to communicate OR from working him too hard. I know I write about this a lot...but it's always on my mind and heart. And this week was rough.
2. Malloryisms. Oh Mallory. A few of her funny sayings: "Ava told me that gummy bears were made out of bones." I put two health food store (made out of agave nectar) in her snack and she was told by another little girl at school this. Cracks me up. She was concerned--who wouldn't be?!?! "MOM! I would poop on the floor--would you like that?!?!" It seems, I wasn't walking FAST enough to help her unbutton her pants. And of course I wouldn't like it if she pooped on the floor. Duh?!?! Only the beginning people. Help me. She also believes that I can fix and make anything when it comes to sewing or crafting. SO cute. But she's putting the pressure on me. "Oh Daddy. Mom can make that!" I'm ready to start saying--"Oh Mallory, you can make that!" And I think she's ready too. But still a little too young to start using her own sewing machine.
1. Crazy Sunday. LOTS was done Sunday. Chaotic. Yes. Stressful. Yes. Jay was able to get the frame up for our huge closet in our laundry room. The kids and I wrapped presents, made homemade play do ornaments, got out the rest of the Christmas stuff, and did our usual thing. The day flew by! And by the end of it--the kids were ready for bed!
IT's close!
Last week of school for Mal!
Excited to have her home for a few weeks--
where we can stay in our pajamas for a day!
Hope you all have a great last week!
Until next week,
Mrs. Newell
I didn't realize how much I would enjoy being home with them. How much it would change me. And them. For the better.
I tear up thinking about Mal going into kindergarten next year. What will our day be like without her with us? I think it will possibly be harder on me, than her.
Well, today, it was mentioned that Clay next year could possibly be in the preschool program located in the same building as his speech. The program is five days a week for almost 3 hours.
I cried.
I'm SO not ready for this.
I didn't realize how attached I'd be to them.
How just in a 18 months, I'd feel this way.
Roles and lives change so quickly.
Top 10 for the Week:
12-9-13
10. No Power. One day this past week we were without power two separate times (one was just over an hour). Jay got his chance to try out the generator. Enough said. He was elated. Like a little kid.
9. Stuck. So, our new van is WAY different driving in snow than our Trail Blazer. A bit scary. A few times this past week I struggled to get out of our steep driveway. In fact, one day I actually got stuck on my way to pick up Mal. Several scoops of salt and shovels of snow and I made it out. I called on my handsome husband to help me out. Of course, when he came, I was in the last 2 feet of the steep hill. He jumped in and drove it the rest of the way up. 95% done. Yeah, it was me. All me.
8. Early Riser. I was up early one day this week. I had like 5 things accomplished before anyone was up in the house. It was bliss. Why don't I do this??? Here's to trying harder to be an early bird.
7. Brussel Sprouts. LOVE them. Didn't know this until Thanksgiving of this year. Seriously. I could eat them every week. Delicious. How have I gone 35 years without having one?!?!
6. Damaged. Our holiday decorations are getting ruined by our kids (mainly the littlest one). Makes me sad/angry/frustrated. Let's just say that I have a permanent pile of "please fix me" pieces on the counter.
5. Xmas Program. Mal had her Xmas program this week. SO adorable. She had to wear pajamas and pretend she was sleeping for part of it. I love seeing her in this kind of environment. She's becoming quite the performer:o) Clay was a gem! He was SO good throughout the whole program. Very captivated by the performance. Stuck by my side the whole time I was moving around trying to get the perfect shot of Mal.
4. Holiday Stuff. We had quite the packed holiday weekend. Friday night we went sledding behind Jay's Grandpa's house. The kids were thrilled and had such a great time! I did as well! And forgot how much of an exercise sledding can be! We also went and saw Santa in the mall. Clay was a bit skeptical at first--not wanting to go near him--and then he warmed up. Mal was her usual shy but excited self. Her I-love-you-but-I'm-going-to-be-shy smile. Both took a great picture with him. After Santa we went and got our tree. Snowing, cold, cranky kids. We picked one that he had already cut down. But it was perfect. Fits nicely in our living room. The kids were ready to be home:o) We ended up decorating it on Sunday night. Clay was into it at first but then realized that Jay wasn't going to lift him up for every ornament. He turned quickly into a not so excited boy. Mal adored it all....every ornament was "so cute" and she loved everything about it. I love having the smell and light from it. A nice addition to our living room.
3. Clayisms. Speech was cancelled this past week. He was upset about it--making a frown face when I told him. He seemed off most of the week. Cranky, not talking as much, screaming lots. A very frustrating week. Spoke again to the speech therapist today. We are looking into getting him more help with another speech therapist as well as having his hearing thoroughly checked. She thinks it has something to do with his motor development (not being able to process what he's thinking and saying). Knowing what the right thing is to do for your child is hard. He's still his happy, personable, loving self. I don't want that being taken away from him--out of frustration of not being able to communicate OR from working him too hard. I know I write about this a lot...but it's always on my mind and heart. And this week was rough.
2. Malloryisms. Oh Mallory. A few of her funny sayings: "Ava told me that gummy bears were made out of bones." I put two health food store (made out of agave nectar) in her snack and she was told by another little girl at school this. Cracks me up. She was concerned--who wouldn't be?!?! "MOM! I would poop on the floor--would you like that?!?!" It seems, I wasn't walking FAST enough to help her unbutton her pants. And of course I wouldn't like it if she pooped on the floor. Duh?!?! Only the beginning people. Help me. She also believes that I can fix and make anything when it comes to sewing or crafting. SO cute. But she's putting the pressure on me. "Oh Daddy. Mom can make that!" I'm ready to start saying--"Oh Mallory, you can make that!" And I think she's ready too. But still a little too young to start using her own sewing machine.
1. Crazy Sunday. LOTS was done Sunday. Chaotic. Yes. Stressful. Yes. Jay was able to get the frame up for our huge closet in our laundry room. The kids and I wrapped presents, made homemade play do ornaments, got out the rest of the Christmas stuff, and did our usual thing. The day flew by! And by the end of it--the kids were ready for bed!
IT's close!
Last week of school for Mal!
Excited to have her home for a few weeks--
where we can stay in our pajamas for a day!
Hope you all have a great last week!
Until next week,
Mrs. Newell
Tuesday, December 10, 2013
Making the Best of It
It's so strange for me to think of my life any other way. It's been about 1 1/2 years since I've "retired" from outside-of-the-home work and I can honestly say I'm STILL loving it.
Of course there are days when I would give anything to trade places with my husband*. To just go to work for a few hours to get away from our little ones, from the chaos. To recoup. To be in silence. To be me.
But then there are times like today. Where it's freezing outside, so we head to Bounce Land in Kalamazoo for a few hours. IF I was working, I wouldn't have been able to do so. Wouldn't have been able to enjoy the "just us" moment. The kids had a blast. And so did I. Running, laughing, sliding, just enjoying being out and about.
And I look at them, and see how big they are already. I mean, Clayton can climb up the biggest slide WITHOUT me. He's that big now. And I realize my time at home, WITH them, is short. But SO needed for both parties involved. They need me. And I need them.
And unfortunately/fortunately I, Beth Newell, could not give them what I give them now, when I was working. It wasn't in ME. It makes me nervous to think about going back and being a mother/teacher again. It's draining. And honestly, I'm a different mother when I am a teacher. I'm hoping it will come easier once they are older. But thank God, I don't have to think about that right now.
Until then, I'm enjoying every blessed (and chaotic) moment I get with my little ones. Because next year, my baby girl will be in Kindergarten. And it breaks my heart to think that I won't be able to hang with her the majority of the day. I've got NINE months people. And we are for sure making the best of it!
*Ask him. Seriously. There have been a few days that I've asked as he was saying goodbye to me.
Top 10 for the Week:
10. Me Time. Didn't get out of the house this week by myself. Felt it. Needed it. Hopefully this week. And my 30 minute haircut doesn't count.
9. Crockpot Lid. So the handle of my crock pot lid broke. It was crock pot Monday and I was annoyed. My dear SIL recommended calling the company to see if they would replace it for free--AND they DID! I had it at my house by the weekend! I need to be more ambitious in calling companies. Here's to calling more and buying less! (My pork tenderloin smells delicious now).
8. Sewing/Crocheting. Finished some projects this week. I get such satisfaction from doing this. Seriously. So glad I found my niche.
7. Enough! My kids bicker. And I can only take so much. I ushered them to their rooms for 20 minutes, while I finished dinner. And it was bliss. Why have I not thought of this before?!?!
6. Chamber Dinner. The Christmas Chamber Dinner was this past Monday. I had a little TOO much fun if you know what I mean. I was suffering a bit on Tuesday. Makes me feel old. But also makes me glad I only do this once or twice a year:o)
5. Paw Paw Parade. It. Was. Freezing. SO COLD. But Mal enjoyed walking, passing out candy, and being a big girl. With her mom. It was well worth the cold.
4. Dowagiac Parade. The expressions on the kids' faces were priceless. Clay couldn't stop making crazy high pitch noises and Mal couldn't stop pointing out every dancer, firetruck, or Santa. They are at the perfect age right now--eating up every sound, vision, and experience.
3. Clayisms. I was walking past our nativity scene on Friday and noticed three rocks placed in a line on the manger. That's Sir Clayton. He also likes to put them in his pockets. And yes, he can find them anywhere--even in the winter. Speech is still going well. He's trying harder--really wanting to say words and sounds. It is amazing to me how much he understands. Makes me think I need to start watching what I say around him. He plays SO well independently. Mal not-so-much (what rest time?). I wonder if this is the second child syndrome. He's so entertained by his trains, cars, and anything else I give him. I'm truly shocked. And still working on Mal.
2. Malloryisms. Oh Mallory. Seems she had a "lock-up" (according to Mal) at school this week. You know a lock down. She came home all concerned and of course we talked about it. It breaks my heart I have to have these conversations with my 4 year old. But at least she's willing to share. Overheard Mal telling Clay that they should snuggle together on the couch while watching a show. They both were in smiles, giggling, covered in blankets, hunched over towards each other. Most adorable kid sight ever. Mal and I spent some sewing time together while Clayton had his nap. We used a starter kit and made a kitty cat and heart. She was singing the majority of the time--to lyrics that had to deal with our sewing. This totally reminded me up her Daddy. Two other quick quotes: M--"Alexis has two boyfriends." Me--"What?!?!" Mal--"Alexis has two boyfriends." Me--"You can't have a boyfriend until you are 16." Mal--"Okay Mommy." She's 4 people. FOUR. This weekend was a bit of chaos for us with the laundry room. We tried to do the BIG things when the kids were sleeping...but of course some things had to be done when the kids were awake. During the process of moving the big freezer, Mal ran into the room and told us Clay was climbing on top of the boxes (we have TONS). I told Mal, "Well, tell him not to nicely." So she ran into the room and we heard her say politely, "Clayton not to." Jay and I looked at each other and cracked up. We couldn't stop! LOVE the 4 year old literal mind. And the simplicity.
1. Laundry Room. Is on it's way!! We have painted walls (goodbye ugly bright blue, hello grey) and NEW flooring! It looks great and I feel like we have somewhat organized chaos. Now for some new closets and the rest of the unorganized chaos will be taken care of for good!
Well, here's to another week closer to Christmas!
Can't wait for the holiday!
Have a great week!
Until next,
Mrs. Newell
Of course there are days when I would give anything to trade places with my husband*. To just go to work for a few hours to get away from our little ones, from the chaos. To recoup. To be in silence. To be me.
But then there are times like today. Where it's freezing outside, so we head to Bounce Land in Kalamazoo for a few hours. IF I was working, I wouldn't have been able to do so. Wouldn't have been able to enjoy the "just us" moment. The kids had a blast. And so did I. Running, laughing, sliding, just enjoying being out and about.
And I look at them, and see how big they are already. I mean, Clayton can climb up the biggest slide WITHOUT me. He's that big now. And I realize my time at home, WITH them, is short. But SO needed for both parties involved. They need me. And I need them.
And unfortunately/fortunately I, Beth Newell, could not give them what I give them now, when I was working. It wasn't in ME. It makes me nervous to think about going back and being a mother/teacher again. It's draining. And honestly, I'm a different mother when I am a teacher. I'm hoping it will come easier once they are older. But thank God, I don't have to think about that right now.
Until then, I'm enjoying every blessed (and chaotic) moment I get with my little ones. Because next year, my baby girl will be in Kindergarten. And it breaks my heart to think that I won't be able to hang with her the majority of the day. I've got NINE months people. And we are for sure making the best of it!
*Ask him. Seriously. There have been a few days that I've asked as he was saying goodbye to me.
Top 10 for the Week:
10. Me Time. Didn't get out of the house this week by myself. Felt it. Needed it. Hopefully this week. And my 30 minute haircut doesn't count.
9. Crockpot Lid. So the handle of my crock pot lid broke. It was crock pot Monday and I was annoyed. My dear SIL recommended calling the company to see if they would replace it for free--AND they DID! I had it at my house by the weekend! I need to be more ambitious in calling companies. Here's to calling more and buying less! (My pork tenderloin smells delicious now).
8. Sewing/Crocheting. Finished some projects this week. I get such satisfaction from doing this. Seriously. So glad I found my niche.
7. Enough! My kids bicker. And I can only take so much. I ushered them to their rooms for 20 minutes, while I finished dinner. And it was bliss. Why have I not thought of this before?!?!
6. Chamber Dinner. The Christmas Chamber Dinner was this past Monday. I had a little TOO much fun if you know what I mean. I was suffering a bit on Tuesday. Makes me feel old. But also makes me glad I only do this once or twice a year:o)
5. Paw Paw Parade. It. Was. Freezing. SO COLD. But Mal enjoyed walking, passing out candy, and being a big girl. With her mom. It was well worth the cold.
4. Dowagiac Parade. The expressions on the kids' faces were priceless. Clay couldn't stop making crazy high pitch noises and Mal couldn't stop pointing out every dancer, firetruck, or Santa. They are at the perfect age right now--eating up every sound, vision, and experience.
3. Clayisms. I was walking past our nativity scene on Friday and noticed three rocks placed in a line on the manger. That's Sir Clayton. He also likes to put them in his pockets. And yes, he can find them anywhere--even in the winter. Speech is still going well. He's trying harder--really wanting to say words and sounds. It is amazing to me how much he understands. Makes me think I need to start watching what I say around him. He plays SO well independently. Mal not-so-much (what rest time?). I wonder if this is the second child syndrome. He's so entertained by his trains, cars, and anything else I give him. I'm truly shocked. And still working on Mal.
2. Malloryisms. Oh Mallory. Seems she had a "lock-up" (according to Mal) at school this week. You know a lock down. She came home all concerned and of course we talked about it. It breaks my heart I have to have these conversations with my 4 year old. But at least she's willing to share. Overheard Mal telling Clay that they should snuggle together on the couch while watching a show. They both were in smiles, giggling, covered in blankets, hunched over towards each other. Most adorable kid sight ever. Mal and I spent some sewing time together while Clayton had his nap. We used a starter kit and made a kitty cat and heart. She was singing the majority of the time--to lyrics that had to deal with our sewing. This totally reminded me up her Daddy. Two other quick quotes: M--"Alexis has two boyfriends." Me--"What?!?!" Mal--"Alexis has two boyfriends." Me--"You can't have a boyfriend until you are 16." Mal--"Okay Mommy." She's 4 people. FOUR. This weekend was a bit of chaos for us with the laundry room. We tried to do the BIG things when the kids were sleeping...but of course some things had to be done when the kids were awake. During the process of moving the big freezer, Mal ran into the room and told us Clay was climbing on top of the boxes (we have TONS). I told Mal, "Well, tell him not to nicely." So she ran into the room and we heard her say politely, "Clayton not to." Jay and I looked at each other and cracked up. We couldn't stop! LOVE the 4 year old literal mind. And the simplicity.
1. Laundry Room. Is on it's way!! We have painted walls (goodbye ugly bright blue, hello grey) and NEW flooring! It looks great and I feel like we have somewhat organized chaos. Now for some new closets and the rest of the unorganized chaos will be taken care of for good!
Well, here's to another week closer to Christmas!
Can't wait for the holiday!
Have a great week!
Until next,
Mrs. Newell
Monday, December 2, 2013
I Have Hobbies!
My husband has hobbies.
Lots of them.
Bowling, golfing, hunting, being outdoors, the list goes on.
Up until this past year,
I had nothing.
I mean,
I occasionally scrapped.
Or worked out.
But nothing consistent.
Nothing that led me out of the house...
Or someplace to work.
Or made me feel accomplished.
Or happy.
Or "Dude--this is FUN!"
That is,
Until this year.
So, then I ponder.
What caused me to be this way?
Not enough time?
Teaching and being a mother were my priorities.
No energy?
See above.
No ambition?
See above.
I've taken teaching out of the equation.
(THAT'S IT).
And, NOW...
I often feel torn in what TO do!
Sewing, scrap booking, crocheting, blogging.
My time is still limited.
So, I choose wisely daily depending on my mood.
And it's SO nice to do something for me.
JUST me.
That I love.
And cherish.
I get to be creative.
Use my skills.
And be ME.
Top 10 for the Week:
(I still hear the boy making roaring noises in his room--Nap time).
10. Sicky Sunday. So, I woke up yesterday morning with some tummy issues. Enough to cause me to not want to do anything the whole day. It was horrid. Feeling better now. But still not in the mood to eat too much. I'm thinking it's something I ate over break. My stomach is so sensitive now.
9. Laundry Room CHAOS. We are redoing our laundry room. Great right?!?!? You would think. But I hate the process. Our downstairs is so chaotic...it throws me in such a grumpy mood. As I search for coats, shoes, paper towels, toilet paper. We are not even close to being done. UGH.
8. OCD. I have a little of it. I grew up in a tidy household. BOTH my parents were very clean, organized, tidy, whatever you'd like to call it. So I've developed a bit of it. Marrying Jay has helped:o) He is so laid back about things and is not at all OCD. Some days I'm good, others I stress. Mal has a good balance of what she keeps clean and what she doesn't. Clayton I'm a bit worried about. I see tendencies in him. Not huge ones. There's nothing wrong with wanting a little order and clean, right?!?!
7. Christmas Décor. So, I had this fabulous idea to put up our Xmas decorations on the Wednesday Mal didn't have school. Mind you, in years past, I've done it at night or the weekend after Thanksgiving, when Jay's here. He manages the kids a bit and we all help put it up. Well, I thought the kids could handle it. It was CRAZY. And then Mal seemed bored with it and didn't want to finish. (She wanted to put it up SO badly, that I finally caved in and said okay). But it's done. And we are planning on getting our tree this weekend--which will be SO fun! I truly love this time of year with the kids. They get so excited over such little things.
6. Crochet. Thanks to another dear friend, I've finally mastered (the best I can) crocheting! I'm so pumped! I'm on my second scarf and have plans to do other things too! Only took a few teachers...and I finally figured it out!
5. Black Friday. Five years ago, Jay and I bought a treadmill on Black Friday. But other than that, we have never done any of the big shopping. I decided last minute to head the sales with her. We were at the stores around 8:00 and honestly it wasn't that bad. Got a few good deals. But I wish I would have been better prepared. Maybe next year.
4. Clayisms. Sunday morning, while all of us were vegging on the couch, Clay went into the kitchen. Opened the fridge, grabbed two carrots, and brought them out to the living room. Gave one to Mal, and they both started munching on them. It was so strange. And hilarious! His speech has been going VERY well. I feel like we finally have a little light at the end of the tunnel. It's SO encouraging! He is really starting to pick up words and you can hear them if you really listen. One happy Momma here.
3. Malloryisms. She's loving school and everything that goes with it. One day this week, she just started singing one of her Christmas program songs. It was so sweet and she was SO great at it. She knows the sounds and can identify 6 of the 7 letters they have learned. And she's becoming interested in writing out everything. She's our little sponge. And I LOVE teaching her new words and seeing her connect things.
2. Friends Visit. We had friends over on Saturday night. I love how the kids get along so well. It's so easy. And so nice to be able to just enjoy their company.
1. Holiday. So nice to have Jay home for a few days. Although I think the kids were confused:o) And it probably didn't help that we started the laundry room. A little bit of boredom and bickering kids caused a few long hours. But we all had a chance to do things that we love. And got to spend some time with Jay's family which was fun (food, drinks, & cards--what could be better?!?!). I'm looking forward to Christmas break--and having more time to just be with our families!
It's December!
Wow!
Enjoy your week friends!
Love to you all.
Until next week,
Mrs. Newell
P.S. Just so you know, I often do not have time to proofread my blogs (besides just spellcheck). Like now, I'm choosing to finish the vacuuming and do some crochet before the littles get up from their nap! Please forgive me:o) My time is limited! And precious!
Lots of them.
Bowling, golfing, hunting, being outdoors, the list goes on.
Up until this past year,
I had nothing.
I mean,
I occasionally scrapped.
Or worked out.
But nothing consistent.
Nothing that led me out of the house...
Or someplace to work.
Or made me feel accomplished.
Or happy.
Or "Dude--this is FUN!"
That is,
Until this year.
So, then I ponder.
What caused me to be this way?
Not enough time?
Teaching and being a mother were my priorities.
No energy?
See above.
No ambition?
See above.
I've taken teaching out of the equation.
(THAT'S IT).
And, NOW...
I often feel torn in what TO do!
Sewing, scrap booking, crocheting, blogging.
My time is still limited.
So, I choose wisely daily depending on my mood.
And it's SO nice to do something for me.
JUST me.
That I love.
And cherish.
I get to be creative.
Use my skills.
And be ME.
Top 10 for the Week:
(I still hear the boy making roaring noises in his room--Nap time).
10. Sicky Sunday. So, I woke up yesterday morning with some tummy issues. Enough to cause me to not want to do anything the whole day. It was horrid. Feeling better now. But still not in the mood to eat too much. I'm thinking it's something I ate over break. My stomach is so sensitive now.
9. Laundry Room CHAOS. We are redoing our laundry room. Great right?!?!? You would think. But I hate the process. Our downstairs is so chaotic...it throws me in such a grumpy mood. As I search for coats, shoes, paper towels, toilet paper. We are not even close to being done. UGH.
8. OCD. I have a little of it. I grew up in a tidy household. BOTH my parents were very clean, organized, tidy, whatever you'd like to call it. So I've developed a bit of it. Marrying Jay has helped:o) He is so laid back about things and is not at all OCD. Some days I'm good, others I stress. Mal has a good balance of what she keeps clean and what she doesn't. Clayton I'm a bit worried about. I see tendencies in him. Not huge ones. There's nothing wrong with wanting a little order and clean, right?!?!
7. Christmas Décor. So, I had this fabulous idea to put up our Xmas decorations on the Wednesday Mal didn't have school. Mind you, in years past, I've done it at night or the weekend after Thanksgiving, when Jay's here. He manages the kids a bit and we all help put it up. Well, I thought the kids could handle it. It was CRAZY. And then Mal seemed bored with it and didn't want to finish. (She wanted to put it up SO badly, that I finally caved in and said okay). But it's done. And we are planning on getting our tree this weekend--which will be SO fun! I truly love this time of year with the kids. They get so excited over such little things.
6. Crochet. Thanks to another dear friend, I've finally mastered (the best I can) crocheting! I'm so pumped! I'm on my second scarf and have plans to do other things too! Only took a few teachers...and I finally figured it out!
5. Black Friday. Five years ago, Jay and I bought a treadmill on Black Friday. But other than that, we have never done any of the big shopping. I decided last minute to head the sales with her. We were at the stores around 8:00 and honestly it wasn't that bad. Got a few good deals. But I wish I would have been better prepared. Maybe next year.
4. Clayisms. Sunday morning, while all of us were vegging on the couch, Clay went into the kitchen. Opened the fridge, grabbed two carrots, and brought them out to the living room. Gave one to Mal, and they both started munching on them. It was so strange. And hilarious! His speech has been going VERY well. I feel like we finally have a little light at the end of the tunnel. It's SO encouraging! He is really starting to pick up words and you can hear them if you really listen. One happy Momma here.
3. Malloryisms. She's loving school and everything that goes with it. One day this week, she just started singing one of her Christmas program songs. It was so sweet and she was SO great at it. She knows the sounds and can identify 6 of the 7 letters they have learned. And she's becoming interested in writing out everything. She's our little sponge. And I LOVE teaching her new words and seeing her connect things.
2. Friends Visit. We had friends over on Saturday night. I love how the kids get along so well. It's so easy. And so nice to be able to just enjoy their company.
1. Holiday. So nice to have Jay home for a few days. Although I think the kids were confused:o) And it probably didn't help that we started the laundry room. A little bit of boredom and bickering kids caused a few long hours. But we all had a chance to do things that we love. And got to spend some time with Jay's family which was fun (food, drinks, & cards--what could be better?!?!). I'm looking forward to Christmas break--and having more time to just be with our families!
It's December!
Wow!
Enjoy your week friends!
Love to you all.
Until next week,
Mrs. Newell
P.S. Just so you know, I often do not have time to proofread my blogs (besides just spellcheck). Like now, I'm choosing to finish the vacuuming and do some crochet before the littles get up from their nap! Please forgive me:o) My time is limited! And precious!
Wednesday, November 20, 2013
My Daily Life Loves.
My Daily Life LOVES.
My daughter's dimple when she smiles.
The smell of her hair.
My son's hugs when he wakes up from his nap.
The way he looks so intently at me.
(Gotta go--kids are up...will finish later.)
Top 10 for the Week of November 11th:
10. Migraine. I used to get sensory migraines quite frequently when I was younger. Fortunately in the last five years or so, I've only really had a handful of them. And 2 of them were RIGHT after giving birth to our kids (I seriously had JUST Clay, was still in the delivery room, and started losing my eyesight). This week I had one. The headache wasn't SO severe but the numbness in my face and arm were extremely annoying. It always seems to freak me out a little. Like I'm fine one minute and then if feels like I've just been numbed by the dentist. Thankfully, I'm feeling better this week.
9. Tired Monday. Ummm...after sewing for the WHOLE weekend (I didn't get home until after 4PM on Sunday), I was exhausted:o) Monday was a bit rough...and I still feel like my body is fighting something off. So, we didn't accomplish much on Monday. But hey--who cares right?!?!
8. No TV. While the men in our lives are hunting, my mom comes down here to hang out and help me:o) I know, I'm extremely lucky and fortunate! Needless to say, taking Mal and JUST Mal to and from school on Friday was extreme bliss. Anyways, one of the days my mom was here the kids didn't watch ANY TV until just before bedtime. We kept them occupied all day with different fun things to do. I'm extremely conscious of this. I think I might even be a little bit overboard. But I SO hate the look on my kids face when they are watching TV. Like they are zombies or something. Mal has figured me out--she gets when I say we are done, we are done. Clay still needs some time. He LOVES TV right now. OBSESSED with watching it.
7. Candy Land Afternoon. One afternoon after nap time, the kids and I enjoyed a game of Candy land in the toy room/sun room. The sun was out, I had my tea, and the kids were behaving. A Momma's dream. I LOVE and cherish those moments.
6. Chiro Kidless. So, I take my kids to the chiro with me. More often just with Clay. But I still take them. Andthey, I mean he, is LOUD. In a quiet space--makes it REALLY loud. I am always so embarrassed by his loudness and behavior. The staff and doctor are extremely supportive...but I still feel bad. Well, since my mom was here, I got to go by myself. I forgot how calming and relaxing my chiropractor visits can/could be! I was jokingly telling the ladies how nice it was being by myself. They all laughed. A lot. And even more when I took them BOTH this week--and he was OFF the charts. Yeah. That's my story.
5. Quick Quilting. Since Jay was gone for a few days, I had a bit of a chance to spend some time sewing. I finished a beautiful blanket for my grandmother in just over two hours! I cannot wait to give it to her!! And I'm still shocked I finished one so quickly. On the retreat, the ladies showed me a different way of finishing a quilt--which is faster and doesn't required binding. I'm looking forward to finishing up more Xmas presents for our family and friends.
4. Books Before Nap time. Last year with nap time, I just pushed the kids into their room and shut the doors. NO, I'm just kidding:o) But I feel like I was rushing all the time to get them down. Not giving them a real structure to being put to bed. This year, I've been reading them 4-6 books just before they go to bed. I know, I'm crazy. But it actually really calms them down. And Mal doesn't take naps anymore, so it's kinda a way to rest with her as well. Of course it doesn't always work out every day....but most days I really look forward to this time. Cuddling with my kiddos, on Clay's bed, and just enjoying them.
3. Clayisms. Clay had a fever this week. A slight one. Nothing too big. But enough for me to give him a bit of medicine. In fact, I woke him up--I know, I'm crazy--to give him a bit more. Come to find out he had wet the bed. Which required a changing of the sheets and pajamas. Nights like those are rough. He's a smart one. In fact, he tricked me this week. I have been working with him and puzzles lately. One day, he was NOT getting the pieces right at all. And I was starting to get worried. Until later on that day, while I was helping Mal with something, he took all the pieces out and put them back within a few minutes. The little stinker was tricking me. This week, he also walked up to me and said "I got a poo poo." At least he's talking more!:o) Such a character already at the age of TWO. Love my little boy.
2. Malloryisms. Hilarious thing this week. Mal was hiding from Clay in his room...and fell asleep. It seriously had only been a few minutes. I walked back in with Clay and her head popped up but with carpet indents! It took me awhile to realize that she was sleeping. And I think she was taken aback too. A few other fun things about Mal this week: 1) she made an adorable family picture on a white erase board this week--Jay and I were holding hands. 2) She used the word tumbled--talking about the pillows tumbling to the floor. Her vocabulary is better then a few of my old fifth graders. Really. Love it. 3) "I don't want to be 4 anymore, because I have to go to school." and then the next day..."I really want to be 5, so I can go to school the whole day." Oh brother. 4) And then lastly, she's really been fretting about getting shots at her next birthday. Well, she comes home from school this week and says to me "Christopher (a friend of hers) told me that you don't get shots. He just went to the doctor for his birthday and he didn't get any shots. SO that's good!" I talked to his dad. Come to find out--he was actually there for his little brother and he has his appointment the first week of December. Not looking forward to the conversation that week! I truly love how open she is to talking to me. I hope she stays that way.
1. Hunting Hubby. I missed him. I truly did. I LOVED having my mom here--another wife in the house is always nice:o) But I was glad to have him home. It just feels strange without him.
Well, it's halfway through the week already!
Crazy! Time is flying!
Hope you are all having a great week!
Until next week,
Mrs. Newell
My daughter's dimple when she smiles.
The smell of her hair.
My son's hugs when he wakes up from his nap.
The way he looks so intently at me.
(Gotta go--kids are up...will finish later.)
Top 10 for the Week of November 11th:
10. Migraine. I used to get sensory migraines quite frequently when I was younger. Fortunately in the last five years or so, I've only really had a handful of them. And 2 of them were RIGHT after giving birth to our kids (I seriously had JUST Clay, was still in the delivery room, and started losing my eyesight). This week I had one. The headache wasn't SO severe but the numbness in my face and arm were extremely annoying. It always seems to freak me out a little. Like I'm fine one minute and then if feels like I've just been numbed by the dentist. Thankfully, I'm feeling better this week.
9. Tired Monday. Ummm...after sewing for the WHOLE weekend (I didn't get home until after 4PM on Sunday), I was exhausted:o) Monday was a bit rough...and I still feel like my body is fighting something off. So, we didn't accomplish much on Monday. But hey--who cares right?!?!
8. No TV. While the men in our lives are hunting, my mom comes down here to hang out and help me:o) I know, I'm extremely lucky and fortunate! Needless to say, taking Mal and JUST Mal to and from school on Friday was extreme bliss. Anyways, one of the days my mom was here the kids didn't watch ANY TV until just before bedtime. We kept them occupied all day with different fun things to do. I'm extremely conscious of this. I think I might even be a little bit overboard. But I SO hate the look on my kids face when they are watching TV. Like they are zombies or something. Mal has figured me out--she gets when I say we are done, we are done. Clay still needs some time. He LOVES TV right now. OBSESSED with watching it.
7. Candy Land Afternoon. One afternoon after nap time, the kids and I enjoyed a game of Candy land in the toy room/sun room. The sun was out, I had my tea, and the kids were behaving. A Momma's dream. I LOVE and cherish those moments.
6. Chiro Kidless. So, I take my kids to the chiro with me. More often just with Clay. But I still take them. And
5. Quick Quilting. Since Jay was gone for a few days, I had a bit of a chance to spend some time sewing. I finished a beautiful blanket for my grandmother in just over two hours! I cannot wait to give it to her!! And I'm still shocked I finished one so quickly. On the retreat, the ladies showed me a different way of finishing a quilt--which is faster and doesn't required binding. I'm looking forward to finishing up more Xmas presents for our family and friends.
4. Books Before Nap time. Last year with nap time, I just pushed the kids into their room and shut the doors. NO, I'm just kidding:o) But I feel like I was rushing all the time to get them down. Not giving them a real structure to being put to bed. This year, I've been reading them 4-6 books just before they go to bed. I know, I'm crazy. But it actually really calms them down. And Mal doesn't take naps anymore, so it's kinda a way to rest with her as well. Of course it doesn't always work out every day....but most days I really look forward to this time. Cuddling with my kiddos, on Clay's bed, and just enjoying them.
3. Clayisms. Clay had a fever this week. A slight one. Nothing too big. But enough for me to give him a bit of medicine. In fact, I woke him up--I know, I'm crazy--to give him a bit more. Come to find out he had wet the bed. Which required a changing of the sheets and pajamas. Nights like those are rough. He's a smart one. In fact, he tricked me this week. I have been working with him and puzzles lately. One day, he was NOT getting the pieces right at all. And I was starting to get worried. Until later on that day, while I was helping Mal with something, he took all the pieces out and put them back within a few minutes. The little stinker was tricking me. This week, he also walked up to me and said "I got a poo poo." At least he's talking more!:o) Such a character already at the age of TWO. Love my little boy.
2. Malloryisms. Hilarious thing this week. Mal was hiding from Clay in his room...and fell asleep. It seriously had only been a few minutes. I walked back in with Clay and her head popped up but with carpet indents! It took me awhile to realize that she was sleeping. And I think she was taken aback too. A few other fun things about Mal this week: 1) she made an adorable family picture on a white erase board this week--Jay and I were holding hands. 2) She used the word tumbled--talking about the pillows tumbling to the floor. Her vocabulary is better then a few of my old fifth graders. Really. Love it. 3) "I don't want to be 4 anymore, because I have to go to school." and then the next day..."I really want to be 5, so I can go to school the whole day." Oh brother. 4) And then lastly, she's really been fretting about getting shots at her next birthday. Well, she comes home from school this week and says to me "Christopher (a friend of hers) told me that you don't get shots. He just went to the doctor for his birthday and he didn't get any shots. SO that's good!" I talked to his dad. Come to find out--he was actually there for his little brother and he has his appointment the first week of December. Not looking forward to the conversation that week! I truly love how open she is to talking to me. I hope she stays that way.
1. Hunting Hubby. I missed him. I truly did. I LOVED having my mom here--another wife in the house is always nice:o) But I was glad to have him home. It just feels strange without him.
Well, it's halfway through the week already!
Crazy! Time is flying!
Hope you are all having a great week!
Until next week,
Mrs. Newell
Wednesday, November 13, 2013
Top 10
Top 10 for the Week:
(November 4th)
10. Halloween Candy. I hate you. Every single piece. I have gained weight these last few weeks because of you. I would throw you out but Jay won't let me. Be GONE!
9. Generator. When Jay and I were away to Atlanta, out power was out for several hours (due to the snow storm). Jay decided then that it would be worth the money to purchase a generator. We already had an electrician do the wiring and such...so all we needed was the actual generator. SO, now we are prepared in case it were to happen again. Makes me feel a bit better.
8. Speech. Was rough this past week. I cried. A lot. Some days I feel like we take 20 steps back. It's SO hard. I SO wish there was something MORE we could do. But I truly think that waiting is the only thing that we can do right now. UGH. I feel like the fate of our son's language is in our hands and our hands are behind our back where we can't see them. Talk about confusing. Yes.
7. Pity Party. So, on top of the rough speech day, I had a few other things this week that made me sad. Or shall I say make me feel like I'm not doing my job correctly. Why do I have to be so tough on myself?!?!?! I wish I had more confidence. And don't get me wrong--there are days were I'm like--"I've got this stay-at-home-mom thing down." But then there are other days, like this past week were I just want to run away. And I wonder if I've scarred my children for life. Well, maybe not THAT bad...but you get my point. I wouldn't be who I am IF I didn't think these things. That's just me. I'm trying my best to let things roll off my back. "Just keep swimming, just keep swimming..."
6. Gifting. There is something SO great about giving a heartfelt gift to someone. Something you know the other will greatly appreciate and treasure. I did that this week. And I'm excited to see her reaction)
5. Full Day at Noon. One day this past week I had run a whole marathon before noon. Not really--BUT it felt like it! I had made like 4-5 stops before noon with BOTH kids and headed to a friend's house for lunch and an afternoon play date. It was exhausting. But the kids were somewhat good.
4. Prepping for the Weekend. Stressful. That's all.
3. Clayisms. So our little Clay is a picky eater. He's not a horrible picky eater, but WAY worse than Miss Mal. Jay and I had a great idea this week to wrap his dinner up and give it to him as a snack at bedtime. I found almost too much pleasure in giving it to him. You should have seen his face. Priceless. However, he DID eat a few pieces of Tilapia one night AND a few pieces of pork another. So, I considerate a battle won by us. Right?!?!
2. Malloryisms. On the way to school one day this week, I had country music on. After a few minutes Mal asked me the meaning of Motor Boating. Enough said. I've really been trying hard to teach her how to get through her frustrations. Instead of crying and throwing a tantrum...I've been encouraging her to talk it out or give herself a break. I'm feeling like communication is the actual culprit. She's quick to jump into a hot mess instead of talking it out with me, her dad, or her brother. Especially Clay. She'll get SO mad at him for not sharing and then when I ask her if she asked him for it, she'll tell me no. 90% of the time, I'll have her ask him, and he'll give it to her. I'm wondering when I'll actually start seeing the results of my endless coaching.
1. Quilting Retreat. Loved every minute of it. Finished MORE projects than I brought! Signed up for another one in the spring AND next fall. Such a great time to hang out with my mom and other women who love quilting & sewing. Thanks mom for getting me addicted and for helping me find MY hobby. Now, I just have about 10 more projects to do before Christmas! Ha!
That's a wrap.
Have a great rest of the week!
Until next week,
Mrs. Newell
Wednesday, November 6, 2013
Moodiness
My mood directly effects my kids.
And I know this.
But sometimes I forget.
After getting my health under control*,
I've noticed that my mood has changed.
I'm not angry, frustrated, or depressed
As much anymore.
In fact,
Most of the time
I'm pretty calm, rational, and level headed.
IF you would have asked me this a year ago--
It would have been a different story.
(Actually ONE year ago this week!!)
But of course,
There are still some days that I struggle.
I do admit this.
And I see it in my kids.
The days were normally
I would let something roll off my back.
Instead, I say or do something wrong
And see my kids react to me.
I can think of two tantrums this past week
(one from each kid)
That I know I kinda helped induce.
If I would have acted differently,
The outcome would have been different.
But I am human.
And not perfect.
Learning from my blunders.
My mishaps.
And understanding that this parenting gig is a tough one.
And my biggest critic is myself.
But each day is new.
With a NEW opportunity to do it "right."
*Candida. Look it up. A yeast overload in/on your body. It was horrible. Looking back, I didn't see or realize that all the issues I was having were related to ONE thing.
Top 10 for the week:
October 28th, 2013
10. Week 2. This past week marked week TWO of Jay being sick. Seriously. I felt it was like a record for the cough/cold. I'm SO glad it's finally OVER. Having your significant other sick is HARD. Knock on wood--I never really got it. I started feeling a bit yucky this week....but with the help of a few homeopathic medicines, I'm already feeling back to normal.
9. School Parade. The kids and I headed down to my old stomping grounds to see the Halloween Costume Parade. Great to see the kids and teachers. Our kids truly enjoyed it. It was fun seeing their smiles. Mal was always for going to "my" school. But now that she's been in Paw Paw for awhile, she's having second thoughts. She has an opinion on everything you know (just like her Momma--at least I admit it!).
8. Bride @ Dance. This past week the dancers could wear their costumes to dance. Mal was SO pumped! And it also gave us a trial run on her costume--which I appreciated! Sometimes I truly wonder how I would handle it all if I was working. There is NOT enough time in the day to get everything done...and there is ALWAYS something to do. Anyways, she loved it and loved seeing the other costumes.!
7. Carving Pumpkins. The kids were hilarious. Mal was a bundle of energy and excitement! She dug in and took over--emptying all the guts (and her brothers!). She wanted a heart face--and was very insistent on getting the right look. She drew on her own mouth and pushed out the pieces after Jay cut them. Her thrill of the whole thing was contagious. She is at THE perfect age of enjoyment right now. Clay on the other hand, was not impressed at all. He did NOT like the stringy guts and in fact kept asking for something to wipe his hands off. It was hilarious and didn't really surprise me. The boy who eats mud off of his boots (yeah--that just happened today) is weird about slimy pumpkin guts on his hands and arms. However, he did love the fuss over it all. The lighting of the candles--which he couldn't stop looking at--and the lid to the jack-o-lantern. Jay tried using one of his tools to cut the pumpkins but unfortunately it didn't work. The handy dandy pumpkin tool we bought a few years back still seems to be THE best tool. Next year, we'll need another.
6. Mall SUCCESS. I lucked out. BIG time. Jay went to cut wood on Saturday morning so I decided to take the kids to the mall. I'm usually stressing over this. Just cause I know how the kids can be. But it was GREAT. Seriously. Our best outing of the YEAR. They were SO good. We started at Sears for our humidifier filters (the whole reason I went to the mall), a visit to the carousel, food market, and then home! I could not stop commenting to them how great they were! Especially when I was witnessing kids crawling under the tables and running around at lunch--when mine were just sitting there eating. And because I know reality. And NEXT time, mine will probably be doing that! A MAJOR highlight of the week for me.
5. Just US. One day this week, I decided to just stay home with the two kids. No errands. No play date. No real agenda. Just us. And it was another great day. I'm beginning to believe that my kids need a day every week like this. To just play at home, enjoy each other, with no real direction. I wish we had more days in the week. And I'm realizing more and more that next year Mal will be in school full time. So terribly sad about this. I enjoy our lazy mornings and days.
4. Sunday Funday. Finally made it to our church this past Sunday. Kids did GREAT in there classes (NO cries from Clay!!!). Afterwards we went to Meijer and then headed home to get a few things done. It's crazy to me how much work needs to be done in "winterizing" our house/property. And we STILL have a few things that need to be done before that snow starts falling! We also put up some of our Christmas lights in the DARK. You know it's a successful day when the kids go directly to sleep with no hassles.
3. Clayisms. Sometimes I concentrate so much on getting him to say words and phrases that I forget about colors, shapes, and other learning skills. This week, Clay proved to me that he STILL is "getting" these things even though I don't enforce them. I had him point to the colors in a ladybug book. He got 4 out of the 5 correct. Honestly, I was shocked. And it made me realize that he does understand everything we say and do...so this makes me realize too that I need to be refraining from talking about him in front of him. His speech has consumed me this week. So much that that's all I've been thinking about. And it's taking a toll on me AND him. I just don't know what to do. At all.
2. Malloryisms. Oh Mallory Jayne. She was "extremely excited" (direct quote from Mal) this whole week. Everything to do with Halloween was extremely exciting! Her love of being social and doing things is contagious. And so sincere. A few funny things about her this week. First, this past weekend I made oatmeal and put chocolate chips on it for them. Well, she had a little on her middle finger. And she kept showing us in front of our faces. Yes, she was flipping us off. Over and over and over again. She did it like 4-5 times. We were both laughing and she honestly had no clue. Her "rest" time activities tend to be more quiet play time activities around me--AFTER Clay has fallen asleep. This week she had a princess doctor Barbie. Doesn't everyone know you can be a princess and doctor at the same time?!?! Her obsession with Barbies lately is due to my mom giving her some of my old ones. She can't get enough of them. I also noticed this week that she sings songs for everything. Which is also a characteristic of her Daddy:o)
1. Halloween. Was great! Even with rainy weather, the temperature was perfect! Kids were able to wear their costumes and still be warm! We didn't make it to many houses--but we got enough candy:o) I went on like a three day candy eating binge...and then for some reason have not wanted anymore. Kids haven't really asked for it either. So it sits in our cupboard. Clay walked almost the whole entire way saying trick-or-treat and thanks (we practiced the week before). And I realized that the time of trick-or-treating is short with your kids. Only like 10 or so years. So, I'm taking it all in. And enjoying the excitement that comes with this crazy holiday.
Well, that's a wrap.
Hope all of you are doing well.
It's Wednesday.
And I leave for my sewing retreat on FRIDAY!
So pumped.
Have a great rest of the week!!
Until next week,
Mrs. Newell
P.S. And for my teacher friends--enjoy your long weekend! After conferences you deserve it!!!!!
And I know this.
But sometimes I forget.
After getting my health under control*,
I've noticed that my mood has changed.
I'm not angry, frustrated, or depressed
As much anymore.
In fact,
Most of the time
I'm pretty calm, rational, and level headed.
IF you would have asked me this a year ago--
It would have been a different story.
(Actually ONE year ago this week!!)
But of course,
There are still some days that I struggle.
I do admit this.
And I see it in my kids.
The days were normally
I would let something roll off my back.
Instead, I say or do something wrong
And see my kids react to me.
I can think of two tantrums this past week
(one from each kid)
That I know I kinda helped induce.
If I would have acted differently,
The outcome would have been different.
But I am human.
And not perfect.
Learning from my blunders.
My mishaps.
And understanding that this parenting gig is a tough one.
And my biggest critic is myself.
But each day is new.
With a NEW opportunity to do it "right."
*Candida. Look it up. A yeast overload in/on your body. It was horrible. Looking back, I didn't see or realize that all the issues I was having were related to ONE thing.
Top 10 for the week:
October 28th, 2013
10. Week 2. This past week marked week TWO of Jay being sick. Seriously. I felt it was like a record for the cough/cold. I'm SO glad it's finally OVER. Having your significant other sick is HARD. Knock on wood--I never really got it. I started feeling a bit yucky this week....but with the help of a few homeopathic medicines, I'm already feeling back to normal.
9. School Parade. The kids and I headed down to my old stomping grounds to see the Halloween Costume Parade. Great to see the kids and teachers. Our kids truly enjoyed it. It was fun seeing their smiles. Mal was always for going to "my" school. But now that she's been in Paw Paw for awhile, she's having second thoughts. She has an opinion on everything you know (just like her Momma--at least I admit it!).
8. Bride @ Dance. This past week the dancers could wear their costumes to dance. Mal was SO pumped! And it also gave us a trial run on her costume--which I appreciated! Sometimes I truly wonder how I would handle it all if I was working. There is NOT enough time in the day to get everything done...and there is ALWAYS something to do. Anyways, she loved it and loved seeing the other costumes.!
7. Carving Pumpkins. The kids were hilarious. Mal was a bundle of energy and excitement! She dug in and took over--emptying all the guts (and her brothers!). She wanted a heart face--and was very insistent on getting the right look. She drew on her own mouth and pushed out the pieces after Jay cut them. Her thrill of the whole thing was contagious. She is at THE perfect age of enjoyment right now. Clay on the other hand, was not impressed at all. He did NOT like the stringy guts and in fact kept asking for something to wipe his hands off. It was hilarious and didn't really surprise me. The boy who eats mud off of his boots (yeah--that just happened today) is weird about slimy pumpkin guts on his hands and arms. However, he did love the fuss over it all. The lighting of the candles--which he couldn't stop looking at--and the lid to the jack-o-lantern. Jay tried using one of his tools to cut the pumpkins but unfortunately it didn't work. The handy dandy pumpkin tool we bought a few years back still seems to be THE best tool. Next year, we'll need another.
6. Mall SUCCESS. I lucked out. BIG time. Jay went to cut wood on Saturday morning so I decided to take the kids to the mall. I'm usually stressing over this. Just cause I know how the kids can be. But it was GREAT. Seriously. Our best outing of the YEAR. They were SO good. We started at Sears for our humidifier filters (the whole reason I went to the mall), a visit to the carousel, food market, and then home! I could not stop commenting to them how great they were! Especially when I was witnessing kids crawling under the tables and running around at lunch--when mine were just sitting there eating. And because I know reality. And NEXT time, mine will probably be doing that! A MAJOR highlight of the week for me.
5. Just US. One day this week, I decided to just stay home with the two kids. No errands. No play date. No real agenda. Just us. And it was another great day. I'm beginning to believe that my kids need a day every week like this. To just play at home, enjoy each other, with no real direction. I wish we had more days in the week. And I'm realizing more and more that next year Mal will be in school full time. So terribly sad about this. I enjoy our lazy mornings and days.
4. Sunday Funday. Finally made it to our church this past Sunday. Kids did GREAT in there classes (NO cries from Clay!!!). Afterwards we went to Meijer and then headed home to get a few things done. It's crazy to me how much work needs to be done in "winterizing" our house/property. And we STILL have a few things that need to be done before that snow starts falling! We also put up some of our Christmas lights in the DARK. You know it's a successful day when the kids go directly to sleep with no hassles.
3. Clayisms. Sometimes I concentrate so much on getting him to say words and phrases that I forget about colors, shapes, and other learning skills. This week, Clay proved to me that he STILL is "getting" these things even though I don't enforce them. I had him point to the colors in a ladybug book. He got 4 out of the 5 correct. Honestly, I was shocked. And it made me realize that he does understand everything we say and do...so this makes me realize too that I need to be refraining from talking about him in front of him. His speech has consumed me this week. So much that that's all I've been thinking about. And it's taking a toll on me AND him. I just don't know what to do. At all.
2. Malloryisms. Oh Mallory Jayne. She was "extremely excited" (direct quote from Mal) this whole week. Everything to do with Halloween was extremely exciting! Her love of being social and doing things is contagious. And so sincere. A few funny things about her this week. First, this past weekend I made oatmeal and put chocolate chips on it for them. Well, she had a little on her middle finger. And she kept showing us in front of our faces. Yes, she was flipping us off. Over and over and over again. She did it like 4-5 times. We were both laughing and she honestly had no clue. Her "rest" time activities tend to be more quiet play time activities around me--AFTER Clay has fallen asleep. This week she had a princess doctor Barbie. Doesn't everyone know you can be a princess and doctor at the same time?!?! Her obsession with Barbies lately is due to my mom giving her some of my old ones. She can't get enough of them. I also noticed this week that she sings songs for everything. Which is also a characteristic of her Daddy:o)
1. Halloween. Was great! Even with rainy weather, the temperature was perfect! Kids were able to wear their costumes and still be warm! We didn't make it to many houses--but we got enough candy:o) I went on like a three day candy eating binge...and then for some reason have not wanted anymore. Kids haven't really asked for it either. So it sits in our cupboard. Clay walked almost the whole entire way saying trick-or-treat and thanks (we practiced the week before). And I realized that the time of trick-or-treating is short with your kids. Only like 10 or so years. So, I'm taking it all in. And enjoying the excitement that comes with this crazy holiday.
Well, that's a wrap.
Hope all of you are doing well.
It's Wednesday.
And I leave for my sewing retreat on FRIDAY!
So pumped.
Have a great rest of the week!!
Until next week,
Mrs. Newell
P.S. And for my teacher friends--enjoy your long weekend! After conferences you deserve it!!!!!
Saturday, November 2, 2013
Heavy Heart
I wish my son talked.
I wish he could tell me about...
His reason for crying after waking.
What he sees out the car window.
What he thinks about using scissors.
What he wants.
What he would like to do.
The list goes on.
I know it frustrates him.
Frustrates me.
Frustrates all that are involved.
I see his anger.
His desire to TRULY want to communicate.
And I wish so badly, I could help him.
Put the words in his mouth. In his brain.
We've already had second opinions.
He receives speech every week.
And we work with him at home.
And the majority consensus is to WAIT,
Until he's three.
But sometimes,
Like today.
When he is screaming his sister's name in the car.
Babbles on and on trying to tell her something.
And when BOTH of us have no clue what he's saying...
It gives me a HUGE heavy heart.
Makes me feel bad.
Makes me cry.
Because I SO terrible want to understand our handsome boy.
Our SMART boy.
Our OUTGOING boy.
Our LOVING boy.
Love you buddy.
Top 7 for the Week:
(10-21-13)
7. Colds. Have infested our house. First with the kids and now with Jay. I have somehow missed the boat on this one. Although I woke up with a headache this morning. Hopefully I haven't jinxed myself! Rest, fluids, and supplements!
6. New Boots. Unfortunately, Atlanta wasn't as hot as we thought it would be. I did not prepare for the chilliness...so I had to go buy new winter boots. Not such a bad thing, right?!?!
5. Waking in the Night. Due to the colds...kids got up several times during the night almost every night. UGH. Makes for one tired mommy. And daddy. I was just telling my MIL how our kids are great sleeping through the night. And seriously THAT night, it started. And lasted until we left for Atlanta. The uninterrupted sleep on vacation was great. Even though we were up late!
4. Prepping for Trip. Sometimes I feel like vacation prepping is SO much. I'm weird about having a clean house before I leave (including having laundry and dishes done). Not sure why. But I swear it makes me crazy. And I'm pretty sure it drives Jay crazy!
3. Clayisms. Clay had a chance to practice with scissors this week and he thought he was king! I was surprised to see him using his left hand. But he did a GREAT job! And he was so proud of himself! Another activity that he can do JUST like his sister:o) I ran errands with him this week....CRAZY! Now I remember why I choose NOT to run errands with my 2 year old. He is definitely at a tantrum, I-want-my-own-way, stage. He has such an opinion about everything. Just wish he would learn to use his words.
2. Malloryisms. Sometimes I seriously cannot believe how much of her dad is in her. Her goofy, teasing ways are SO her dad. One day this week, as I was downloading pics onto the computer, she randomly called me Beth Ann. To my face. It was hilarious. With this great big grin on her face. And she repeated it several times. Another night this week, as I went into kiss her sleeping head, I whispered "I love you" and she responded back "doggies." Can't make that stuff up. Such an animal lover. Even in her sleep.
1. Hot Atlanta. Jay and I had SO much fun! It was SO nice to get away and just be US for a few days (make that four days!). Thanks to both of our parents for watching the kids...it is so comforting knowing they are in good hands. And we can relax and enjoy ourselves! We actually had a lot of time to ourselves. We walked, ate, drank, talked, reconnected, recharged. It was great. And so needed. I'm not going to say Monday with the kids was easy...but it was SO worth it.
I'm SUPER late this week.
And I might even write again tomorrow.
But I got this past week in!
Hope you enjoyed your Halloween!
Hello November!
Until tomorrow,
Mrs. Newell
I wish he could tell me about...
His reason for crying after waking.
What he sees out the car window.
What he thinks about using scissors.
What he wants.
What he would like to do.
The list goes on.
I know it frustrates him.
Frustrates me.
Frustrates all that are involved.
I see his anger.
His desire to TRULY want to communicate.
And I wish so badly, I could help him.
Put the words in his mouth. In his brain.
We've already had second opinions.
He receives speech every week.
And we work with him at home.
And the majority consensus is to WAIT,
Until he's three.
But sometimes,
Like today.
When he is screaming his sister's name in the car.
Babbles on and on trying to tell her something.
And when BOTH of us have no clue what he's saying...
It gives me a HUGE heavy heart.
Makes me feel bad.
Makes me cry.
Because I SO terrible want to understand our handsome boy.
Our SMART boy.
Our OUTGOING boy.
Our LOVING boy.
Love you buddy.
Top 7 for the Week:
(10-21-13)
7. Colds. Have infested our house. First with the kids and now with Jay. I have somehow missed the boat on this one. Although I woke up with a headache this morning. Hopefully I haven't jinxed myself! Rest, fluids, and supplements!
6. New Boots. Unfortunately, Atlanta wasn't as hot as we thought it would be. I did not prepare for the chilliness...so I had to go buy new winter boots. Not such a bad thing, right?!?!
5. Waking in the Night. Due to the colds...kids got up several times during the night almost every night. UGH. Makes for one tired mommy. And daddy. I was just telling my MIL how our kids are great sleeping through the night. And seriously THAT night, it started. And lasted until we left for Atlanta. The uninterrupted sleep on vacation was great. Even though we were up late!
4. Prepping for Trip. Sometimes I feel like vacation prepping is SO much. I'm weird about having a clean house before I leave (including having laundry and dishes done). Not sure why. But I swear it makes me crazy. And I'm pretty sure it drives Jay crazy!
3. Clayisms. Clay had a chance to practice with scissors this week and he thought he was king! I was surprised to see him using his left hand. But he did a GREAT job! And he was so proud of himself! Another activity that he can do JUST like his sister:o) I ran errands with him this week....CRAZY! Now I remember why I choose NOT to run errands with my 2 year old. He is definitely at a tantrum, I-want-my-own-way, stage. He has such an opinion about everything. Just wish he would learn to use his words.
2. Malloryisms. Sometimes I seriously cannot believe how much of her dad is in her. Her goofy, teasing ways are SO her dad. One day this week, as I was downloading pics onto the computer, she randomly called me Beth Ann. To my face. It was hilarious. With this great big grin on her face. And she repeated it several times. Another night this week, as I went into kiss her sleeping head, I whispered "I love you" and she responded back "doggies." Can't make that stuff up. Such an animal lover. Even in her sleep.
1. Hot Atlanta. Jay and I had SO much fun! It was SO nice to get away and just be US for a few days (make that four days!). Thanks to both of our parents for watching the kids...it is so comforting knowing they are in good hands. And we can relax and enjoy ourselves! We actually had a lot of time to ourselves. We walked, ate, drank, talked, reconnected, recharged. It was great. And so needed. I'm not going to say Monday with the kids was easy...but it was SO worth it.
I'm SUPER late this week.
And I might even write again tomorrow.
But I got this past week in!
Hope you enjoyed your Halloween!
Hello November!
Until tomorrow,
Mrs. Newell
Wednesday, October 23, 2013
Top 10
Top 10 for the Week:
10. JC Penney Pics. We had our annual (this is the 3rd year) Fall Family pictures done at JC Penney this past weekend. We rocked it! Totally! It was easy, quick, and painless. My favorite. Can't wait to get them back in a few weeks!
9. ER with Clay. I feel like this was years ago, but it was just over a week. Clay fell at Jay's Grandpa's house and hit his head on a rock. We contemplated taking him to the ER and then I finally just decided to. He was great. Two hours and some glue and he was back to his normal self. He worries me.
8. Microwave? It's still downstairs. And honestly, we haven't missed it in the least. I've been using our Keurig more for hot water and the oven for warming things up. But we don't miss it at all:o)
7. Mal's Happy Place. Dance. She loves it. I love the look on her face. How excited she gets to go in. Her smiles and laughter while she's dancing. It's definitely her happy place. And she tries to relive it here---at home with dance parties. But it's not quite the same. Probably because of Sir Clayton too though!
6. Instagram. Love Instagram. Love how I can quickly make a collage or alter a picture to look cool. Now if only I did something with these! I'm working on a HUGE project right now dealing with our digital pictures. Here's to hoping I make it through! Ha!
5. Shopping Alone. Always such a pleasure to shop alone without the kids. I really enjoy my Thursdays out alone. It's so rejuvenating and calming.
4. Bounce Land. Woke up Tuesday morning and decided to head to Bounce Land! The kids loved it! They were both a little cautious at first...freaking out about going up and down the slides. But after some time, they both couldn't stop. Looking forward to doing again soon.
3. Clayisms. Oh Clay. Mr. Climber. Jay caught him climbing up on top of our upright freezer this week. He even videoed it! I was SHOCKED. Watching him put his little toes on the file cabinet's handle and then eventually pulling himself onto of the freezer--freaked me out. He was also caught hanging from our top shelf in our refrigerator. I think some kids are just more prone to climbing. Right?!?! I really feel he's trying more with his sentences and words. He wants SO badly to be able to communicate with us. I feel his pain. Someday.
2. Malloryisms. Mal was extremely tired this past week and now I know why--COLD. BUT even though she was tired...I saw a few glimpses of herself coming out. Thank goodness! I was worried that my old Mal was replaced. Just seems she needed some time off:o) I've changed up our weekly routine a bit. Instead of going grocery shopping with Clay during the week while Mal is at school, I've decided to go with Mal after dance. HUGE difference. SO much easier...and I get a little more one on one time with my gal. Who is growing up so fast. Her vocabulary and thinking process amazes me every day. Never grow up.
1. Gene's Pumpkin Patch. Made our annual trip to Gene's Pumpkin Patch. Clay was hilarious--putting pumpkin after pumpkin in our wagon. And Jay continued to take them out. Mal found hers right away--one of the biggest ones. Clay picked a small one that we didn't realize has a big bruise on it. It is so fun watching them take it all in. I LOVE holidays.
Well, it's Wednesday...
And I'm late.
But I'm done for the week.
And leaving for Atlanta tomorrow!
Kidless!
Four days!
Nervous.
And excited.
Have a great rest of the week!!
Until next week,
Mrs. Newell
Wednesday, October 16, 2013
Top 9
Top 9 for the Week:
October 7th
9. Cranky Kids. No clue what was in the air this week...but our kids were cranky. It also seems to have carried over into this week. Joy. Maybe it's me? I'm just ready for them to be back to normal.
8. Last Bit of Warm. We had some beautiful days this week. In fact, on Saturday the kids played out in mud our on out back deck. It was splendid. I'm thinking that was the end of our last for this year. So sad. I don't even honestly feel like we had a fall!
7. Resale Love. I'm in love with resale shopping. I don't think I can even buy something for regular price. Had a chance to browse around a few shops this week with my friend and her son (while our daughters were in preschool). Good times.
6. Goodbye Microwave. I read an article/poster on Facebook about the disadvantages of having a microwave. SO, we put our downstairs. To my surprise, Jay was totally on board with this. But then again, he never likes leftovers heated up in the microwave. I haven't really missed it. Even melting butter wasn't bad on top of the stove or in the oven. AND I have extra counter space! Which is a huge perk!
5. Sewing Love. Got a chance to get back into sewing this week. Just a bit. But it was nice. I'm looking forward to my weekend with my mom in November. Now that I KNOW how to sew--I can only imagine what I can get done in that amount of time!!:o) I should start planning my projects! And getting fabric! OH I LOVE SEWING!
4. Clayisms. Is getting his 2 year molars. Besides his runny nose and poop, he's been extremely cranky. They are there--I can feel them. I seriously crack up at this kid. He is SO funny to watch. His facial expressions and the way he goes about doing things. He surprises me every day. One day this week it was raining a bit, so he decided to pull his jacket up over his head (like a hood) to protect himself from the rain. If he doesn't have something--he figures it out! He also had one of THE hugest blowouts I have ever seen in the Newell House. And it was at speech. And I had to clean it up in the back of our van. Not pretty. For a Monday morning especially.
3. Malloryisms. She has a better memory than me. I am certain of this. Trouble I tell ya. We headed home a different way from school the other day and she quickly recalled us being stuck in the snow. You can guess how long ago that was! Crazy! This week she also decided to wash her barbies in the living room while Clay was napping. She kept referring to the male as "Nick." It was cute. I need to get better at writing her sayings down...she is FULL of them. But unfortunately this week, I only wrote one down. While running around outside this week she was chanting, "My momma is my girl. My momma is my girl." Warm fuzzies all around. (This is making today--a battle--MUCH better. Glad I decided to blog:o)).
2. Fall Festival. We enjoyed a family outing in Dowagiac this weekend. It was PERFECT weather! All of us enjoyed being out and about. Shopped, walked around, looked at tractors, and a lunch out--all good. Sometimes I love to just sit back and take it ALL in. I LOVE our little family. I LOVE the things we do. I truly feel blessed.
1. College Roommate. My favorite person from college--my old college roommate--and her husband came to visit this weekend. It was SO good to see her smiling face and to catch up on everything. I love how our distance and time means nothing to our friendship. And I love sharing my life with her. Now that our distance is closer...I'm hoping this means we get together a little more often:o) Whatever the case--I'm SO glad she's in my life. Love you Kelly.
Another week down.
Closer to Halloween.
Closer to a mini vacation for Jay and I to Atlanta:o) (My friend is getting married!!!)
Enjoy your dreary week.
Get cozy with a blanket.
And a loved one:o)
Until next week,
Mrs. Newell
October 7th
9. Cranky Kids. No clue what was in the air this week...but our kids were cranky. It also seems to have carried over into this week. Joy. Maybe it's me? I'm just ready for them to be back to normal.
8. Last Bit of Warm. We had some beautiful days this week. In fact, on Saturday the kids played out in mud our on out back deck. It was splendid. I'm thinking that was the end of our last for this year. So sad. I don't even honestly feel like we had a fall!
7. Resale Love. I'm in love with resale shopping. I don't think I can even buy something for regular price. Had a chance to browse around a few shops this week with my friend and her son (while our daughters were in preschool). Good times.
6. Goodbye Microwave. I read an article/poster on Facebook about the disadvantages of having a microwave. SO, we put our downstairs. To my surprise, Jay was totally on board with this. But then again, he never likes leftovers heated up in the microwave. I haven't really missed it. Even melting butter wasn't bad on top of the stove or in the oven. AND I have extra counter space! Which is a huge perk!
5. Sewing Love. Got a chance to get back into sewing this week. Just a bit. But it was nice. I'm looking forward to my weekend with my mom in November. Now that I KNOW how to sew--I can only imagine what I can get done in that amount of time!!:o) I should start planning my projects! And getting fabric! OH I LOVE SEWING!
4. Clayisms. Is getting his 2 year molars. Besides his runny nose and poop, he's been extremely cranky. They are there--I can feel them. I seriously crack up at this kid. He is SO funny to watch. His facial expressions and the way he goes about doing things. He surprises me every day. One day this week it was raining a bit, so he decided to pull his jacket up over his head (like a hood) to protect himself from the rain. If he doesn't have something--he figures it out! He also had one of THE hugest blowouts I have ever seen in the Newell House. And it was at speech. And I had to clean it up in the back of our van. Not pretty. For a Monday morning especially.
3. Malloryisms. She has a better memory than me. I am certain of this. Trouble I tell ya. We headed home a different way from school the other day and she quickly recalled us being stuck in the snow. You can guess how long ago that was! Crazy! This week she also decided to wash her barbies in the living room while Clay was napping. She kept referring to the male as "Nick." It was cute. I need to get better at writing her sayings down...she is FULL of them. But unfortunately this week, I only wrote one down. While running around outside this week she was chanting, "My momma is my girl. My momma is my girl." Warm fuzzies all around. (This is making today--a battle--MUCH better. Glad I decided to blog:o)).
2. Fall Festival. We enjoyed a family outing in Dowagiac this weekend. It was PERFECT weather! All of us enjoyed being out and about. Shopped, walked around, looked at tractors, and a lunch out--all good. Sometimes I love to just sit back and take it ALL in. I LOVE our little family. I LOVE the things we do. I truly feel blessed.
1. College Roommate. My favorite person from college--my old college roommate--and her husband came to visit this weekend. It was SO good to see her smiling face and to catch up on everything. I love how our distance and time means nothing to our friendship. And I love sharing my life with her. Now that our distance is closer...I'm hoping this means we get together a little more often:o) Whatever the case--I'm SO glad she's in my life. Love you Kelly.
Another week down.
Closer to Halloween.
Closer to a mini vacation for Jay and I to Atlanta:o) (My friend is getting married!!!)
Enjoy your dreary week.
Get cozy with a blanket.
And a loved one:o)
Until next week,
Mrs. Newell
Monday, October 7, 2013
Life Can Change So Quickly
There is so much to do in a day, that many times I get overwhelmed. Beat down. Annoyed. And frustrated. Over things that really mean nothing in the grand scheme of life.
This week and weekend I was reminded of what truly is important in this life we are living. It's not the items we have or the projects that are done, it's the moments and memories we share with those that we love.
Through sadness and loss, I faced the reality of what could be.
So, I took time this weekend to kiss and cuddle my babies more, to read that "one" more book, to let small struggles go, and to truly try to "snapshot" these shared moments as a family.
Life can change so quickly.
Top 10 for the Week:
10. Gold Party. So, I kinda got suckered into doing a gold to cash party on Friday. I totally took the bait of getting x amount of money if you host one. Only two of my friends showed up and the amount of money I received was small change. BUT looking on the brighter note, the kids LOVED playing at the park for almost 4 hours, I caught up with my two friends, and I had LOTS of leftover snack bags for this week:o) Still a little bummed about it though.
9. Food Tasting. I was retested on my food sensitivities this week. I can have dairy, honey, grapes, dates, and olive oil now!! But chocolate, tomatoes, gluten, and now potatoes and rice are OUT. Yeah, I'm bummed.
8. New Camera. We went the whole month of September without a camera. I seriously don't know how I did it. I rely on the camera A LOT. Especially with the holidays coming up. Took a few shots of the kids...and I'm not completely sold that this is the camera for us. Suggestions?? It's a power shot--but not the expensive one. Wish the weather was a bit sunnier...than maybe I could get a better idea.
7. Car rides. Are so rough! Especially with Sir Clayton. He is so noisy. To help with this, Jay and I have come up with a little game (which I am BETTER at then Jay--HA!). It's called, Guess that Year of the 90's. It seems I know more of the songs in the 90's than I do now! It helps that I went through the 90's in high school--while Jay was still in middle school!!! Ha! Loving our free 3 month satellite radio! Hello 90's!
6. No DISHES. It was actually last week that I decided washing dishes was overrated. Like BIG time. So, I don't wash dishes anymore. That IS what the dishwasher is for--correct?!?!?! It's saved on time. A LOT. And my hands look better too:o)
5. Cabinets. Decided this past weekend it was time for the cabinets to be painted. I spent ALL week centered around finishing those d--- cabinets! And I am proud to say I only have ONE more drawer and cabinet to do. They look great! BUT now I think I need to repaint the walls! Go figure! I'm sitting on it for a few weeks.
4. Field Trip. Mal had her first field trip this year to the pumpkin patch. Great day! Enjoyed watching her run around with her friends and it's always great to spend some quality time with my girl. Who is growing up so quickly and has thoughts on EVERYTHING.
3. Clayisms. Well, it seems Clayton is great at saying NO. He says it ALL the time now. Let's go change your diaper. NO. Let's go get in the car. NO. Let's go take a nap. NO. Let's go outside. NO. Let's go inside. NO. Yup. Pretty much anything you ask or tell him, he says NO. Love this stage. He's also really into copying anyone--especially his sister who is overjoyed! HA! He's dancing like me. He's eating like me. He's sitting like me. And it goes on.
2. Malloryisms. We had Mal's conference this week. She's doing great! In everything! And I'm loving their writing program. SO awesome! I'm seeing HUGE growth with her this year--way more than last year. I LOVE how much she loves playing with her brother too. Helping him on the swing and then pushing him. Getting him a snack. Making a "bed" for him. She's been sweet to him. And I think it helps she's been getting almost 12 hours of sleep at night. Sleep does wonders for her attitude:o)
1. Sunday. Was a lazy day for us. We spent the morning just hanging out...the afternoon watching a movie as a whole family, and then the evening outside playing and climbing in trees. It was perfect. Love days like that. Just us.
Hope you all have a great week!
I'm secretly loving this cooler weather:o)
Until next week,
Mrs. Newell.
P.S. I am MORE likely to finish my weekly blog if it's done on Sunday or Monday. Any later--and it's not happening.
P.P. S. The CAT is LOVED.
But the cat doesn't always feel the same way...
This week and weekend I was reminded of what truly is important in this life we are living. It's not the items we have or the projects that are done, it's the moments and memories we share with those that we love.
Through sadness and loss, I faced the reality of what could be.
So, I took time this weekend to kiss and cuddle my babies more, to read that "one" more book, to let small struggles go, and to truly try to "snapshot" these shared moments as a family.
Life can change so quickly.
Top 10 for the Week:
10. Gold Party. So, I kinda got suckered into doing a gold to cash party on Friday. I totally took the bait of getting x amount of money if you host one. Only two of my friends showed up and the amount of money I received was small change. BUT looking on the brighter note, the kids LOVED playing at the park for almost 4 hours, I caught up with my two friends, and I had LOTS of leftover snack bags for this week:o) Still a little bummed about it though.
9. Food Tasting. I was retested on my food sensitivities this week. I can have dairy, honey, grapes, dates, and olive oil now!! But chocolate, tomatoes, gluten, and now potatoes and rice are OUT. Yeah, I'm bummed.
8. New Camera. We went the whole month of September without a camera. I seriously don't know how I did it. I rely on the camera A LOT. Especially with the holidays coming up. Took a few shots of the kids...and I'm not completely sold that this is the camera for us. Suggestions?? It's a power shot--but not the expensive one. Wish the weather was a bit sunnier...than maybe I could get a better idea.
7. Car rides. Are so rough! Especially with Sir Clayton. He is so noisy. To help with this, Jay and I have come up with a little game (which I am BETTER at then Jay--HA!). It's called, Guess that Year of the 90's. It seems I know more of the songs in the 90's than I do now! It helps that I went through the 90's in high school--while Jay was still in middle school!!! Ha! Loving our free 3 month satellite radio! Hello 90's!
6. No DISHES. It was actually last week that I decided washing dishes was overrated. Like BIG time. So, I don't wash dishes anymore. That IS what the dishwasher is for--correct?!?!?! It's saved on time. A LOT. And my hands look better too:o)
5. Cabinets. Decided this past weekend it was time for the cabinets to be painted. I spent ALL week centered around finishing those d--- cabinets! And I am proud to say I only have ONE more drawer and cabinet to do. They look great! BUT now I think I need to repaint the walls! Go figure! I'm sitting on it for a few weeks.
4. Field Trip. Mal had her first field trip this year to the pumpkin patch. Great day! Enjoyed watching her run around with her friends and it's always great to spend some quality time with my girl. Who is growing up so quickly and has thoughts on EVERYTHING.
3. Clayisms. Well, it seems Clayton is great at saying NO. He says it ALL the time now. Let's go change your diaper. NO. Let's go get in the car. NO. Let's go take a nap. NO. Let's go outside. NO. Let's go inside. NO. Yup. Pretty much anything you ask or tell him, he says NO. Love this stage. He's also really into copying anyone--especially his sister who is overjoyed! HA! He's dancing like me. He's eating like me. He's sitting like me. And it goes on.
2. Malloryisms. We had Mal's conference this week. She's doing great! In everything! And I'm loving their writing program. SO awesome! I'm seeing HUGE growth with her this year--way more than last year. I LOVE how much she loves playing with her brother too. Helping him on the swing and then pushing him. Getting him a snack. Making a "bed" for him. She's been sweet to him. And I think it helps she's been getting almost 12 hours of sleep at night. Sleep does wonders for her attitude:o)
1. Sunday. Was a lazy day for us. We spent the morning just hanging out...the afternoon watching a movie as a whole family, and then the evening outside playing and climbing in trees. It was perfect. Love days like that. Just us.
Hope you all have a great week!
I'm secretly loving this cooler weather:o)
Until next week,
Mrs. Newell.
P.S. I am MORE likely to finish my weekly blog if it's done on Sunday or Monday. Any later--and it's not happening.
P.P. S. The CAT is LOVED.
But the cat doesn't always feel the same way...
Monday, September 23, 2013
Still Feeling Great
Still Feeling Great
September 23rd, 2013
As I start my second year at home, I'm STILL feeling great about our decision.
Not a day goes by that I don't think about what our life would be like--IF I was still working. More chaos, less time, more stress, less "me" time. I'm overall feeling completely blessed that I can be home. And blessed that I have moments like the one I'm having right now. As I sit here and type this, Mal is playing with different beads I bought her, talking to herself, totally content, right next to me. Or the moment I had this morning when Clay and I played with Mr. Potato Heads. Just the two of us--Mal was at school.
Sometimes it feels like I've been home years, and other days it feels like only a few months. But that's how motherhood rolls. Expect the unexpected. Enjoy the GOOD moments. And I'm glad to report I still am enjoying this new life I've created for us. And I'm pretty sure our kids are as well!:o) Or let's hope!
Top 10 for the Week:
10. Sinus Hate. I had the MOST horrible headaches this week--and this wasn't even the start of them! I went to my chiropractor several times, with little relief but not enough. I finally ended up at my regular physician's office and one of the doctors there prescribed a Z pack to kill the sinus infection. It worked!! Feeling SO much better. (However, I woke up this morning with a slight headache--my last day of the antibiotic. Let's hope this doesn't continue!).
9. Meatloaf Muffins. I bought a new cookbook (Against All Grain--great cookbook!!), and I've been trying a few recipes from there. This week I saw one in there for meatloaf muffins--or shall I say I thought I was reading one. Come to find out it was a vegetable muffin recipe;o) Silly me. I was kinda wondering why you would add cinnamon and nutmeg! Anyways, I omitted those spices and added onion and meat. AND they tasted delicious!!! It was a hit!! I was like--it's my headache.
8. GR Trip. On Sunday, while Jay was cutting wood, the kids and I headed up to Grand Rapids to see my mom and nephew. It was nice to get away for a bit with the kids...even when they started to break down towards the end! Both kids were awake almost the whole ride home. I sure wish our kids slept in the car!!!! Instead of fighting and bickering with each other.
7. Sew Much Fun. I am seriously addicted to sewing. I LOVE it. This week I tried making a few purses and they turned out totally adorable! I made two...and would love to spend all day sewing...but I have a few kids at home I need to care for:o)
6. Nana Here. Just Girls. SO, I have to admit. I always have big plans for when my mom comes down to visit. I know that with an extra pair of eyes on the kids...I'll hopefully be able to do a few more big chores/tasks around the house. Well, unfortunately this week--I was sick. First with sinus headaches and then a virus bug hit me as well. So, I was kinda out of it. It was and always is still great to have her around and the kids love it. Mal, Nana, and I were able to get out shopping one night--and Mal thought it was the best. "Just us girls." Riding the carousel, an ice cream cone from McDonald's, and new shoes were the highlight of her night! Oh and of course being able to stay up LATE!
5. Halloween Décor. My kids (especially Mal) love decorating for the seasons. She would not let it go until we had all of our decorations up AND our Halloween tree decorated. It is an exciting time of year...and I love being able to share it with my kiddos. Being home, I am able to enjoy the décor a bit more. Although I have had to put a few things away--THANKS to Clayton.
4. 31 LOVE. I went to a 31 bag party this weekend which was also a gold to cash party! I hit the jackpot--which wasn't even a ton of money. But for this SAHM--I'm loaded!:o) And I also won a door prize--a big tote. Made my day and weekend. Plus it was nice to get out for a bit and not have to worry about putting the kids to bed.
3. Claytonisms. Something is totally up with him. I'm not exactly sure what, but something has changed. He used to be pretty good about going to bed. With our nighttime routine and all. He'd even read books to himself AFTER and then just fall asleep. Not sure if he's growing or if this is the "terrible twos" but things have gone bad to worse in just a few weeks. I DREAD nap time and bedtime. 45-60 minutes later AND he's finally asleep. We've also decided to get a second opinion on his speech. We feel his frustration is definitely increasing...and are wondering if there is STILL something more we can do for him. Met with his pediatrician this past week to get a referral and he agrees as well (mind you Clayton had the mother of all poops there during this time!! Of course!!). So, we are trying out another speech therapist this week. Between his appointments, Mal's school, and my chiro visits--I feel like I'm constantly on the go! At least I have the luxury of being able to go to them...and not work.
2. Malloryisms. Mallory is amazing me daily! She remembered she had homework! I still am seriously stunned that she did! I don't think that I would even remember that! And she's FOUR! They've started letters in school last week (L was the first letter). And her "homework" was to write down as many L words that she could do. She was rattling them off! I'm glad this year is going SO well. Except for the fact that she is being chased by zombies during recess:o) But she is "Proud to be an American." The things a 4 year old can remember! One night this week after the kids had been sleeping awhile, I went in to cover Mal up more. She moved a little, and I told her "I love you" to which she in her sleep responded "I love you too."
1. Fall. I love this time of year. The cooler weather. Trees changing. Comfort foods. Windows open. Being able to enjoy our backyard. Seriously is the best! I found 4 frogs last night while we were out on the back deck. It was SO cute seeing the kids AND the dog so entertained by frogs. I can honestly say, I'm looking forward to putting away the kiddie pool and getting out the fire pit. Bring on the cooler weather (as long as it doesn't get TOO cold--like this morning!!).
I FINALLY finished a blog ON time.
(I started last week's...but never finished it).
It's so hard getting back into a schedule.
But we are getting there.
Enjoy this week!
Great weather I hear!
Until next week,
Mrs. Newell
September 23rd, 2013
As I start my second year at home, I'm STILL feeling great about our decision.
Not a day goes by that I don't think about what our life would be like--IF I was still working. More chaos, less time, more stress, less "me" time. I'm overall feeling completely blessed that I can be home. And blessed that I have moments like the one I'm having right now. As I sit here and type this, Mal is playing with different beads I bought her, talking to herself, totally content, right next to me. Or the moment I had this morning when Clay and I played with Mr. Potato Heads. Just the two of us--Mal was at school.
Sometimes it feels like I've been home years, and other days it feels like only a few months. But that's how motherhood rolls. Expect the unexpected. Enjoy the GOOD moments. And I'm glad to report I still am enjoying this new life I've created for us. And I'm pretty sure our kids are as well!:o) Or let's hope!
Top 10 for the Week:
10. Sinus Hate. I had the MOST horrible headaches this week--and this wasn't even the start of them! I went to my chiropractor several times, with little relief but not enough. I finally ended up at my regular physician's office and one of the doctors there prescribed a Z pack to kill the sinus infection. It worked!! Feeling SO much better. (However, I woke up this morning with a slight headache--my last day of the antibiotic. Let's hope this doesn't continue!).
9. Meatloaf Muffins. I bought a new cookbook (Against All Grain--great cookbook!!), and I've been trying a few recipes from there. This week I saw one in there for meatloaf muffins--or shall I say I thought I was reading one. Come to find out it was a vegetable muffin recipe;o) Silly me. I was kinda wondering why you would add cinnamon and nutmeg! Anyways, I omitted those spices and added onion and meat. AND they tasted delicious!!! It was a hit!! I was like--it's my headache.
8. GR Trip. On Sunday, while Jay was cutting wood, the kids and I headed up to Grand Rapids to see my mom and nephew. It was nice to get away for a bit with the kids...even when they started to break down towards the end! Both kids were awake almost the whole ride home. I sure wish our kids slept in the car!!!! Instead of fighting and bickering with each other.
7. Sew Much Fun. I am seriously addicted to sewing. I LOVE it. This week I tried making a few purses and they turned out totally adorable! I made two...and would love to spend all day sewing...but I have a few kids at home I need to care for:o)
6. Nana Here. Just Girls. SO, I have to admit. I always have big plans for when my mom comes down to visit. I know that with an extra pair of eyes on the kids...I'll hopefully be able to do a few more big chores/tasks around the house. Well, unfortunately this week--I was sick. First with sinus headaches and then a virus bug hit me as well. So, I was kinda out of it. It was and always is still great to have her around and the kids love it. Mal, Nana, and I were able to get out shopping one night--and Mal thought it was the best. "Just us girls." Riding the carousel, an ice cream cone from McDonald's, and new shoes were the highlight of her night! Oh and of course being able to stay up LATE!
5. Halloween Décor. My kids (especially Mal) love decorating for the seasons. She would not let it go until we had all of our decorations up AND our Halloween tree decorated. It is an exciting time of year...and I love being able to share it with my kiddos. Being home, I am able to enjoy the décor a bit more. Although I have had to put a few things away--THANKS to Clayton.
4. 31 LOVE. I went to a 31 bag party this weekend which was also a gold to cash party! I hit the jackpot--which wasn't even a ton of money. But for this SAHM--I'm loaded!:o) And I also won a door prize--a big tote. Made my day and weekend. Plus it was nice to get out for a bit and not have to worry about putting the kids to bed.
3. Claytonisms. Something is totally up with him. I'm not exactly sure what, but something has changed. He used to be pretty good about going to bed. With our nighttime routine and all. He'd even read books to himself AFTER and then just fall asleep. Not sure if he's growing or if this is the "terrible twos" but things have gone bad to worse in just a few weeks. I DREAD nap time and bedtime. 45-60 minutes later AND he's finally asleep. We've also decided to get a second opinion on his speech. We feel his frustration is definitely increasing...and are wondering if there is STILL something more we can do for him. Met with his pediatrician this past week to get a referral and he agrees as well (mind you Clayton had the mother of all poops there during this time!! Of course!!). So, we are trying out another speech therapist this week. Between his appointments, Mal's school, and my chiro visits--I feel like I'm constantly on the go! At least I have the luxury of being able to go to them...and not work.
2. Malloryisms. Mallory is amazing me daily! She remembered she had homework! I still am seriously stunned that she did! I don't think that I would even remember that! And she's FOUR! They've started letters in school last week (L was the first letter). And her "homework" was to write down as many L words that she could do. She was rattling them off! I'm glad this year is going SO well. Except for the fact that she is being chased by zombies during recess:o) But she is "Proud to be an American." The things a 4 year old can remember! One night this week after the kids had been sleeping awhile, I went in to cover Mal up more. She moved a little, and I told her "I love you" to which she in her sleep responded "I love you too."
1. Fall. I love this time of year. The cooler weather. Trees changing. Comfort foods. Windows open. Being able to enjoy our backyard. Seriously is the best! I found 4 frogs last night while we were out on the back deck. It was SO cute seeing the kids AND the dog so entertained by frogs. I can honestly say, I'm looking forward to putting away the kiddie pool and getting out the fire pit. Bring on the cooler weather (as long as it doesn't get TOO cold--like this morning!!).
I FINALLY finished a blog ON time.
(I started last week's...but never finished it).
It's so hard getting back into a schedule.
But we are getting there.
Enjoy this week!
Great weather I hear!
Until next week,
Mrs. Newell
Tuesday, September 17, 2013
Losing Motivation
Lately I've been struggling with finding motivation to blog.
Like, I'm dreading it,
EVERY time.
Like I find a few other things to do,
Before sitting down and writing.
So, I'm left with puzzlement.
What do I do?
Do I continue to be annoyed with a "homework assignment,"
Until, hopefully, one day my love of blogging comes back?
Who knows!
I'm indecisive.
BUT,
Unwilling to give up my diligent record of my weeks.
Of my family.
Of my kids.
So, here's another week!
This Week's Top Eight:
8. Leo. Is LOVED by our kids. Like TOO much. And it's funny because he will never go around them...unless they are sleeping. He's woken up both of them several times in the last week or so. SO much that we've had to lock him in the downstairs bathroom to keep him from doing so! I mean, it's hard enough putting them TO sleep, we don't need something waking them up. Right?!?!
7. Flying Kites. The three of us decided to fly kites this past week. It was SO adorable watching the kids try their best to get their kite up in the air. Mal had quite a bit of skill in doing so--she just ran as fast as she could all the time:o) While Clay, was a little too slow. He had the most problems and was the most frustrated. Sweet Mal tried to help him out, but it was no luck.
6. Potty Champ. May boy is doing well when I'm on it! One day this week while Mal was at school, Clay and I ran several errands in Kalamazoo. He used the public restroom TWICE!! And had dry diapers until 4:00 on TWO days! It's more ME getting on the bandwagon and keeping track.
5. Love of School. I have seen a change in Mal's attitude towards school. Last year, I felt it was just something she did. Something she liked doing but never really talked much about it. Or even wanted to "play" it at home. So, when this year, during the second week, she came home and was insistent on all three of us playing school--I was kinda excited. She was the teacher, I was the teacher. It was cute. This week, the learned what a vertical line looked like! Yes, people she came home and told me that. Plus she's really been into letters and trying to figure out what words start with different letters. Very encouraging for this momma.
4. Clayisms. I love my boy. And I know my boy. I know that he struggles to communicate. I know that he is now becoming extremely frustrated with this. I see this. Everyday. And I want SO badly to help him. To know what to do. To give him everything that he needs. To thrive. We've decided to see a private speech therapist. We are working on getting a referral. I just feel like there is something MORE we could be doing. And I will go and do whatever it takes to help him.
3. Malloryisms. "That's my boy!" referring to her brother. They were sitting up at the counter eating a snack and he was scarfing down his. It's amazing to me how much the depend on each other and then how much they can't stand each other.
2. Chicago. Great time in Chicago celebrating the last singledays of my girl Anne. Looking forward to her wedding in Atlanta in October!
1. 6 years. Jay and I marked our 6th wedding anniversary on Sunday. We were both recovering from a day or so away from our littles...so it was a very uneventful day. We are planning on celebrating when we head to Atlanta for my friend's wedding. It's funny to think it's been 6 years because somedays it seems like forever ago and others it feels like yesterday. Still in love with my man and still in love with our life together. Wouldn't have it any other way. Love you JW.
Like, I'm dreading it,
EVERY time.
Like I find a few other things to do,
Before sitting down and writing.
So, I'm left with puzzlement.
What do I do?
Do I continue to be annoyed with a "homework assignment,"
Until, hopefully, one day my love of blogging comes back?
Who knows!
I'm indecisive.
BUT,
Unwilling to give up my diligent record of my weeks.
Of my family.
Of my kids.
So, here's another week!
This Week's Top Eight:
8. Leo. Is LOVED by our kids. Like TOO much. And it's funny because he will never go around them...unless they are sleeping. He's woken up both of them several times in the last week or so. SO much that we've had to lock him in the downstairs bathroom to keep him from doing so! I mean, it's hard enough putting them TO sleep, we don't need something waking them up. Right?!?!
7. Flying Kites. The three of us decided to fly kites this past week. It was SO adorable watching the kids try their best to get their kite up in the air. Mal had quite a bit of skill in doing so--she just ran as fast as she could all the time:o) While Clay, was a little too slow. He had the most problems and was the most frustrated. Sweet Mal tried to help him out, but it was no luck.
6. Potty Champ. May boy is doing well when I'm on it! One day this week while Mal was at school, Clay and I ran several errands in Kalamazoo. He used the public restroom TWICE!! And had dry diapers until 4:00 on TWO days! It's more ME getting on the bandwagon and keeping track.
5. Love of School. I have seen a change in Mal's attitude towards school. Last year, I felt it was just something she did. Something she liked doing but never really talked much about it. Or even wanted to "play" it at home. So, when this year, during the second week, she came home and was insistent on all three of us playing school--I was kinda excited. She was the teacher, I was the teacher. It was cute. This week, the learned what a vertical line looked like! Yes, people she came home and told me that. Plus she's really been into letters and trying to figure out what words start with different letters. Very encouraging for this momma.
4. Clayisms. I love my boy. And I know my boy. I know that he struggles to communicate. I know that he is now becoming extremely frustrated with this. I see this. Everyday. And I want SO badly to help him. To know what to do. To give him everything that he needs. To thrive. We've decided to see a private speech therapist. We are working on getting a referral. I just feel like there is something MORE we could be doing. And I will go and do whatever it takes to help him.
3. Malloryisms. "That's my boy!" referring to her brother. They were sitting up at the counter eating a snack and he was scarfing down his. It's amazing to me how much the depend on each other and then how much they can't stand each other.
2. Chicago. Great time in Chicago celebrating the last singledays of my girl Anne. Looking forward to her wedding in Atlanta in October!
1. 6 years. Jay and I marked our 6th wedding anniversary on Sunday. We were both recovering from a day or so away from our littles...so it was a very uneventful day. We are planning on celebrating when we head to Atlanta for my friend's wedding. It's funny to think it's been 6 years because somedays it seems like forever ago and others it feels like yesterday. Still in love with my man and still in love with our life together. Wouldn't have it any other way. Love you JW.
Top 7
Top 7 for the Week:
7. Schedules. Mal started school this past week, which is an adjustment. I feel like our routine is all up in the air...and we will take awhile to get into the groove. Thank heavens it's only her at school. And not me. I still get to do the things I want to do.
6. Lake Cora. Our little secret getaway was visited by us THREE times this week. It was perfect. It IS perfect. I took the kids there by myself in the evening one day this past week. They LOVED it. I caught about 15 or so minnows. It truly was the perfect weather and the kids love it. It helps that they sleep well after going too!!
5. Potty Training. I've started with Clayton. He went poopy on the potty this past week which was huge. He is scared sh--less of doing it! But we are getting there. He definitely wants to. Which HELPS!
4. Clayisms. Clay has been breaking things. I know this is just the beginning. This week it was a few books, his piggy bank, and a canister of coffee. He also pooped on the potty--totally on his own without me saying a word. A small miracle.
3. Malloryisms. Quite a few cute sayings this week. She kissed me on the leg one day this week and states..."Did that go up to your heart? Did it think of me?" Sweetest thing ever. "It's okay Clayton. It's me Mallory." "Daddy didn't peal this orange so well." "Making chocolate chip cookies is too big of a chore for you, so I will help you."
2. Mal's First Day of School. She was so excited!! She came home telling me that a boy pulled her hand and there was a new girl in her class who like to ride her bike and had a kitty just like her.
1. Jay's Old. My hubby had his birthday this week--Labor Day to be exact. I ended up surprising him with a babysitter for dinner and then drinks out with friends. He LOVED it and was SO surprised. He did not see it coming. It's good to know that I can keep a good secret in every once and awhile:o)
Wednesday, August 28, 2013
The Blues
I'm adjusting okay.
I suppose.
Even though I'm not working,
Adjusting to Mal in school
And summer being over,
Has caused me to have a bit of--
THE summer-is-over BLUES.
This week I was...
Tired,
Cranky,
Low Energy,
Just not myself.
And today it dawned on me.
I'm definitely having a reality check.
Summer is almost over.
One weekend away.
From being gone.
Still amazes me how quickly it goes.
Here's to hoping I get into "the routine" before Thanksgiving.
***But I do know this, my concerns today (What day will Clay's speech be? My walk with the girls? Grocery shopping? Will I have time to sew?), are a lot different than two years ago (When am I going to find the time to correct papers? What am I going to do for dinners? What will my cutoff from school be?) And I couldn't be HAPPIER to have this be so.
Top 10 for the Week:
10. Candy Crush. I hate you. Seriously. I had to try it ONCE. To see what all the hype was about. Like I have TIME in my day to try and up my husband in levels. Maybe that's why I'm finally getting to my blog and oh yeah, it's Wednesday! I'm holding back the HUGE urge to go play a game right now.
9. A Prisoner. Ummmm...Mal locked herself in her room this week. TWICE. The first time, part of the lock in the doorknob came off. I had to grab Jay's ladder, climb through the window and mess around with the doorknob for it to finally open. The second time (which she closed the door on accident) I climbed through the window and just ended up taking the door off the hinges. This past weekend we bought new door handles and installed them. She was crying hysterically through the whole locked in room ordeal. And I have to admit, I was a bit paranoid myself!
8. Bed Wetter. Clay went the bed this week. Like REALLY wet the bed. Sheets, comforter, pillowS, everything! So, one day I spend washing ALL of our bedding. Might as well, right!?!? And I've never washed pillows. Is that gross?? Not sure. But it's done now.
7. Garage Saling. On Friday, we went with another family yard saling around. It was so much fun. The kids enjoyed watching a movie and snacks between sales and the mommas enjoyed being out and about. We didn't find as many deals as we would have liked to. I bought one thing for $1.00. But it was fun! And I'd love to do it again.
6. Open House. Mal had her school open house this past week. She was very pumped. Loved seeing her room and friends. She was extremely shy at first--not letting go of my leg. But once she saw her friends, she was fine. I'm thinking the structure and social aspect of school is going to be great for her!
5. Nana Here. My mom visited this week and we got a chance to spend a whole day shopping in Kalamazoo. It went by FAST. I was like--"Oh, we'll have time to do this, and that." Yeah right. It's amazing to me how quickly a day can go by without kids. It FLIES. We had fun.
4. CAT. We are now proud owners of a cat named Leo. Never would have thought I'd say that this early but we are and he's perfect for us. Such an easy going, potty trained, good with kids cat. We lucked out. And the kids can't get enough of him. I feel like they are smothering him. I have to tell Mallory several times a day to let him be and that he might not like her if she continues.
3. Clayisms. He is such a BOY. I keep saying this, but it's so true. He has bruises and cuts ALL over himself. I worry about all his cuts that they are too deep or that they will get infected. He never stops going, which means he never stops falling, which means he gets cuts and bruises. I know this is just the beginning. This week, he also had a few HUGE mosquito bites on him. A few on his face, arms, and legs. Seems they like him. A lot. Jay likes to say he's "off the charts." Seems Mal's been listening. We got a chance to go grocery shopping together and we were chatting how quiet it was without Clay (cause he's crazy loud in the car). She pipes up, "Yeah mom, he's off the charts!" Thanks Jay!
2. Malloryisms. Our little girl is growing up. She got her school haircut this week. Makes her look a lot older. She was worried that others weren't going to be able to recognize her. "Mom, no one is going to know it's me." Took a little bit to get used to her bangs...but now it's growing on me:o) She's starting to pick up more of my sayings...."That smells ridiculously bad"--referring to cow farm. "You know Leo, this is not the PROPER way to.."--I'm not even sure what she was telling him to do, but I LOVE her seriousness of it all. My mom and I also worked together to make her bag for school. It's adorable! And she was SO proud of it. She loves me sewing. And I truly appreciate her understanding of my love. Makes it all that much better.
1b. Back Deck Date. We have a beautiful backyard. But unfortunately with our backyard, comes bugs, unbearable heat, and an annoying irrigation pump. This past weekend, before all the heat, we were able to enjoy a "date" out on the back deck. A few drinks, music, chatter, it was great. And well needed. Our 6th year anniversary is coming up. Sometimes it seems like it's been forever, and others not so much. But I love that I still LOVE talking to him.
1a. This weekend was great. We had a no-plans-weekend. Accomplished a bit--spaghetti sauce canned, corn frozen, house cleaned. Had fun a big--Shopped, played outside, yard sales, played in the sprinkler. And relaxed. It was great. AND Saturday was one of THE best Saturdays of the summer. Just being US. A family. Love weekends like that!!!!
Well, I'm outta here.
Kids are both sleeping.
And it's time for me to catch up on Master Chef.
Have a great week friends!!
Until next week,
Mrs. Newell
I suppose.
Even though I'm not working,
Adjusting to Mal in school
And summer being over,
Has caused me to have a bit of--
THE summer-is-over BLUES.
This week I was...
Tired,
Cranky,
Low Energy,
Just not myself.
And today it dawned on me.
I'm definitely having a reality check.
Summer is almost over.
One weekend away.
From being gone.
Still amazes me how quickly it goes.
Here's to hoping I get into "the routine" before Thanksgiving.
***But I do know this, my concerns today (What day will Clay's speech be? My walk with the girls? Grocery shopping? Will I have time to sew?), are a lot different than two years ago (When am I going to find the time to correct papers? What am I going to do for dinners? What will my cutoff from school be?) And I couldn't be HAPPIER to have this be so.
Top 10 for the Week:
10. Candy Crush. I hate you. Seriously. I had to try it ONCE. To see what all the hype was about. Like I have TIME in my day to try and up my husband in levels. Maybe that's why I'm finally getting to my blog and oh yeah, it's Wednesday! I'm holding back the HUGE urge to go play a game right now.
9. A Prisoner. Ummmm...Mal locked herself in her room this week. TWICE. The first time, part of the lock in the doorknob came off. I had to grab Jay's ladder, climb through the window and mess around with the doorknob for it to finally open. The second time (which she closed the door on accident) I climbed through the window and just ended up taking the door off the hinges. This past weekend we bought new door handles and installed them. She was crying hysterically through the whole locked in room ordeal. And I have to admit, I was a bit paranoid myself!
8. Bed Wetter. Clay went the bed this week. Like REALLY wet the bed. Sheets, comforter, pillowS, everything! So, one day I spend washing ALL of our bedding. Might as well, right!?!? And I've never washed pillows. Is that gross?? Not sure. But it's done now.
7. Garage Saling. On Friday, we went with another family yard saling around. It was so much fun. The kids enjoyed watching a movie and snacks between sales and the mommas enjoyed being out and about. We didn't find as many deals as we would have liked to. I bought one thing for $1.00. But it was fun! And I'd love to do it again.
6. Open House. Mal had her school open house this past week. She was very pumped. Loved seeing her room and friends. She was extremely shy at first--not letting go of my leg. But once she saw her friends, she was fine. I'm thinking the structure and social aspect of school is going to be great for her!
5. Nana Here. My mom visited this week and we got a chance to spend a whole day shopping in Kalamazoo. It went by FAST. I was like--"Oh, we'll have time to do this, and that." Yeah right. It's amazing to me how quickly a day can go by without kids. It FLIES. We had fun.
4. CAT. We are now proud owners of a cat named Leo. Never would have thought I'd say that this early but we are and he's perfect for us. Such an easy going, potty trained, good with kids cat. We lucked out. And the kids can't get enough of him. I feel like they are smothering him. I have to tell Mallory several times a day to let him be and that he might not like her if she continues.
3. Clayisms. He is such a BOY. I keep saying this, but it's so true. He has bruises and cuts ALL over himself. I worry about all his cuts that they are too deep or that they will get infected. He never stops going, which means he never stops falling, which means he gets cuts and bruises. I know this is just the beginning. This week, he also had a few HUGE mosquito bites on him. A few on his face, arms, and legs. Seems they like him. A lot. Jay likes to say he's "off the charts." Seems Mal's been listening. We got a chance to go grocery shopping together and we were chatting how quiet it was without Clay (cause he's crazy loud in the car). She pipes up, "Yeah mom, he's off the charts!" Thanks Jay!
2. Malloryisms. Our little girl is growing up. She got her school haircut this week. Makes her look a lot older. She was worried that others weren't going to be able to recognize her. "Mom, no one is going to know it's me." Took a little bit to get used to her bangs...but now it's growing on me:o) She's starting to pick up more of my sayings...."That smells ridiculously bad"--referring to cow farm. "You know Leo, this is not the PROPER way to.."--I'm not even sure what she was telling him to do, but I LOVE her seriousness of it all. My mom and I also worked together to make her bag for school. It's adorable! And she was SO proud of it. She loves me sewing. And I truly appreciate her understanding of my love. Makes it all that much better.
1b. Back Deck Date. We have a beautiful backyard. But unfortunately with our backyard, comes bugs, unbearable heat, and an annoying irrigation pump. This past weekend, before all the heat, we were able to enjoy a "date" out on the back deck. A few drinks, music, chatter, it was great. And well needed. Our 6th year anniversary is coming up. Sometimes it seems like it's been forever, and others not so much. But I love that I still LOVE talking to him.
1a. This weekend was great. We had a no-plans-weekend. Accomplished a bit--spaghetti sauce canned, corn frozen, house cleaned. Had fun a big--Shopped, played outside, yard sales, played in the sprinkler. And relaxed. It was great. AND Saturday was one of THE best Saturdays of the summer. Just being US. A family. Love weekends like that!!!!
Well, I'm outta here.
Kids are both sleeping.
And it's time for me to catch up on Master Chef.
Have a great week friends!!
Until next week,
Mrs. Newell
Monday, August 19, 2013
Top 10
Top 10 for the Week:
10. Cooler Weather. Up until later last week, we had MUCH cooler temperatures. I had mixed feelings about this. First, how strange that the weather is changing so drastically. Second, it cancels all the FUN water summer activities! And thirdly, does this mean we will have winter early??? The kids and I still enjoyed lots of time outside riding bikes, looking at bugs, and just being outside.
9. Spider Web. Earlier in the week, I saw a few spider webs located in some of our flowerbed landscape on the way to our backyard. I had a brilliant idea of "feeding" the spiders. We went on a bug hug searching for spider food, AKA moths, flies, etc. Yeah, all we found was an earwig. Turns out, spiders don't like them, but it's pretty funny to watch the fight between them! The kids loved it. And I swear we were there watching for over an hour (that and searching for more food). The spiders are still there...and we still continue to try to feed them. They don't like crickets, centipedes, worms, or dead moths. Just to let you know.
8. Impromptu Visit. To a friend's house was greatly appreciated! A golf cart ride in the woods and fresh blackberries were a hit!
7. Chiro Visit. We planned on meeting up afterwards with friends at a park. On the way, Mal asked if I was going "to get my back scratched first" or if we were going to the park first. Cutest things ever. No honey, I'm getting my back cracked. Don't worry, I didn't say that. Turns out I can now start reintroducing coffee and caffeine back into my diet!! I am SO excited!! It was the perfect park day too--the weather was perfect! And the park is a secret awesome fun filled getaway place for the kids! We brought bikes and scooters...both kids were exhausted!! It was a blast by all.
6. Blueberry Picking. I have been wanting to take the kids blueberry picking for the last few weeks now. We finally got around to doing it on Friday. I went to the place in Decatur--where I remembered visiting one year during summer school. Cutest little place. NO ONE was there. It was funny watching the two kids pick. Mal was very precise about getting the right berries. ONLY picking the biggest, bluest ones. Clayton just grabbed a branch of them and shoved them in his mouth. When he realized that all of them were not ripe, he ended up spitting them out. It was hilarious. Mal kept trying to show him, but he wanted nothing to do with her. Just the berries. He ate a LOT. I wish I would have had more time to look around at the cute shop--but with all the breakables and 2 kids, I had NO time. Next time. And I'm bringing my mom. She'd love it there.
5. Lake Cora. Another hidden treasure. Met a few friends at the public access. The smallest beach and swimming area but it was perfect for us. We were the only ones there. And it is SO close to our house. Mal loved practicing her swimming skills, playing in the sand, and making a "pool." Clayton loved walking out into the water (up to his chin I swear! That boy has no fear), playing with the trucks in the sand, and the rocks. I thought the minnows pecking at my feet were fun. Overall, so much fun. I'm bummed I didn't know about this until the end of the summer. Oh well. We WILL be going there again this week.
4. Clayisms. Oh Clay. What are we going to do with you?? He seriously is the cutest, sweetest boy I know, but he is also so "off the charts" (as Jay puts it). I should really just say that nothing surprises me with him. But it still does. This reference is more to this week's happenings...so you'll have to wait until next week's blog. This week, he actually has started doing two things that are SO normal at this age and I feel like it's taken him a bit longer than most to get there. He NOW watches TV and actually even requests it. In his "TV" words. Clay will sit down and watch a program--Wild Kratts his still #1 in his book or anything with animals in it. He's also started reading books on his OWN right before bedtime and nap time. Ummmm...this has become a LIFESAVER. I'm not going to get too excited about it...because it hasn't even been a week since this behavior has started. And I would hate to jinx this. Period. Still BIG time into trains. Carries them everywhere. SO cute.
3. Malloryisms. Mal has SUCH a great week. Her sweetness and thoughtfulness truly shined through this week. I let her know that I was staying home again this year. I honestly don't even know if she understands this or even if she knew. But I told her and she was elated! Hugging and kissing me nonstop which caused Clayton to follow suit. I was bombarded with hugs and kisses from my favorite kiddos. It was a great moment. That night she also told me "I never want to be without you" as I put her to bed. I was stunned. And filled with pure joy and love. My sweet gal.
She's been obsessed with her bike. Riding it as much as she can. We've been going on walk/bike rides together. She LOVES this. I love that she loves to ride her bike since I used to be a big biker (I miss biking). She's getting really good--almost to the point of getting rid of her training wheels. She can also ride up our big hill and down it. Big deal in our house. One day this week when Clay was throwing one of his two year old fits, she asked if she could lay down with him and take a nap. I was like sure, why not?!?! It was cute to see her talking to him, "Now Clay, it's okay. Just calm down. You really should just take a nap. I'll lay down here with you." And then giggles. Screams. And they are both up--no rest/nap time that day! Go figure! Her vocabulary and language is growing. On our way home from the zoo this past weekend she told Jay "If you be so nice, could you give my bunny some broccoli?" Her bunny that she's going to get--like 20 years from now:o)
2. Zoo. Went with our fellow Northrup Clan. SO much fun. Toured the park, had a picnic, and was home around 3:00. Good time had by all. Mal walked almost the entire way and Clayton was extremely close behind. I think they are STILL trying to catch up on sleep from that day!
1. Perfect Friday. The end of the week can be kinda rough. Just sometimes I'm ready for the weekend...for a little break from being ON all the time. Well, this Friday was such a great day for us. From blueberry picking to meeting a few friends at the lake, we had a GREAT day. One of those days that make all the others better. I LOVE days like those. And thank God they come around here and there.
Looking back on the week, it was a GREAT week. I didn't have anything planned, and it turned out to be SO fun. Why did I feel so restless about it then?!?! Not sure.
I'm tired.
Time to head to bed.
It's only Monday, and BOY do I have some stories to tell for next week!
Means a great week ahead right?!?!
Anyhow...
Have a great week!!
Until next week,
Mrs. Newell
10. Cooler Weather. Up until later last week, we had MUCH cooler temperatures. I had mixed feelings about this. First, how strange that the weather is changing so drastically. Second, it cancels all the FUN water summer activities! And thirdly, does this mean we will have winter early??? The kids and I still enjoyed lots of time outside riding bikes, looking at bugs, and just being outside.
9. Spider Web. Earlier in the week, I saw a few spider webs located in some of our flowerbed landscape on the way to our backyard. I had a brilliant idea of "feeding" the spiders. We went on a bug hug searching for spider food, AKA moths, flies, etc. Yeah, all we found was an earwig. Turns out, spiders don't like them, but it's pretty funny to watch the fight between them! The kids loved it. And I swear we were there watching for over an hour (that and searching for more food). The spiders are still there...and we still continue to try to feed them. They don't like crickets, centipedes, worms, or dead moths. Just to let you know.
8. Impromptu Visit. To a friend's house was greatly appreciated! A golf cart ride in the woods and fresh blackberries were a hit!
7. Chiro Visit. We planned on meeting up afterwards with friends at a park. On the way, Mal asked if I was going "to get my back scratched first" or if we were going to the park first. Cutest things ever. No honey, I'm getting my back cracked. Don't worry, I didn't say that. Turns out I can now start reintroducing coffee and caffeine back into my diet!! I am SO excited!! It was the perfect park day too--the weather was perfect! And the park is a secret awesome fun filled getaway place for the kids! We brought bikes and scooters...both kids were exhausted!! It was a blast by all.
6. Blueberry Picking. I have been wanting to take the kids blueberry picking for the last few weeks now. We finally got around to doing it on Friday. I went to the place in Decatur--where I remembered visiting one year during summer school. Cutest little place. NO ONE was there. It was funny watching the two kids pick. Mal was very precise about getting the right berries. ONLY picking the biggest, bluest ones. Clayton just grabbed a branch of them and shoved them in his mouth. When he realized that all of them were not ripe, he ended up spitting them out. It was hilarious. Mal kept trying to show him, but he wanted nothing to do with her. Just the berries. He ate a LOT. I wish I would have had more time to look around at the cute shop--but with all the breakables and 2 kids, I had NO time. Next time. And I'm bringing my mom. She'd love it there.
5. Lake Cora. Another hidden treasure. Met a few friends at the public access. The smallest beach and swimming area but it was perfect for us. We were the only ones there. And it is SO close to our house. Mal loved practicing her swimming skills, playing in the sand, and making a "pool." Clayton loved walking out into the water (up to his chin I swear! That boy has no fear), playing with the trucks in the sand, and the rocks. I thought the minnows pecking at my feet were fun. Overall, so much fun. I'm bummed I didn't know about this until the end of the summer. Oh well. We WILL be going there again this week.
4. Clayisms. Oh Clay. What are we going to do with you?? He seriously is the cutest, sweetest boy I know, but he is also so "off the charts" (as Jay puts it). I should really just say that nothing surprises me with him. But it still does. This reference is more to this week's happenings...so you'll have to wait until next week's blog. This week, he actually has started doing two things that are SO normal at this age and I feel like it's taken him a bit longer than most to get there. He NOW watches TV and actually even requests it. In his "TV" words. Clay will sit down and watch a program--Wild Kratts his still #1 in his book or anything with animals in it. He's also started reading books on his OWN right before bedtime and nap time. Ummmm...this has become a LIFESAVER. I'm not going to get too excited about it...because it hasn't even been a week since this behavior has started. And I would hate to jinx this. Period. Still BIG time into trains. Carries them everywhere. SO cute.
3. Malloryisms. Mal has SUCH a great week. Her sweetness and thoughtfulness truly shined through this week. I let her know that I was staying home again this year. I honestly don't even know if she understands this or even if she knew. But I told her and she was elated! Hugging and kissing me nonstop which caused Clayton to follow suit. I was bombarded with hugs and kisses from my favorite kiddos. It was a great moment. That night she also told me "I never want to be without you" as I put her to bed. I was stunned. And filled with pure joy and love. My sweet gal.
She's been obsessed with her bike. Riding it as much as she can. We've been going on walk/bike rides together. She LOVES this. I love that she loves to ride her bike since I used to be a big biker (I miss biking). She's getting really good--almost to the point of getting rid of her training wheels. She can also ride up our big hill and down it. Big deal in our house. One day this week when Clay was throwing one of his two year old fits, she asked if she could lay down with him and take a nap. I was like sure, why not?!?! It was cute to see her talking to him, "Now Clay, it's okay. Just calm down. You really should just take a nap. I'll lay down here with you." And then giggles. Screams. And they are both up--no rest/nap time that day! Go figure! Her vocabulary and language is growing. On our way home from the zoo this past weekend she told Jay "If you be so nice, could you give my bunny some broccoli?" Her bunny that she's going to get--like 20 years from now:o)
2. Zoo. Went with our fellow Northrup Clan. SO much fun. Toured the park, had a picnic, and was home around 3:00. Good time had by all. Mal walked almost the entire way and Clayton was extremely close behind. I think they are STILL trying to catch up on sleep from that day!
1. Perfect Friday. The end of the week can be kinda rough. Just sometimes I'm ready for the weekend...for a little break from being ON all the time. Well, this Friday was such a great day for us. From blueberry picking to meeting a few friends at the lake, we had a GREAT day. One of those days that make all the others better. I LOVE days like those. And thank God they come around here and there.
Looking back on the week, it was a GREAT week. I didn't have anything planned, and it turned out to be SO fun. Why did I feel so restless about it then?!?! Not sure.
I'm tired.
Time to head to bed.
It's only Monday, and BOY do I have some stories to tell for next week!
Means a great week ahead right?!?!
Anyhow...
Have a great week!!
Until next week,
Mrs. Newell
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